Ok spare me the judgments and criticism, but I have been on and again off again with a man who is MARRIED. yes I know, it is a very weird situation and not right by any means. A lot of factors go into why we haven't parted ways and now I have found out he lied to me. The only reason I continued with him is because he said that his wife was just as unhappy as he was and they were waiting till the kids graduate school. Seems like a legit reason right? Well I ran into her FB page and low and behold, she is as happy as ever with him and I have seen his comments on her page. I feel so sick to my stomach about it. I confronted him about it and he said things on FB are not always how it is in real life. I told him that I can't be involved anymore and I don't trust him... He won't leave me alone now, he still texts me every morning and won't give up. Any advice?
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Married men ALWAYS say they will leave their wife, but they never do. He's been playing you, and you fell for it. Oh, he might have had genuine feelings for you and all, but he's been lying about his intentions all along. I've heard this same story a hundred times.
Unfortunately, when you go after a guy who is unavailable, due to distance, an existing relationship, or whatever, you set yourself up to be hurt (at the very least). You knew this was a bad idea all along, but you kept it going, and now you're the one who is going to end up losing. "The Rules" are for YOUR protection, and when you break them, YOU are the one who pays. Be smarter next time.
At this point, the ONLY thing to do is cut all ties with this guy and move on with your life. Anything else you do is only going to make it worse for you.3