Are you open to or would you pursue any sort of intimate relationship with a bisexual person?

[jennifer_bloom]

There was a Jewish rabbi who said that love is not enough to sustain a committed relationship but you needed mutual respect and compatibility and shared values. I agree with this.

[DizzyDesii]

No. If a guy is into guys, he is gay to me. They can call it bi but he is gay to me and im not into gay guys

[OlderAndWiser]

I married a bisexual woman. When she wanted sexual attention from a male, I could satisfy her. When she wanted sexual attention from a female, I had nothing to offer her. She cheated with another female and we got divorced. Never again.

[TheorionMage]

For a time, in the late '70's while we're BOTH in the Army, I had the privilege to have a 'friend-with-benefits' with a magnificent bi-female.

Eventually, there reached a point where SEVERAL of her OTHER paramours proposed marriage with her.
I was not 'privy' to their situation.

When she broke the news to me and asked my opinion
I said: "Sherry, if I thought I stood a snowball's chance in Hell, I'd propose to you as wel! l"
She pouted, looked dejected saying: "You're NO help..." as I happily drove her into my mattress. LOL ;)

[Cherry234]

I would like to have a partner that is straight but it's not a dealbreaker for me if he's bi. I can be kinda picky and I don't want to have too many dealbreakers. I'm not offended that you don't want to be with a bi person. That's your personal choice and it's no one else's business. I also hate it when people try to shame other people because they don't want to be with trans people (i. e. calling them transphobes). I'm not sure the majority of the population does that. Maybe just a minority do. You can't control who you're attracted to after all

[TheUniqueOne96]

Well, it depends how bi they are.

Basically, I'm not 100% straight, but in terms of any kind of same gender attraction I have, it's more of a sexual fantasy thing, like I'm really turned on by the idea of a woman dominating sexually, the moans/groans of a guy, the aesthetic of a dick and the idea of a chick with a dick, but visually, I'm not attracted to a guy, nor emotionally.

The only biological male I'd be attracted to, is a transwoman who's convincingly transitioned and in terms of dating them, I don't rule it out, but lean towards no, as the idea of them being born a male, can turn me off to the point where I'd say no.

Generally speaking, you can tell the difference between a man and woman and in terms of physical attraction, I'm only attracted to the latter.

If they're bi to the same extent I am, then yes, I'd be with them, but if they're just regularly bi, then only if they preferred men, but even then, no certainty, like with dating the trans-person.

[Sarahr123]

No way. I would never be with a man who sucks dicks or has sex with other men. I have no problem with gay men who just sleep with other gay men but I don’t want to have sexual relations with a man who has sex with men. I want 100% straight.

Even if he is only 1% gay he is still bisexual and I don’t want him. If he thinks about getting fucked by a man I don’t want him. I want straight men only.

[MCheetah]

Absolutely not. A HARD pass! Only ones I'd be more closed-off to are transpeople. I don't want to have anything to do romantically with women who don't like me (or men, in general). They can be part-time lesbians, abusing and exploiting males all they want, while they sleep with women every weekend, but I want NO PART of that lifestyle, trans partners, or polyamorous partners, whatsoever. All three of those types tend to be in the same social bubble, anyway.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. The immature part of me liked hearing the details about her previous sexual experiences with other women. Also yes there is possibility she might be open to a 3some. However there is no guarantee there. But it’s more possible.

However the more mature part of me gets very hesitant about this. There is much higher chance of her cheating. While a part of me doesn’t feel the same anger if she cheated with a woman (bad) vs another man (deal breaker) I do know another woman is much more capable of manipulating her into disliking me. The emotional cheating is a huge threat.

A younger me would say I don’t mind. But the older me knows this isn’t a good idea.

[normalice]

It's fine. Indeed if I had a bi girlfriend she'd have my blessing in regards to sleeping with other women. I understand women are sexy. But I can't be one. She'd have to get that elsewhere if she needs it. I would only say no oversized toys allowed and if we are living together then i get priority over her girlfriend (s) when it comes to sexual needs.

[ChrisMaster69]

I’ve had a few ex gfs that are bisexual.

nothing wrong with it, one did not mention it until a few months in to dating.

the thing is it does not matter if they are bisexual or straight, you are dating them, as long as you have trust and faithful then zero problems.

If they never said you would never know.

[CurlyGirl42]

Yeah.. and I have at least been with one who were bi-curious and had tried out things.
I don't always ask about the past of guys I am intimate with.. actually I think some had stated it in their online profile.. don't remember if it was anyone I actually ended up with, I really do not think much of it.

[tatianamay]

No lol, I prefer dating a straight male. Things would be less complicated. However, people can date whomever they want. This is just my preference :)

[siegetiming]

I feel like a Bi person will just abandon you when they see a female or male they are more interested in. Since they like all genders, it's two times more competition just to keep the love that you are receiving. Plus, my crush is Bi and it's been subtracting sleep from my schedule lmao

[ThumbJack]

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being bi. It’s more dependent on who the person is and their values and character, not so much their race, age, or sexual orientation or even looks really sometimes superficial stuff is empty.

[melanieeeB]

No never! I know for sure that I would feel like I wasn't good enough, cause the person likes both men and women and well I am just a woman and can't give him more

[Anonymous]

I know someone who actually did just this, got married and they brought another woman into the relationship. They both wanted to marry her, but couldn't legally do so.

Wanting to stay out of the spot light, they didn't pursue legal action.

You could say its a polygamist marriage, or was... until the two wives started getting intimate and now its moved beyond that.

