My boyfriend doesn't want me to do a job, have make friends because he thinks it leads to cheating and I'm ok with his conditions. Am I doing right? (Page 2)
oh dear.. your boyfriend is a narcissistic person. That type of person doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship. A boyfriend would support you to work and have a communication with people, and not trying to put you in a closed cage and controlling over you in the name of “love”
Lose his ass. He doesn’t truly love you. He is very insecure about losing you. You need a life separate from him. Don’t let a man control you like this.
It’s just not a responsible thing to do. Say one of you gets along really well with this friend and you start to have feelings or you think the other person is attractive. This can happen to anybody. Even if you didn’t cheat now your allowing yourself to be tempted. It would be like trying to lose weight but then keeping a bowl of candy in your living room. Constantly having to tell yourself no will ultimately result in your surrender to your temptations. So you can’t really be trusted
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It's fine as long as you can take full responsibility for this choice of he turns out abusive.
oh dear.. your boyfriend is a narcissistic person. That type of person doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship. A boyfriend would support you to work and have a communication with people, and not trying to put you in a closed cage and controlling over you in the name of “love”
Lose his ass. He doesn’t truly love you. He is very insecure about losing you. You need a life separate from him. Don’t let a man control you like this.
fucking abusive twat and a dumbass asker who must be trolling
He is a controlling dickhead , get rid of the prk immediately , you cannot live like this.
That is your average "housewife" role. Meanwhile he's got the freedom to cheat.
But hey, it's your life and your choice. Have fun.
Only of your boyfriend is cooler than I am which I know isn't true. I hate men.
Run away fast. He doesn't want you to have any life separate from him.
controlling behaviour is never good and leads to deeper issues along the way.
You will never be able to have a life of your own. With him controlling your life that way!
You should be able to work but he’s right about the male friend thing. I mean you wouldn’t want him to find other women to be friends with right?
I won't mind letting him have female friends because I trust him but he doesn't trust me
It’s just not a responsible thing to do. Say one of you gets along really well with this friend and you start to have feelings or you think the other person is attractive. This can happen to anybody. Even if you didn’t cheat now your allowing yourself to be tempted. It would be like trying to lose weight but then keeping a bowl of candy in your living room. Constantly having to tell yourself no will ultimately result in your surrender to your temptations. So you can’t really be trusted
Why are you with this controlling dumb ass?
Have some respect for yourself, dump him.
THE NO JOB THING IS A BIT RIDICULOUS
If he pays you and give you all your needs then You Are Lucky working is something boring just go gym enjoy your life
That would be a red flag for me. It sounds like he has serious trust issues or is a control freak.
No, you are not. He is controlling you and that's not right.
You're attracted to that level of insecurity?
I think that’s awful! But you do you
He sounds controlling
Leave this controlling asshole