I have realised that this is topic sometimes causes arguements because some people chooses not to be with bi people. I want to hear the why not reasons for it.
Personally, I wouldn't, l dont care if people are offended by my decision not to be intimate with bi people but we dont view many things in the same aspect so its a no for me.
Yes I dont mind being with a bi person.
No, I prefer not to be with a bi person.
Maybe, I dont have prefrebce for that kind of thing.
Maybe, you dont know who you can fall for.
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Please select your age
Updates
1 y
I thought this question have been ignored and went on with my life for 2 days, but wow I am so surprised Thank you all for your replies, I appreciate all of them, they even have me laughing. I want to award 2 males as well but it will not allow me. This is my first time doing this I will be mindful in the future 😢❤.
Are you open to or would you pursue any sort of intimate relationship with a bisexual person?
There was a Jewish rabbi who said that love is not enough to sustain a committed relationship but you needed mutual respect and compatibility and shared values. I agree with this.
Same here. If anyone is into anyone of the same gender, they're gay to me. I won't say bisexual isn't an actual thing, but I just consider it to be nothing more than "gay with extra steps." And I'm not interested in being any woman's girlfriend. So I say to them, "Good bi."
Being gay implies you are a guy who only dates guys. Being bi means you will date men or women. No being bi is not the same thing as being gay. I don't know where you got the idea that they are the same thing.
I married a bisexual woman. When she wanted sexual attention from a male, I could satisfy her. When she wanted sexual attention from a female, I had nothing to offer her. She cheated with another female and we got divorced. Never again.
For a time, in the late '70's while we're BOTH in the Army, I had the privilege to have a 'friend-with-benefits' with a magnificent bi-female.
Eventually, there reached a point where SEVERAL of her OTHER paramours proposed marriage with her. I was not 'privy' to their situation.
When she broke the news to me and asked my opinion I said: "Sherry, if I thought I stood a snowball's chance in Hell, I'd propose to you as wel! l" She pouted, looked dejected saying: "You're NO help..." as I happily drove her into my mattress. LOL ;)
I would like to have a partner that is straight but it's not a dealbreaker for me if he's bi. I can be kinda picky and I don't want to have too many dealbreakers. I'm not offended that you don't want to be with a bi person. That's your personal choice and it's no one else's business. I also hate it when people try to shame other people because they don't want to be with trans people (i. e. calling them transphobes). I'm not sure the majority of the population does that. Maybe just a minority do. You can't control who you're attracted to after all
Basically, I'm not 100% straight, but in terms of any kind of same gender attraction I have, it's more of a sexual fantasy thing, like I'm really turned on by the idea of a woman dominating sexually, the moans/groans of a guy, the aesthetic of a dick and the idea of a chick with a dick, but visually, I'm not attracted to a guy, nor emotionally.
The only biological male I'd be attracted to, is a transwoman who's convincingly transitioned and in terms of dating them, I don't rule it out, but lean towards no, as the idea of them being born a male, can turn me off to the point where I'd say no.
Generally speaking, you can tell the difference between a man and woman and in terms of physical attraction, I'm only attracted to the latter.
If they're bi to the same extent I am, then yes, I'd be with them, but if they're just regularly bi, then only if they preferred men, but even then, no certainty, like with dating the trans-person.
No way. I would never be with a man who sucks dicks or has sex with other men. I have no problem with gay men who just sleep with other gay men but I don’t want to have sexual relations with a man who has sex with men. I want 100% straight.
Even if he is only 1% gay he is still bisexual and I don’t want him. If he thinks about getting fucked by a man I don’t want him. I want straight men only.
Absolutely not. A HARD pass! Only ones I'd be more closed-off to are transpeople. I don't want to have anything to do romantically with women who don't like me (or men, in general). They can be part-time lesbians, abusing and exploiting males all they want, while they sleep with women every weekend, but I want NO PART of that lifestyle, trans partners, or polyamorous partners, whatsoever. All three of those types tend to be in the same social bubble, anyway.
React
Like
Helpful
Funny
Disagree
6
Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)
1 y
Yes and no. The immature part of me liked hearing the details about her previous sexual experiences with other women. Also yes there is possibility she might be open to a 3some. However there is no guarantee there. But it’s more possible.
However the more mature part of me gets very hesitant about this. There is much higher chance of her cheating. While a part of me doesn’t feel the same anger if she cheated with a woman (bad) vs another man (deal breaker) I do know another woman is much more capable of manipulating her into disliking me. The emotional cheating is a huge threat.
A younger me would say I don’t mind. But the older me knows this isn’t a good idea.
React
Like
Helpful
Funny
Disagree
2
Reply See 1 replies
Opinion Owner
1 y
I might add there are a lot of identifying bi women out there now. Some of them haven’t even ever done it with another woman but still they say this.
It's fine. Indeed if I had a bi girlfriend she'd have my blessing in regards to sleeping with other women. I understand women are sexy. But I can't be one. She'd have to get that elsewhere if she needs it. I would only say no oversized toys allowed and if we are living together then i get priority over her girlfriend (s) when it comes to sexual needs.
Yeah.. and I have at least been with one who were bi-curious and had tried out things. I don't always ask about the past of guys I am intimate with.. actually I think some had stated it in their online profile.. don't remember if it was anyone I actually ended up with, I really do not think much of it.
I feel like a Bi person will just abandon you when they see a female or male they are more interested in. Since they like all genders, it's two times more competition just to keep the love that you are receiving. Plus, my crush is Bi and it's been subtracting sleep from my schedule lmao
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being bi. It’s more dependent on who the person is and their values and character, not so much their race, age, or sexual orientation or even looks really sometimes superficial stuff is empty.
No never! I know for sure that I would feel like I wasn't good enough, cause the person likes both men and women and well I am just a woman and can't give him more
React
Like
Helpful
Funny
Disagree
2
Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)
1 y
I know someone who actually did just this, got married and they brought another woman into the relationship. They both wanted to marry her, but couldn't legally do so.
Wanting to stay out of the spot light, they didn't pursue legal action.
You could say its a polygamist marriage, or was... until the two wives started getting intimate and now its moved beyond that.
Nah. 1. Only around 7% of each gender is bisexual. i'd have to go out of my way to even find a bisexual & why would I do that? What's the point, exactly. 2. I wouldn't knowingly take somebody seriously who is confused about what they want.
Where do you live? Back in the US, a good 3 out of 5 women were lesbians, like the question here is describing. I'd have to go out of my way to find a STRAIGHT woman, and they'd all be taken or off the market. Pretty much the ONLY single women that existed in my city were the gay ones; you could walk around on the street and chances are you'd run into more of them than heterosexual females.
@MCheetah U. S. I double checked.. it's even lower than I thought.. according to poll it's way less. "Gallup's latest update on lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender identification finds 5.6% of U. S. adults identifying as LGBT." news.gallup.com/.../...-rises-latest-estimate.aspx
I think there's a lot of women who experiment on college campuses tho. And yeah, usually the best catches are taken most of the time.
If you're asking would I date someone who is bi while either of us are already in a relationship, the answer is no. If both of us are single, yes I would.
Bisexuals are not in any way inferior to heterosexuals. They just feel attraction to both genders. I don't care if the girl that chooses to date me finds other girls attractive. She finds me attractive and wants to date me. That was her choice, she had a larger pool to choose from, but she still picked me.
I don't mind being with a bi sexual girl if I am her only partner at the moment, Miss, who she dated before me or if things don't work out and she dates after me is not anything I am worried about.
Most Helpful Opinions