This isn't real. You aren't normal. This guy isn't normal so you're perfect together. Who would let someone do any of these things and expect another human to put up with it.
But what should I do? I mean I hope it's not bad for him so I should not stop him doing it because if I will stop him so it will be painful for him, it will make him feel upset. So I just want to confirm. And your son also feels in heaven? Really any miracle happen while sleeping with mom or it is heart's feeling due to love and attachment?
Yes bro he proudly sleeps besides his mom and proudly says that he feels to be in heaven when he sleeps with his mom. What should I do? Should I let him do it forever? Because I don't want to stop him doing something which makes him feel good and I don't want to hurt him by saying his doing wrong. Here some people are saying may be one day he will kill me but he says that even my one tear and sadness makes him faint because of sadness and anxiousness so I don't think he can do it and he is a Muslim and I'm Hindu, I can not even think and imagine this because he is great and seems he really loves me but I would ask can it be love jihad?
And since so many months I had doubt about his some bad habits and his lies but yesterday after talking to him on phone I realzife my doubt are reality actually he himself said that he likes alcohol he likes smoking and he likes flirting and then I warned him to give up his these bad habits forever otherwise I will break up with him, it was the first time I said something like this to him because I can not tolearate any irreligious activity because I'm so religious and has been raised in a righteous family and he promised he will give up his these bad habits because he don't want our breakup but I'm confused I should trust him or not. And yesterday again he said to me to not to befriend with anyone except him and never ever be bride of anyone except him.
My age is not 99, I don't know how by mistake that age selected, sorry :( Please bro now tell is that normal, I'm 6-7 years younger than him. And he daily thousand times says that in the whole world he never ever saw any girl who is more beautiful than me.
As long as they don't engage in anything beyond plain sleeping, I would not be too worried. He just probably had a bad experience as a child and does not feel safe at night by himself so a wife will also fill those shoes.
If anyone goes with the "ewww", I say... you are the ones who needs to grow the FUCK UP.
Not only plain sleeping, I can say with much surety that they cuddle and people says to me that after my marriage with him, I will be unsafe in his house in my room in night because he will be sleeping in his mom's arm in another room and I will be all alone. And no not all absolutely not, he had never ever any bad experience as a child and he is so much brave he even don't fear death and no matter any bad happening and any accident, he is too much fearless no words to describe how fearless and how brave he is. He is a absolutely Macho man. He had a perfectly normal and very good experience as a child even better than mine. He absolutely don't feel unsafe at night by himself. Really nothing like this.
Okay I'll try, in fact after asking this question on this website, I talked to him on his number and questioned him about some of his more bad doings. He also likes smoking and likes alcohal which I got to know after few months of our relationship and yesterday after talking him I got to know that he really likes smoking. He even said he had kissed some girls. After talking to my parents, about breakup I'm thinking and even said to him about it yesterday. If it is the only way then after all the attempts I would do it.
Your boyfriend is sicko with the whole sleeps with his mother, and not allowing you to talk to other guys. Frankly you are quite pathetic for putting up with that. It's not normal, and it's certainly not right.
They cuddle while sleeping and people says to me that after my marriage with him, in his house in my room I will be unsafe because he will be sleeping with his mom in his mom's arm and in another room I will be all alone.
What makeimg you alone is very wrong if he is your husband then he have to be with yo. I can understand that he love his mother and everone loves there mother bit this is not fair
well... i think that depends on how much it bothers you. Why don't you question him about that, try to understand as much as you can, then see what issues you have with that and tell him
"never ever talk to any guy except him and to never ever make any guy my friend even not brother, he wants that no boy except him talk to me and I say that I have not any guy friend and I would never do this and then he says to me that he have beautiful girls as his friends and they every day meets to him"
bet... you are 28 and accept such things? you may have a dire problem of self-esteem (hey i not trying to bullshit you, it's just that it... shocks me a little :) )
Opinion Owner, that thing can not bother me which makes him happy because even I would kill myself for his happiness, nothing more important than his happiness and smile for me, even not my life. And I can not question him about these because it will hurt him and I don't want to hurt him ever in fact one time by mistake some words typed by me which had hurt him and then as a punishment I burnt my fingers.
And I just wanted to know that it is normal and not bad for him, that's why I asked. And I'm so afraid I can not even imagine that may God forbid anything happened with his mother so how tragedic and painful it will be for him so I pray that may God give me death but may never ever anything bad happen to his mom.
