I met them both on this app one years ago and another a couple of years ago. We are all 30's/early 40's. Dated both of them and it seemed to be serious with them. One of the guys was having a terrible time and I was there for him, until he got himself together and stopped talking to me/changed his number. The other one was about 1 year ago and he literally ghosted me after 10 months of on and off dating without a word after saying he wanted a relationship with me.
I rejoined the site last night and they are BOTH on there. I want to message them to tell them how they hurt me when ghosting me and give them chance to explain maybe. NOT a message like, hey I'm here to get back with them, but to have my 'say'. I don't even care if they don't reply, I want to know I've said it and they have read it.
Will I come across as crazy? Or the fact they will see my profile on there soon enough and that I don't view or message them - will that say something for me instead?
not sure what to do I have this feeling inside I want to let them know they hurt me.
What do you guys think?
I rejoined the site last night and they are BOTH on there. I want to message them to tell them how they hurt me when ghosting me and give them chance to explain maybe. NOT a message like, hey I'm here to get back with them, but to have my 'say'. I don't even care if they don't reply, I want to know I've said it and they have read it.
Will I come across as crazy? Or the fact they will see my profile on there soon enough and that I don't view or message them - will that say something for me instead?
not sure what to do I have this feeling inside I want to let them know they hurt me.
What do you guys think?
