I had a amazing 5 dates with the girl that I am dating but it's always me who suggests dates. Do you think it usually normal that both sides initiate?

[stepping_ston]

We (both in mid 20s) met on dating app and we clicked from the start. There is definitely fire between us and I can see that she enjoys on our dates and so do I. The thing is that it was mostly me who initiated dates and she agreed on the day/place. I like to show interest but it feels like both sides should show initiative if they are interested. What do you think?

[OlderAndWiser]

You are in the early stages and she is enjoying being pursued. Everything else is working well so keep doing what you are doing. She will probably suggest dates at some point in the future.

[sheikalana]

I agree that both sides should initiate planning dates but since this is very recent maybe she's okay with you making these decisions. Next time you decide to meet ask if she has any suggestions or if there's something she would like to do.

[Anonymous]

If it seems complicated, it will never work.

[stepping_ston]

I wouldn't say it seems complicated but that I would like if the other side also showed initiative sometimes. Like this it just feel like chasing

[Curmudgeon]

If the dates are great, leave it at that. And even if she always wants you to take the initiative in this aspect, so what? You are apparently passing with flying colors.

[spartan55]

So basically she's not doing shit to show she is intersted... what a surprise... 🙄

[exitseven]

This happens sometimes. I dated somebody and I always had to find stuff for us to do.

[Wiredone]

She might be shy to suggest things to do. You can ask her what fun things she likes then plan a day just doing her favorite things.

[OddBeMe]

I think chicks are more likely to let the guy plan the dates- and pay. But hey, more credit towards sex.

[WhitneySnow]

She may be a very passive personality

[In_Trance]

Have you fucked her?

[stepping_ston]

Yes, we fucked on 3rd date and got oral on 2nd

[In_Trance]

So at this stage you're more than capable of having a conversation with her about what reasonable expectations look like