I was talking to a guy but recently he ghosted me but liked most of my ig stories. Is he liking them just as a friend or is there some other reason?

[Anonymous]

I don't wanna misunderstand the situation so I wish to know this from all of your perspectives. by the way we've met in person before prior to this (And he's the type that gets girls' attention and hangs out with them a lot too)

[notfoundtoday]

Not sure but I think he is just trying to get your attention in need as he has no option to get back to you.

[Asker]

If he's trying to get my attention why won't he dm me though?

[notfoundtoday]

Cause He ghosted you and going back to you will make him a loser also you have mentioned that he is always around girls.
Guess what he does when he isn’t around them when there is no one.

[Asker]

I see, so do you think i should give in and message him again even though he didn't reply to the previous message?

[Asker]

Or should just leave him be and just ignore it?

[Asker]

Should I*

[notfoundtoday]

Do you like him a lot?
Or you are just looking for someone to be your friend?

[Asker]

Well there are a bit of feelings involved but since he's always around girls, I'm just not sure whether should I be like one of those girls that give him attention or just pull away from him

[Asker]

Cause it feels like if I'm the one taking the initiative I'll just be "one of the girls" to him

[notfoundtoday]

Tbh I think you should not think about it anymore and move ahead in your life and I wish you may find a better person soon.
I understand there was a feeling but as in this situation it is not worth messaging him or going back to him.

[Asker]

I see, so I should just keep him as a friend?

[notfoundtoday]

Is he really a friend to you?

[Asker]

I guess?

[notfoundtoday]

If he is then ya you should.
No harm in being friends if you both consider each others as a friend

[Asker]

Understood. Thank you very much for your replies, really appreciate your effort to answer all the questions 😊

[notfoundtoday]

You’re most welcome.
Looking forward to reply your questions again and will keep it you in my mind.
Asker 25-29 🙌

[spartan55]

Liking your stories about what you ate for lunch means nothing, really.