Well first of all just because somebody thinks that they're ugly doesn't mean that they are ugly because there's no such thing as the only comes from the inside and that's the part that would hurt me the most is C-Murder out of their way to be somebody else but they lied to me and tried to make me believe something else that's the part right there that pisses me off first of all you don't know me so I'm not going to judge anybody I don't look at Beauty on the outside as if that is who you are I look at beauty on the inside that's the person that you truly are and that's where Beauty actually comes from so it would disappoint me even more first of all that I was catfish that's one thing but to make me believe something else that's false is a big lie and that's the part that pisses me off is that you had to lie to me that just changes everything and I don't want to even be involved whether it's a catfish or not
I would continue with the date, but I would explain up front that this would lead nowhere romantic. If she would like to be my friend, we'll see how that goes.
I would also explain that this catfishing is dishonest and only hurts everyone involved. I would suggest that she needs to find ways to think of herself with greater esteem that are separated from how she appears. Her appearance may be unattractive, but that doesn't make her less valuable as a human being. She needs to be honest with others and make her life extraordinary even if she can never find romance.
I don't understand. I'm a bit confused.
So the guy on the pic is actually a different person with the guy on Zoom, or did he just photoshop himself? Cause, if that's photoshop, it's really amazing. Even when I use a filter on my pics, I don't look like a totally different person, just a better version of myself
On a side note, although I don't condone his actions and lying (I personally would never lead someone on like this, it would be a huge waste of my time and their time), I can understand why these people do it. Society is really shallow about looks. These people have probably been ostracized and made fun of for their whole lives
Look at Mildred's condescending tone and reaction when she says "you'll find someone some day". I feel like if it wasn't for his looks, they would have forgiven the rest of his lies
I would still do the date. I would be courteous and polite. In my mind I would be upset and uncomfortable. But I would act cool to the guy just because I don't like conflict. I would still talk to him get to know him. I don't want to be rude or tear him down. I'm justified to be angry but I don't want to be that kind of person. After a pleasant date, I would of course text him later that it's not going to work out for obvious reasons. Also a girls got to be careful never know how the guy will react if you turn him down right there. I don't know if he's crazy. So better turn him down through text later.
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This happened to me. I politely hung out and talked to her for a few minutes, then I made my exit. I didn't select any of the poll options because I didn't feel the need to be rude, this person is obviously very insecure and has issue already without me being abusive towards them. I'm also not interested in being friends with someone deceitful, sorry, I'm compassionate but I do also have higher standards for those I choose to interact with more intimately and on a longer term basis.
So, goodbye, politely.
Yikes, never understood this with dating, if you ever hope to make it on a first date you better freaking show up as you appeared to be. At least somewhat close, I get that different things, clothing, make up, hair style can change things up but not this drastically.
I also understand that he thinks he'll never find someone if he is honest, but WTF, he sure as hell won't find someone if he lies.
If they were honest with me about their personality and we really did click, I’d be willing to keep trying.
My current boyfriend only had pics of himself when he was younger.
He did not age well and I did not find him attractive.
However, after getting to know him, he became attractive.
It’s the strangest thing.
Video chat before the date. But some catfishers are smart and record the person theyre pretending to be so I don't know
this is tough, because i don't like hurting people for no reason since i'm not a heartless asshole. people can't control how they look. if they don't notice or see me, i'd probably just run away quickly BEFORE they see me, and then make something up about my friend breaking up with her boyfriend and needing me to be there for moral support or some shit and say that i don't want to focus on dating at this time anymore. i mean, not talking with someone because they are ugly is a pretty dick move.
That episode cracked me up. Bless his heart. One I’d feel stupid. How could I be dumb enough to get catfished. Him being ugly would just add insult to injury.
Are we talking about ugly/unattractive, or just average/less attractive than their actual pictures? The example on the video is exaggerated and makes me think, it's fake for views
That would depend on how different they looked than their pictures and their personality. Everyone looks kinda different than their photos, even celebrities/models. I would be willing to give it a shot, if they're decent looking and we clicked.
this would never happen to me because I don't do online dating and if I did I would want to see them in video call first moving and interacting with me.
now imagine they went so far as to pay someone to do the video call? haha 😂 so you think they're legit real and then on the meeting it's a complete alien 😆 that could happen
I don't know what the expectation is once they meet? Is the victim just going to fall in love with someone who lied and wasted their time? Because why? Smh
I would behave nice and polite, I would say them something like "Sorry, I need time to digest that everything" would walk away and block that guy.
He might look better with long hair and bangs just a thought. I have friend who does hair and she has turned it into an art form. People who might otherwise be ugly looking can end up looking a lot better.
I would be polite because you know they are insecure if they have to use someone else’s face but I wouldn’t continue anything.
I saw this on YouTube 😂😂😂
Well, they lied to me, so I would put a stop to anything going on and just walk away. Waste of both our time.
This is horrible to happen and be Catfished for sure all I tell Ladies is be honest.
Too insecure to post their own picture, but bold enough to meet you in person... right.
Starting off a relationship with a lie is the exact wrong way to start off a relationship
They can’t be THAT ugly. And if our conversations were good, it would be hard for me to hate them.
No.. just no..
This is so freaking. Never ever tried a online dating. Lol
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