This guy chose another girl over me. How do I feel better ?

[trinityjadeeee]

I was talking to this guy at work and I told my coworker (we’re acquaintances). She told me before that she didn’t want anything to do with him but now that I want him, so does she. Anyways me and him were kind of talking and I planned on just hooking up and o know that’s all he wants to, but later he started not texting me. I know he’s talking to the other girl. To be fair I haven’t put any effort in talking to him because he’s not that cute and I could do better but I’m offended he chose that girl over me. I know I’m more attractive than her and I try my best to be as kind as I can to everyone so I dont know why he chose her. Anyways how do I feel better cause now I’m overthinking and feel ugly or think she has a better personality than me even though she’s a lot meaner than I am.

[ohshee]

First of all take a deep breath and say thank you God because now you get to learn something from this you get to learn why you never date anybody at work because when one of them breaks up the other one's going to quit their job or lose their job so really you have to thank God for this one when they break up all the rumors will fly you didn't really want any rumors did you I know you probably like the guy but now you get to learn and see have a guy asks when you guys break up this is all a learning experience for you that's what this is all about I know you probably would like to learn it a different way but just be patient your times coming and hopefully it won't be anybody that you work with

[mobiusforniner]

Misery loves company I guess. Cut your losses. Seems you dodged a bullet... hooking up with a coworker? Girl, that's just a bad idea all around. I fucked up by messing around with a girl at work. And we broke up. Oh, it's so awkward running into her at work now.

[IsoUser]

You're exactly right in that you're way over thinking things guys can just be jerks at times especially when we're in are teens and 20's we're more hormone driven than anything so please don't be offended. I am 56yo and still hormone driven Lmao

[jahaims]

By not getting self value from other people's actions

[Intothevoid666]

Ur insane, get help.

[coffee_hates_me]

I like this comment and I love seeing comments like this because they are starlight to the point just so out of pocket and bizarre, and i get a good laugh out of them. She's prob not quite at that level of mental. Perhaps she has low self esteem which may be why she was even pursuing the guy whom she clarified is not quite her type
But even if it wasn't low self esteem... then I don't know lol. Women can act weird sometimes in ways we don't typically understand

[trinityjadeeee]

@coffee_hates_me nah you're right im insecure as hell lol