And not only with any guy in fact anyone, he wants that no one except him talk to me, he desperately wants that I have no friend except him and he wants that except him anyone not even touch me so because of this reason during the festival Holy he feels so stressed, feels anxious about it. He wants that except him no one see me. He always says to me to not to befriend with anyone except him and not to talk to anyone except him. But he says that he have beautiful girl as his friend who daily meet and talk to him to whom today again he have to meet her. I can't understand how can I convince him because he always says to me that he's always too much worried and so afraid that I will become anyone else bride and he always says to me to never ever do this and no matter how much I convince him that these all never ever going to happen, not to worry it will never happen, to be relax but he says he is never ever able to make his this fear away from him and he can never ever be relax.
And he says he can not see me with anyone except him and he says he will murder/kill the one who will try to come between him and his girlfriend ( me ) and I requests him to not to think & talk about killing and I requests him to be relax because that's never going to happen but still he says he will not let him alive and he can not be relax and very aggressively says that if any guy will come then he will definitely kill him murder him and then to make him calm down I try my best to convince him, try to make him believe but that attempts don't work.. I don't know he says it's true and heartly or just flirts but He says that for him he can never ever find any girl beautiful than me and also loving and caring than me and except him my befriending and marriage with anyone else, he will never ever let it happen, he'll destroy everything.
And He says about me that he know I can not do it but still he is always afraid that I will leave him and about lossing me, he always says that he always every second feels too much worried, anxious and too much afraid that he will loss me and he says that he thinks and feels that his fears will make him mad, he will be mad because of his these fears. I don't know what to do? Please any advice? Some people were saying that one day he may kill me for any matter and he's probably any pyshco and cyco and after seeing him my mom said to me that "he looks cyco, he is good looking but he also looks cyco" and she will be always so afraid that what's he doing with me. Everyone says it but don't know why I don't think so, I think he is just good looking not cyco but it's true usually he looks aggressive. Is he really cyco as everyone says or He's not? Am I right or not?
And everyone says that after my marriage with him, in his house in my room I will be unsafe because he will be sleeping in his mother's arms in another room and I will be all alone. And my mom says that she will be always so worried and anxious that what's he doing with me if I'll stay with him. And sorry I meant that his mother ordered me to burn my fingers as punishment which I thought I should try to do it for her but I did not burn my fingers And people says me to spend some time with his mother before my marriage with my bf but she lives in Pakistan & I don't live there I live in my country so usually we can not meet, seldom I meet to her. And some people also says to me that it can be love jihad so to be careful. And yesterday on our phone conversation my bf told me about his some bad habits which are smoking, liking alcohal, likes to flirt & he had kissed so many girls. And I warned him to give up his all these habits otherwise I'll breakup with him & he promised he won't do it.
And now I'm confused that what to do? After knowing about his real face after seeing his real face now I should trust him or should not trust him anymore. I can tolerate anything but I can never tolearate anything irreligious, any irreligious activity because I'm so religious and I'm raised in a righteous family.
i suppose you realize that you are a free being and worth to be happy and be loved by someone who is also confortable with himself, not a.. possesive, insecure and jealous.. freak? :) You don't live in fear do you?
What should I do? Should I try to stop him but my heart can not allow me to do this because it will hurt him, it will make him feel upset.. :( And what would you do if it was you in my condition, may never ever this happen with you but just asking.
Oh boy I don't even know :( honestly I would just sit and have a talk with him. Ask him why he does it and if the mood seems right then tell him it makes you uncomfortable. That is just so tough. I don't know what I would do. I would find a way to talk to him without upsetting him. Like I never slept in my parents bed, not as a baby, toddler, or kid. Always my own room. I can't imagine being 23 and sleeping with one of my parents. It would be a turn off for me :(
And we both have not this type of culture and religion in which adult sons and daughters sleeps with parents. Neither in his religion and culture and nor in my religion and culture. It's culture of no where.
I am from India, you shouldn't post this type of question. lets not know about us to others such silly things. Honestly are you a BOY/GUY? coz we Indian make fake account that is not good.
i remember slept next to my uncle till like 10. if you think carefully if its was his sister or brother that he sleep next to. what you would think. In the other country that fine. i think he sleep with his mother is not ok though because it prove that not man you can relies on. do you want a boy or man?
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This isn't real. You aren't normal. This guy isn't normal so you're perfect together. Who would let someone do any of these things and expect another human to put up with it.
That's weird af. Ole Norman bates lookin ass
What should I do? Should I try to stop him but my heart can not allow me to do this because it will hurt him, it will make him feel upset.. :(
I think it's time for his own bed, I'd be questioning their relationship. Please don't take offensive, but his excuse is ridiculous.
Crap, this is si going to be my son if I don't change things lol
Aww, he just wants a cuddle. I know the feeling :)
@Levin, there you go being all cute again.
But what should I do? I mean I hope it's not bad for him so I should not stop him doing it because if I will stop him so it will be painful for him, it will make him feel upset. So I just want to confirm. And your son also feels in heaven? Really any miracle happen while sleeping with mom or it is heart's feeling due to love and attachment?