[Twalli]

Bisexuals are not in any way inferior to heterosexuals. They just feel attraction to both genders. I don't care if the girl that chooses to date me finds other girls attractive. She finds me attractive and wants to date me. That was her choice, she had a larger pool to choose from, but she still picked me.

[ObscuredBeyond]

They are super prone to cheating, and umpteen times as likely to be manipulative and pathological liars. I'll pass.

[SlightlyEccentric]

If you're asking would I date someone who is bi while either of us are already in a relationship, the answer is no. If both of us are single, yes I would.

[SunnySensei]

I don't mind being with a bi sexual girl if I am her only partner at the moment, Miss, who she dated before me or if things don't work out and she dates after me is not anything I am worried about.

[Idkanything55528]

I dont know, I've never been with one to know. I dont think It would matter as long as we are into the same stuff. I think that's the area where you get stumped.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I doesn't mind if she is bi but I ain't doing threesome or I don't want to experience being cheated on doesn't matter if it with a man or a woman I don't do well with cheaters.

[hahahmm]

Nah. 1. Only around 7% of each gender is bisexual. i'd have to go out of my way to even find a bisexual & why would I do that? What's the point, exactly. 2. I wouldn't knowingly take somebody seriously who is confused about what they want.

[suisuiola]

I don't mind dating or pursuing a relationship with a bi person. If they like me, then they like me and I trust that person.

[cute_short_nerd]

Your sexuality is your business and if they don't respect it then leave them and go for someone else that does

[Miristheiss]

No... I would have never been with someone bi for a romantic relationship.

[FakeName123]

Dealbreaker. Mainly because bisexuality comes with a whole lot of baggage psychologically speaking. Dark triad and such.

[Ttrthseker]

Mostly men have no problem with bisexual women because its an opportunity for them to have sex with an other woman but if a woman find that the guy is bisexual its a huge trun off and consider as gay!

[Anonymous]

sometimes i think people get the wrong ideas between bi sexuals and bi curious girls based on what some people below have said. Both can be loyal BUT their sexuality does play a role. I have a bi girlfriend now. It's cool and she shares her female friends with me at her encouragement. She likes to watch and she's pushed for it, not me. The rules are the only dick in her is me. That seems to be a good arrangement to her and it's fine with me.

[Asianguy123]

I don't think anything wrong with bi people. I mean... straight are fooling around all the time so why sexuality has to be something? I mean if you are looking for a monogamous relationship I mean good luck. in reality is we want freedom

[Wester1967]

As long as the body count is super low and we are exclusive. Otherwise miss me

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not convinced a bi person wouldn't cheat, and I'm not interested in polygamy.

[Dchrls78104]

Never. Only natural born and fully heterosexual females would interest me.

[humpbackjack]

I’ve messed with several bi females before I was married and my wife is bi curious. I had a lot of fun back then

[Iron_Man]

Well that’s a decadent game Leading to a bunch of threesomes that also causes problems down the road. Cheating on the guy

[Anonymous]

No, I think this would make things too complicated
I would prefer to date a straight person

[Pumpkinspice009]

No I won’t marry a bi but I’d have intimacy with them

[sarahlumpkin]

I think you're likely to end up on a "not as we know it" girlfriend status.

[Rippersavage]

I have no problem with being with a bisexual girl. People keep mentioning that bisexual people are more likely to cheat but in my opinion being bisexual doesn't make you a cheater, being a cheater makes you a cheater

[dudeinohio]

Nope. Been there. Got cheated on with another woman

[Babygirl_S]

I don't mind but I prefer straight guys. I find it a little funny when I see two guys kissing but it doesn't offend me.

[Anonymous]

I married a bisexual male, and my best friend is a bisexual female. Let's just say my sex life is amazing.

[Anonymous]

Never. You're fucking nuts if you think you can trust bisexual people to be faithful in a relationship. Bisexual women are not attractive to me AT ALL. I like frisky, wild, and vibrant heterosexual women.

[DumBear]

I've dated straight, bi, and pansexual people. Its been wonderful each time especially with the bi and pansexual girls because it turns me on more.

[m33lad]

Maybes me or maybes more guys when I was younger I used to find bisexual girls very attractive now that I’m older I find it very irritating

[Alessia1993]

If she truly single I have no problem dating a bi woman. Lot of bi women who claim to be “single” turns out she married or has a boyfriend. That’s where I have a problem.

[SenseiSeptred]

I am a Bisexual person myself, and I am in a polyamorous relationship myself

[okeydoke]

I am a bi person and I most often find myself dating other bi people.

[Anonymous]

No, I've done that before and I'll never do it again.

[Echosoul]

Well, I did so there's that 😆. Honestly doesn't bother me one way or other other unless she's in a relationship with someone else at the same times (poly).

[emilley_]

I would be too jealous and worried they’re not fully satisfied

[Guanfei]

I don't mind, but as I said, that would be twice more chances that she finds someone better than me.

[ajafaro]

I am a straight man and I don't care if my partner is bisexual or heterosexual as long as we are not in a relationship

[Anonymous]

No. Bisexual girls are 90% gay half the month just from the experience I've had from them

[Anonymous]

My gf’s bi. I’m bi. It actually works out fine. We’re dedicated to our relationship. Many people don’t think that would work, but for us, it does

[ChiPaPa]

Yeah, she'd have to accept being with me only, no sidechicks or dudes, nothing. Miss me with that shit.

[HiAndeé]

I wouldn't mind as long as they're open and honest about it.

[Phoenix98]

No it's not something I'm open to.

[Morgador]

I had a girlfriend that was bisexual. I had no issue with it

[WowwGirl]

No straight woman don't rock that way

[Avicenna]

Nope