I feel so depressed , I just don't know if to feel guity or she was playing me?

[THECONFUSEDGUY99]

Hi! i'm a college student and i was dating a girl for a month (same college , but different class), everything was going well , she was constantly texting me and reminds me of how much she loves me , like from the moment we woke up till we sleep , but it seemed that i can't go out with her for more than once per week ! and whenever i asked her out for the second time same week , she bringed up excuses like (Ohhh i can't cuz i'm too tired from studying all day , i can't cuz i got studies , uhh i can't cuz my parents won't let me , nahh i can't cuz i'll be sleeping) , that seemed soo suspect to me cuz i knew she had free time , but when i comminucated this to her she was like (i wish i a can meet you everyday , i really miss you) This made me SOO confused and i started loosing feelings towards her ! cuz her words doesen't match her action and deep down i was feeling like she is a player and she was just playing with my feelings , but i don't know ! like i feel these excuses aren't valid not to meet me , i feel her texting me all day was just for attention , Also , one day we were together and it was time for her to go and she said to me : i think i will spend the night with you , but not even 2 minutes passed and she came back telling me : oh actually i really gotta go a got some plans tomrow , and whenever i ask her again she tells me a different excuse , so i got fed up from this loop of me asking her out and her bringing excuses , so i just accepted the harsh trush and i told her i lost feelings , but wow she was playing like the victim role of me not loving her and i was fake , and her excuses were real and valid , and she loved me since day one and i broke her heart , it made me feel so guilty and started asking myself what if she really loved me and really didn't have time for me , i'm so lost i really don't know if feel guilty , for dumping her or she was a player and that was the right thing to do.

[WellEndowedinNJ]

Bro get a grip. You're in college and you are at this level when it comes to dating? #1, you said you were dating for a month? lmao, a month? lol if you told her you loved her or even thought you loved her then if I were you I would RUN, not walk, not be patient but RUN to a therapist and find out what happened in your childhood that would even remotely think you could love someone after a month. #2 When she is changing her mind, switching going back and forth... that is due to her hunting down another guy or other guys she'd rather fuck than you. So when she told he Yeah, I'll hang with you and 2 minutes later she said Nah can't hand with you tonight, that's because the other dude hit her up and said let's do it and she broke the plan with you. It also sounds like may be a bit borderline (BPD). Chicks with BPD hate being alone, often feel abandoned even though they were not a very good girlfriend, cheating like crazy and either dumped you or were so bad of a girlfriend that of course you left. Also, chicks with BPD will say I love you after just one week of dating and they costantly are fucking multiple guys. They will fuck their husband or boyfriend then go to work and tell everyone there they are single. And while she's texting you saying how much she loves you she's waiting for her co-worker to come to her desk so they can go to lunch and fuck. Yet in your presence she'll convince you that you were her first and only sex partner and even though she probably fucked 4 dudes since Saturday and it's only Monday afternoon. Get away from her. Your in college, drink, party and fuck hot chicks.

[Truthatanycost]

Stop wasting your time with all of this nonsense! Get on your purpose. Find out what you were put here for, get financially free, work towards retiring early, learn new skills. This is the mistake that keeps many young men down. Don't make the same mistake...

[Guy13]

Women are difficult creatures. It’s a loss but don’t let them get you all depressed. She knows she one if you show her that. Keep it together 💪

[JustiReno]

You only get one shot so not miss your chance to blow this opportunity comes once in a lifetime give it a 🍝

[Iron_Man]

She’s in love with you within 30 days? Just talk to her

[AndrésC64]

You've been dating for a whole month? Wow.

[leighbee]

Move on