Ewwwww just ewwww.
Do you like it when I'm cute? or do you prefer it when I'm a womanising bastard?
@Levin, woah, did you take what I said before to mean womanizing bastard? I'm a little shocked if you did.
tbh it doesn't imply a lack of seriousness with my relationships with women. that they're a means to an end or something.
Seem your boyfriend has problems no it not right maybe he is scared to sleep by
his self . He don't want anyone know he a pussy candy ass
May I ask do you know that he not fucking his mom or he might not want to give up her tits
Eww... what? he sleeps besides his mother? Seems like he is a momma's boy... its really creepy..
And no its not normal...
And change your age...
You can't really do that although you can contact support to do it for you
Yes bro he proudly sleeps besides his mom and proudly says that he feels to be in heaven when he sleeps with his mom. What should I do? Should I let him do it forever? Because I don't want to stop him doing something which makes him feel good and I don't want to hurt him by saying his doing wrong. Here some people are saying may be one day he will kill me but he says that even my one tear and sadness makes him faint because of sadness and anxiousness so I don't think he can do it and he is a Muslim and I'm Hindu, I can not even think and imagine this because he is great and seems he really loves me but I would ask can it be love jihad?
And since so many months I had doubt about his some bad habits and his lies but yesterday after talking to him on phone I realzife my doubt are reality actually he himself said that he likes alcohol he likes smoking and he likes flirting and then I warned him to give up his these bad habits forever otherwise I will break up with him, it was the first time I said something like this to him because I can not tolearate any irreligious activity because I'm so religious and has been raised in a righteous family and he promised he will give up his these bad habits because he don't want our breakup but I'm confused I should trust him or not. And yesterday again he said to me to not to befriend with anyone except him and never ever be bride of anyone except him.
Well apparently his gf is a 99 year old doll so yeah. He must be crazy!
My age is not 99, I don't know how by mistake that age selected, sorry :( Please bro now tell is that normal, I'm 6-7 years younger than him. And he daily thousand times says that in the whole world he never ever saw any girl who is more beautiful than me.
6 -7 years that would make you about 16 and he's 23? Your a minor...
OnceUponADream143, Yes but we have planned to marry after 4 years.
It doesn't matter if he's a moma's boy, he's a grown man..
As long as they don't engage in anything beyond plain sleeping, I would not be too worried. He just probably had a bad experience as a child and does not feel safe at night by himself so a wife will also fill those shoes.
If anyone goes with the "ewww", I say... you are the ones who needs to grow the FUCK UP.
Not only plain sleeping, I can say with much surety that they cuddle and people says to me that after my marriage with him, I will be unsafe in his house in my room in night because he will be sleeping in his mom's arm in another room and I will be all alone. And no not all absolutely not, he had never ever any bad experience as a child and he is so much brave he even don't fear death and no matter any bad happening and any accident, he is too much fearless no words to describe how fearless and how brave he is. He is a absolutely Macho man. He had a perfectly normal and very good experience as a child even better than mine. He absolutely don't feel unsafe at night by himself. Really nothing like this.
@This_guy_here So after knowing about his perfect normal and great childhood, so now tell me is it normal?
OK, time to break up then.
Okay I'll try, in fact after asking this question on this website, I talked to him on his number and questioned him about some of his more bad doings. He also likes smoking and likes alcohal which I got to know after few months of our relationship and yesterday after talking him I got to know that he really likes smoking. He even said he had kissed some girls. After talking to my parents, about breakup I'm thinking and even said to him about it yesterday. If it is the only way then after all the attempts I would do it.
Your boyfriend is sicko with the whole sleeps with his mother, and not allowing you to talk to other guys. Frankly you are quite pathetic for putting up with that.
It's not normal, and it's certainly not right.
Sleeping with mother is not bad but are talking about kiss and so then it is holy shit.
They cuddle while sleeping and people says to me that after my marriage with him, in his house in my room I will be unsafe because he will be sleeping with his mom in his mom's arm and in another room I will be all alone.
What makeimg you alone is very wrong if he is your husband then he have to be with yo.
I can understand that he love his mother and everone loves there mother bit this is not fair
Her mother has also his husband
Everyone loves to sleep with therhere husband better tontalk with him
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NO IT'S NOT TROLL. NO NO NO NO NO NOOOOOO! If you can not help and give any advise then please don't say these things..
eh... a little creepy but wahtever
What should I do?
well... i think that depends on how much it bothers you. Why don't you question him about that, try to understand as much as you can, then see what issues you have with that and tell him
eh.. wait a minute dear, i just read:
"never ever talk to any guy except him and to never ever make any guy my friend even not brother, he wants that no boy except him talk to me and I say that I have not any guy friend and I would never do this and then he says to me that he have beautiful girls as his friends and they every day meets to him"
WTF IS THAT? ARE YOU MAD? whatever, it's your life
bet... you are 28 and accept such things? you may have a dire problem of self-esteem
(hey i not trying to bullshit you, it's just that it... shocks me a little :) )
i did not mean to be harsh, just want to help
Opinion Owner, that thing can not bother me which makes him happy because even I would kill myself for his happiness, nothing more important than his happiness and smile for me, even not my life. And I can not question him about these because it will hurt him and I don't want to hurt him ever in fact one time by mistake some words typed by me which had hurt him and then as a punishment I burnt my fingers.
