Do less attractive people have to work harder to find love or good looking people don’t exert at all to get it? (Page 2)

[genericname85]

entirely depends on what sort of partner they're going for. if they're going for an equally ugly partner, they'll have it equally hard or easy as more attracive people have it finding more attractive partners. it's always harder the more attractive the person you're going for is than you are.

[PointTaken]

Attractive looking people are only attractive to some, not all.

Example: I have a friend who says his girlfriend is really hot. I don't think she is at all. She's good looking but not hot. I'm don't think she's attractive.

Who decides who is attractive and who isn't?

[Fuentes]

Depends I aee ugly pll find love and I laugh but for me there's to many women out there to settle down with just one everytime I'm driving down the street I see a new chick with a phat ass? Imagine if i was taken I would always be thinking I got the wrong one.

[Anemone978]

Yes, less attractive people have to work harder to find love.. but not always.. it depends on your personality more I think. If you are outgoing and confident you have more chances to meet the right one for you.

[MementoMori777]

Attraction is like the lure, imagine fishing without a lure

[rosemilk]

no. where one area lacks, another makes up for. unless you are going after completely shallow people, which in that case isn't even love anyways.

[Usernone]

Personality plays a major partwhen dating. I've dates guys who I wasn't physically attracted to because they were intelligent, funny, or we had great conversations.

[exitseven]

I vote for number one. If you are not really good looking you have to make up for it in other ways. It is not easy.

[TenderFantasy]

I don't think so. Looks are VERY relative, otherwise, I wouldn't see 1000 lbs sisters getting married or having children haha.

[Unknown29]

I’m attractive. But trust me, it doesn’t make things that much easier. I mean just date someone in the opposite sex with the same attraction level. Then it’s not any harder no matter how attractive on unattractive you are.

[jshm2]

It's nothing to do with "love," but trust and personality.

Being attractive is subjective. but being trustworthy is not

[crossdressingrihno]

Being attractive is certainly a major advantage.
You still need other skills of course and even then you can’t guarantee anything.

[LiamJHayden]

Relationships take work. I think sometimes really attractive people have it harder, because maybe the people only like them for their looks and not for who they are.

[Matt-G]

YOU will find love if YOU carry on looking! I like the question you asked and the way you did. Love, in my humble opinion, is finding the answers to those questions that you ONLY ask yourself or god. NEVER give up!

[hbg84]

Lets get this straight. Less attractive men have to work extremely hard to find love. Less attractive women not so much. As long as they have a decent body they can still find love relativly easy.

[Staximus]

I think good looking people are exposed to a lot more people who just want to fuck them and don't really care about who they are or what kind of person they are

[roy_ricky09]

It's otherwise actually.
When you are ugly and someone loves you, you know they love you for who you are. Beautiful people never know who to trust.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Plain looking guys need to exert extra effort to find love. Plain looking women have plenty of willing men available.

For a woman to get rejected by a million guys straight she’d have to be like extremely hideous.

Whereas average looking guys will still get rejected all the time.

[justabuddy]

I remember a model I went to college with who was a bit of an introvert. Most guys would never ask her out or even approach her because they were afraid of the rejection. I don't think it's that simple, theirs more involved than just looks.

[Nikki1989]

Everyone has to work hard if you want to be a winner at anything.