I'm just curious, why do so many women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating and marriage? Every woman I've met wants the ideal large 4-6 bedroom house, a couple of luxury cars, lavish vacations, social media posts to brag, expensive/creative dates, private school for the kiddos (for at least 2 to 3 kids), and pets. Is this every woman's dream?
What are your dreams? Men and women please advise.
A lot of them are going by what older women, whom they trust, have told them and they’re super absorbent as kids, and you combine that with a lot of resurfacing vulnerability, and not feeling the feelings of warmth with guys, that they feel/ felt with the elderly women in their lives and development,
and you get:
the woman who’s playing defense any chance she gets, especially if you’re not committed to being clear that you’re not out to HURT her… which c’mon, shouldn’t be too hard to prioritize that, but I understand guys have their brainwashings from elder men, as well. Still, that should be clear and women could benefit from not being, so paranoid, as well, and being resilient.
Understanding. Everyone needs understanding.
I don't need a couple of luxury cars. But now that you mention it, two cars might be a good idea with that many kids, as then one parent can drive one kid to their extra curricular activities, while the other parent does the same with the other car.
it shouldn't be unless they themselves bring something to the table of similar value. for what you've described, the woman would need to be perfect wife material i. e. a virgin, pro-life, wants kids, has domestic skills, has discipline, integrity, honesty and loyalty to all especially when you're not around so she isn't doing anything behind your back etc.
That is true for women in their 20s, but not so much after about 30.
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It’s the woman you are meeting. You are drawn to more materialistic women or you are setting your standards for attractiveness too high for what you bring to the table.
That's pretty crazy because I literally know nobody who has those specific things as standards.
But standards should be high for marriage otherwise you will end up with trash.
Those women aren’t looking for love. Rather a man to use for money.
It’s fine to have high standards and know what you’re looking for. Not all women are like that. If they are. Just keep on going until you find a good one.
Feminism and simp culture equals deluded narcissistic women.
I just want a non-shallow, decent, caring woman who's maybe also tall and curvy.
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They're not
All I want is someone to love me and be there for me
He doesn't have to be rich, drive the fanciest car, or whatever the fuck makes a guy "presentable"
That's my dream goals, yes. Only I don't expect to conquer the world based on another person's wealth.
Remember its a lifetime partner you want to be with. They should be that high as such.
Why shouldn't they be?
You want every woman to lower themselves to your level?
Such women, only dreams which never comes in reality
Broke boys don't deserve no pussy
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