What's the best way for a short guy to get a girl?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone, I'm a short guy. I have tried going to nightclubs and stuff but taller guys get all the attention.

What do you think is the best way to get a girl as a short guy? And what place exactly where I can find a girl who accepts my short height?

[Intothevoid666]

There’s a dude I know at this nightclub I frequent who is probably about 5’6” and I’ve heard multiple girls talk about how hot he is. And he is now dating this super hot girl I know. What he has going for him is he dresses fashionably. He’s muscular af, like legit on steroids. He has a nice face and long hair. He wears light makeup. And is dorky and intelligent. Height is def important but there are forsure more important things to women that u have control over like being muscular and lean and dressing fashionably. I don't know if that helps or not. source: a guy who is obsessed with his appearance.

[fonduegirl]

He does sound quite good

[Intothevoid666]

@anon1903 yeah and add to that he has long hair

[MCheetah]

Become a multimillionaire. Otherwise (to quote Shaggy) "you're f*cked, dude."

"You're f*cked, dude!"

I'm also under six feet tall. I just gave up and stopped trying. I'm working on bettering myself now. I don't know if you're just a little short like me (5'11" to 5'9") or super-short (like 5'6" and below), but it doesn't matter, either way. Even 4'10" girls are demanding six-plus-footers.

[Intothevoid666]

5’9-5’11 is above average height tho?

[sunflower00]

Just be yourself, be respectful, and you could always try going for girls your height or shorter as usually girls aren’t too bothered about height, but quite often would prefer if the guy was at least the same height or a little taller

[Asker]

Yes I know, but attraction wise, why would a girl will be attracted to me when there's a bunch of tall guys as well near me.

[sunflower00]

Because attractiveness isn’t just about height, it’s about other things too - physically everyone has a different type and things like hair, face, body etc. could draw someone in, as well as personality and how you present yourself

[sunflower00]

Another commenter mentioned charisma - it honestly is mainly personality that attracts girls, and if you are constantly worrying about the other men there it will show

[Asker]

I get it. But the problem of worrying comes from the height thing itself that women are not gonna see me as masculine.

[sunflower00]

I understand feeling insecure about it and I can see where you are coming from, but honestly most people don’t even think about height much! May I ask what height you are?

[Asker]

5'6 or 5'7

[sunflower00]

That’s not even very short, you’ll be fine

[Asker]

Oh thank you😊

[jennifer_bloom]

If your confident and honest and caring you can get a girl.

[Berethor]

A lot of money, they don't like your body, but they might like your money.

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[slatyb]

Get to know a lot of women. Find activities that attract single women that you also enjoy. The better we know someone there less we care about their physical appearance.

[boggboss]

My brother 5"4 and always picks up girls from nightclubs just has amazing charisma

[boggboss]

Seems u are nope focused on the other guys there then yourself

[zagor]

Lots of short guys get girls. I'm of average height and don't have much luck. So it's more on personality and looks.

[purplesnow33]

I'm curious where are all these short guys. I've literally never seen that many short men in general at least here in the USA. All the most attractive girls i've seen are with tall guys so I don't know. The only short men I do see that are married or in relationships are short Hispanic men and usually every other guy is pretty much average height or tall. In order for a short guy to succeed in getting even a few girls he has to exert much more effort and energy than the average guy. I can assure you that its not your height thats causing any issue. But an average height guy and tall guys don't have to put in much effort compared to short guys to get attention. Women will be satisfied with their physicality right away and we all know for sure that the physical appearance of a short guy is a turn off for many women, especially in the USA. there's studies that have been done on this several times.

[zagor]

@purplesnow33 He doesn't need many women, just one.

[kitkills]

Dress well, act well, seriously none of you guys have the ability to think for yourselves sometimes.

[Asker]

What's your height?

[kitkills]

5'6. Not tall, bud.

[purplesnow33]

Find fat girls, they're probably the only group of girls that like short guys. Good luck with others that aren't that type though it will be difficult

[Asker]

Wait what? I'm not fat myself. I like going to the gym.

[purplesnow33]

It doesn't matter, as a short guy you'll mostly attract fat girls. other girls like bigger guys that aren't short, you should know this is true. Sorry, but thats just how it is. You either accept it or let it consume you

[Asker]

Well, I know it ain't true.

[purplesnow33]

Believe what you want, I'm just not sugarcoating anything for you and telling you the truth. No matter how much you go to the gym there will be plenty of men that are much taller than you that are physically more attractive to a lot of girls in both body and height and you won't be able to compete with them. Fat women also get discriminated so they will be open to short guys. Don't expect a 10/10 girl to be into you at all, its not happening. You will struggle greatly as you will not be able to match the physical attractiveness of tall guys or even average guys. You can keep trying, but all the girls that I know don't like short men at all

[Asker]

🤣🤣whatevee

[purplesnow33]

Whether you like flat out lies or accept the truth is up to you. there's a reason why so many scientific studies indicate that taller men are more attractive to women. Anyone that tells you that short men get a lot of girls are lying and trying to cover it up. You know its a lie. If that were the case so many women would be talking about how attractive short men are and you obviously never hear this. Being a short man in dating royally sucks and thats probably one of the hardest things to be in the dating scene, all I can say is good luck.

[Asker]

Troll account first comment.

[purplesnow33]

I'm not trolling at all. If you think most girls like short guys you must be delusional. Like I said either accept it or let it consume, seems like its the latter

[Asker]

Come on bro...

[purplesnow33]

Some things you just have to accept, I really dont know what else to tell you. Just keep trying, but don't expect great success because the truth is a lot of women don't like short guys. Its been scientifically proven dozens of times and research has been done on it. The part of accepting this is so you don't get disappointed and the sooner you accept it the faster you'll be able to move forward and better yourself. If you dwell on the fact that a lot of women like short men, which is completely false, you'll end up hurt. Every attractive woman i've seen is with an average height or tall guy, none of them like short men at all. Shoot your shot at these kinds of women, just don't expect them to immediately attracted to you and there's a good chance they have eyes on guys much taller than you. there's nothing that you can do to improve your chances. The reality is that physically you aren't attractive to women the same way fat women aren't attractive to men. Both are hard to control, height being impossible to change in any way, but most people are full of shit and discriminate against others including short men. Its just something you have to accept because a lot of women won't sugarcoat it for you and will reject you for your height. At that point you just move on and keep trying, there's no magic formula.

[Slartybartfast]

Stand on a pile of money.

[TheReturnOfTheK1ng]

Being handsome, being narcissistic, or being rich.

[nawtee_me]

Look for a shorter girl.

[purplesnow33]

Short women are more picky about height than other women, thats not gonna work

[Anonymous]

Build a tiger trap, chloroform

[Finnigan]

Have you tried a ladder?

[Hellraiser1984]

Find a short woman.

[JHNS98]

But what about the"6 feet plus only" type of girls? It's apparently such a big issue that guys have started getting surgery to become taller...

[Hellraiser1984]

@JHNS98 then love is truly dead. Surgery for height is just ridiculous. I hate the f ing media. It's not your fault. Women suck these days, excuse me girls, women are very hard to find. Girls are everywhere. Well, our society is officially crap. I'm going to live in Mexico. At least men are respected there. Sorry about the short girl crack. I Really am. I'm chubby and surgery is my only option for finding love or buying it. Maybe we can start a movement guys moving to Mexico and starting over. Mass droves of guys leave the US. Leaving only the a holes. Then American women will have far less choices!