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Worried that boyfriend looks at pretty girls on social media? (Page 2)
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If you start asking him to have no one else but you, it's the end of the relationship. It's that simple. He already did more than he should have, by stopping talking to someone because you asked.
As long as he doesn't cheat, who he's talking to is none of your business.
First, since when are women permitted to become fraternity members?
Secondly, stop stalking him or girls he knows! That's creepy!
Thirdly, if all he does is look, then that's fine. If he's texting, phoning or seeing them, then that would concerning, especially if you're NOT around.
Get the fuck over it and consider yourself lucky. It's just entertainment. He's not going to leave you for them, and he's not wishing you looked like them. I'm happily married to a beautiful woman and I look at images of women often.
@slatb You may view it as innocent entertainment. However, when a girl has a boyfriend and he is eyeballing chicks on his phone or computer, it isn't viewed as innocent entertainment. It gets her red flag up, causes her to be on alert, and she may view you in a different way.
So many couples have divorced over this. Some women view this as cheating whether you like it or not. It's a big pill for your lady to swallow as she wants all of your attention and now she knows some of your attention is going on looking at other women.
Take it or leave it. You can Google it to find out.
@sage2021 all my attention? That's not reasonable or healthy.
The Asker doesn't have trust issues - duh! Probably everything was going really great between them until she learned he was wandering eyes!! 👁️👁️👄👀. He put a big wedge between them.
I mean no disrespect here because there is a huge generational gap between when you were dating and where she currently is, you can’t go on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter none of that stuff without it being flooded with pictures of girls in bikinis and posing every girl does it almost, and if he knew these girls from law school, why should he have to delete them off of his account when they’re his friends and share he may have had a crush on one of them but nothing happened doesn’t mean you throw away a friendship because he used to have a crush on someone in today’s day and age trust needs to be prevalent in relationships because there is so much access to anything you could ever want online but if this guy is has been perfect to her and he follows his friends on Instagram, that’s no different than having a friend on Facebook from school she’s just worried because she doesn’t realize how beautiful she is in his eyes, but she should if he’s perfect to her that obviously means he’s putting an effort and he’s trying, which is a lot more than some women can say about most men
dear, i know wb u re talikng, listen one day he will delete this instagram account and never bother you with that anymore. it will happens when he ll afraid to lose you. dont close emotions inside, just you can do same things with guys it will not work trust me. or you can say if you dont care, means you not care about me and my feelings. delete it or go date with them
byt you should be suret that your value is high in his eyes when u ll make such things.
Is part of the reason you are worried about this because you often post pictures seeking male attention, and thus when you see other girls posting similar pictures you know what kind of attention they are getting?
Personally, I feel guys don’t need to follow women online or browse women on the internet. They downplay it and say “it’s just the internet it’s not like I’m gonna hang out with her”.
It’s still a “need” within themselves to look and stair. Why? Because they are pigs and don’t care how their actions affect other people.
Girl if you don’t like this, then don’t have a man.
But do girls not stare at a man’s nice body in the movie or on the beach you be lying if you say you don’t it’s in our psychology that our eyes automatically be drawn to what we find attractive or beautiful it’s hardwired in everybody’s DNA man or woman if he’s not stepping out if he’s not hiding anything and he’s not doing anything wrong and with the Internet that’s just what society has evolved into 20 years ago yeah absolutely not but you can’t go on Facebook or Instagram or anywhere nowadays without that being thrown into your face kind of is just what it is but at the end of the day who is he giving his energy to? That’s the important question.
You said it yourself…
YOU compare yourself to them.
He doesn’t. His visual entertainment is no different than your mental entertainment.
men are visual and women are mental. So when he looks at sexual things, women think about sexual things, romance, etc.
Trying to control his natural visual fantasy would be like him trying to control your natural mental fantasy.
I think not. It's like asking a guy to not look at girls in the street. We always have and always will. Go with the you can look but not touch rule.
These thoughts you are having are just thoughts, he sounds like a great guy. He’s with YOU now, run with it.
Of course when you check out other guys and explore your THOUSANDS of other options there is no problem at all. Always the same thing. It's only a problem when the man does it. When the woman does it's fair play.
You mentioned the answer to your question yourself honey... Yes u r taking it too serious n letting ur insecurities take over
Probably does. Pretty girls are everywhere but you're his pretty girl so feel proud of that
If you think your boyfriend is looking at other girls dump him he's is a dick.
Know your worth queen. You are amazing, trust that! His business if he See's it or not 👑👑👑👑
had that happen before. god am i glad that my current partner isn't like that. he's just that into you if he's going around doing that and that's the harsh truth.
You don't trust him, you need to break up with him.
If looking at internet girls bugs you. You have trust issues
You gotta trust the man if you want the relationship to work.
Now if you catch him doing something stupid that's one thing.
But he is not doing shit
I find it tacky. A straight male is going to notice other women, but when he focuses and goes out of his way to do so while in a relationship, that is dishonorable.
No. You should surprise him being the person that would inspire him for sure 😉😏
If they're people he actually knows, you shouldn't be worried. If he were going and following random pretty women that he had no friendship with, that would be concerning