I want a boyfriend but I keep rejecting every guy that asks me?

[Anonymous]

Am I in the wrong for rejecting all the guys who want to be my boyfriend when I want one? I’ve never had a boyfriend. The problem is no matter how nice or funny etc etc I always get disinterested in them. I get all people have flaws so that not the issue but he could be perfect and I’ll just feel smothered or say I just wanna be friends. Have I just not met the right guy or so I need to just say yes and get it over with.

[Effably]

If you could choose anyone you want is there still no one or are some people interesting enough?

What is actually missing from the guys you did not like? Not criticism but try to figure it out.

There is also the understanding that emotions are not in full bloom from the start. It very well might start at a simple cute or alike.

[Asker]

if I could there are some guys I’d really like. I like very introverted guys but I’m very nervous to approach so I tend to only talk to guys who ask me for my number or talk to me first. They’re mostly extroverts too like me which can feel a bit overwhelming.

[Effably]

Maybe you should approach these introverts you fancy instead? As frightening as it may be it seems better for you.

Don't hold yourself back. If the guys you like are not coming to you, you should go to them.

[caring__1]

It's hard to read the situation with no experience. You're being cautious, not knowing what to look for. You're still young. Get some experience, so when you are ready to choose a partner, you'll be more likely to be comfortable with your ability to choose. Adolescence is a time for exploration and discovery. By playing it safe, you'll probably end up alone.

Let's say I take you to dinner. You have 3 menu options. You can choose Khyeeyo, or Hobliren or Restigoo. Which would you choose? It can be very difficult choosing if we know nothing about how those choices might impact us.

[Anonymous]

I am the same way I want a Girlfriend but there’s a part of me that doesn’t want a Girlfriend that just wants someone To hang out with and a girlfriend is the only way to go if I wanted that.
And Part of me
Wants to bang a girl other part of me is like nope 👎 don’t want to Safety first don’t want a dangerously disease that I would die over because Of my ego Would rather To die than go to the doctor and have people know I am not a virgin because I want people to see that I haven’t lost my Purity.

[20yearsolder]

You may be a little too picky, First off are you go on a couple of dates with a person before the both of you decide whether you're going to be boy during the girlfriend. You need to do that with these guys. Have them take you on a date and see if you're compatible. If after a couple of dates then you come to the realization that she's not going to work then you move on to the next. You will find the right one

[FilmGuy93]

I think you're probably struggling to communicate your expectations and boundaries with men and getting turned off when they violate those boundaries. Most men will respect a boundary if you state it clearly.

[Anonymous]

Why do u want a boyfriend? What do you want? Orgasm? Use your fingers. Attention? Use social media. You want kids and marriage? Wait until you have a career. Stop trying to get a boyfriend just to have one.

[chicosuave]

The only obstacle is you. This has been the main reason most girls are single

[Jltakk]

Yes, there has to be a very clear reason you have for constantly rejecting guys. Also, clearly state those reasons, so the well doesn't run dry after the constant rejections.

[EaterPeter]

May be wrong by rejecting. You must document the reasons you give guys for rejecting. If any of them sound legit work on that part of your life. Or make sure that part is covered with one of the guy.

[Anonymous]

It's only wrong if you're leading them on. Which by the way you describe your question it definitely suggests you are. But I'm sure you already know this. 🤣

[HaveNoName]

Feom what I have seen with such girls in the family, they get stuck with a douchebag in the end.

[nawtee_me]

maybe you haven't found what you are looking for. Would you like to go out sometime?

[Methis]

You haven't ask me yet (I'm probably on the bottom of the list)

[panamared1]

Maybe you need an open relationship, or a friends with benefits or 2

[In_Trance]

I don't think you really want it

[Heolurt]

That sounds like Your problem

[jimmy2]

You might need a older guy

[Anonymous]

You set your standards to high.