Why do girls not believe that them being too good for you can be the truth?

[CompletelyHetero]

I was reading some question from a girl saying that "if a guy rejects you saying you are too good for him, it's just a excuse/ soft rejection because he never was interested in you in the first place"
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What lol, I generally rejected a girl once because I actually generally thought I was not good enough for her, and I don't deserve her, or anyone for that matter... I was doing her a favour by not going out with her, she deserve a normal guy with some testicles who has his life in order... I'm an ugly, lazy useless small d, jobless lazy piece of sh with no life at all... This is jus the reality, I'm not jus saying it to be down on myself... I'm jus stating the truth... She jus didn't know this stuff about me yet and I have no idea why she was interested in me in the first place... But when she eventually found out she would of rejected me anyway probably... And anyway 3 years later down the line I'm looking in facebook and see she has a kid with some muscular guy and is smilin in her pics... So that's all I wanted.. her to be happy cos she deserves it... I know this guy is probably a lot better than I am, he probably has a job and isn't a lazy depressed piece of sh like me... I know if she was with me right now she would not be smiling so I honestly think I did a good thing by rejecting her,

Don't get me wrong, I am sad I had to say no and I regret it now, but her happiness is more important than mine... I would of loved to go out with her if I was hot or had a big d... So saying you're too good for me isn't a soft rejection or me not being interested... I actually had to force myself to reject her so she can down the path of a more happy life

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1 y

She was beautiful too beautiful for me

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1 y

She dodged a bullet there

[becee23love]

Hey just because you feel that way about yourself doesn't mean a girl can't love you if a girl loves someone that has insecurities and depressed she truly cares and loves you.
If there is true love there don't push it away yes you need to be mentally okay but a lot of the times if that girl is strong enough she can help you a lot of the times of course the guy has to take steps too.
a lot of the time we just need someone to tell us we're beautiful good looking.
For a long time I felt I wasn't beautiful enough or had the body a guy would want but once a guy talk to me and thought I was attractive I soon became more confident in my body.
So just please don't push a girl away most of the time we don't even care about if a person is depressed that doesn't stop us if we really love someone 🙂.

[Anonymous]

Im not worth a guy being good to me. So I don't deserve it and it is never as good as it seems most people I know have an ulterior motive and that shit fucks you up. If a guy treats me right I feel like it's a lie or I'm not good enough so if he doesn't fuck up I will eventually because I'm not going to let him hurt me when really I hurt the both of us.

[Adam1978]

It's an excuse, because it's her job to judge that not the guys. Same as it the guys job to judge if the woman is girlfriend material. So it's an excuse to either not want to have her and all that involves or you reject her because you don't want her.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know everybody has their own bitterness that they complain about

[SignedAutographs]

Women like confidence. Saying you're too good for me, doesn't show confidence

[Anonymous]

Because it is very rarely the real truth.