Are you serious? Then i respectfully maintain that you may have a self-esteem problem. Happiness does not come from other people. What do you think?
And I just wanted to know that it is normal and not bad for him, that's why I asked. And I'm so afraid I can not even imagine that may God forbid anything happened with his mother so how tragedic and painful it will be for him so I pray that may God give me death but may never ever anything bad happen to his mom.
right... i absolutely can't help you, we are way too much different. Just try to be happy with yourself first, then with others
Yes opinion owner, I'm serious and thanks for your opinions and advices.
tell me lotuslotus is he pretty much the only guy you've been with?
Yes Opinion Owner he is even my first friend who is guy he is my first and last love.
but i don't understand why he forbids you to see other guys?
most couples don't behave this way after all
And not only with any guy in fact anyone, he wants that no one except him talk to me, he desperately wants that I have no friend except him and he wants that except him anyone not even touch me so because of this reason during the festival Holy he feels so stressed, feels anxious about it. He wants that except him no one see me. He always says to me to not to befriend with anyone except him and not to talk to anyone except him. But he says that he have beautiful girl as his friend who daily meet and talk to him to whom today again he have to meet her. I can't understand how can I convince him because he always says to me that he's always too much worried and so afraid that I will become anyone else bride and he always says to me to never ever do this and no matter how much I convince him that these all never ever going to happen, not to worry it will never happen, to be relax but he says he is never ever able to make his this fear away from him and he can never ever be relax.
And he says he can not see me with anyone except him and he says he will murder/kill the one who will try to come between him and his girlfriend ( me ) and I requests him to not to think & talk about killing and I requests him to be relax because that's never going to happen but still he says he will not let him alive and he can not be relax and very aggressively says that if any guy will come then he will definitely kill him murder him and then to make him calm down I try my best to convince him, try to make him believe but that attempts don't work.. I don't know he says it's true and heartly or just flirts but He says that for him he can never ever find any girl beautiful than me and also loving and caring than me and except him my befriending and marriage with anyone else, he will never ever let it happen, he'll destroy everything.
And He says about me that he know I can not do it but still he is always afraid that I will leave him and about lossing me, he always says that he always every second feels too much worried, anxious and too much afraid that he will loss me and he says that he thinks and feels that his fears will make him mad, he will be mad because of his these fears. I don't know what to do? Please any advice?
Some people were saying that one day he may kill me for any matter and he's probably any pyshco and cyco and after seeing him my mom said to me that "he looks cyco, he is good looking but he also looks cyco" and she will be always so afraid that what's he doing with me. Everyone says it but don't know why I don't think so, I think he is just good looking not cyco but it's true usually he looks aggressive. Is he really cyco as everyone says or He's not? Am I right or not?
And everyone says that after my marriage with him, in his house in my room I will be unsafe because he will be sleeping in his mother's arms in another room and I will be all alone. And my mom says that she will be always so worried and anxious that what's he doing with me if I'll stay with him. And sorry I meant that his mother ordered me to burn my fingers as punishment which I thought I should try to do it for her but I did not burn my fingers And people says me to spend some time with his mother before my marriage with my bf but she lives in Pakistan & I don't live there I live in my country so usually we can not meet, seldom I meet to her. And some people also says to me that it can be love jihad so to be careful. And yesterday on our phone conversation my bf told me about his some bad habits which are smoking, liking alcohal, likes to flirt & he had kissed so many girls. And I warned him to give up his all these habits otherwise I'll breakup with him & he promised he won't do it.
And now I'm confused that what to do? After knowing about his real face after seeing his real face now I should trust him or should not trust him anymore. I can tolerate anything but I can never tolearate anything irreligious, any irreligious activity because I'm so religious and I'm raised in a righteous family.
i suppose you realize that you are a free being and worth to be happy and be loved by someone who is also confortable with himself, not a.. possesive, insecure and jealous.. freak? :) You don't live in fear do you?
i already told you, happiness doesn't come from other, i fear you bf has never mastered that and it's bad for both of you i think
i slept with my mom until i was 12..
i had anondonment issues
now i won't dare do it
That is definitely not normal! Very bizarre. Wtf.
What should I do? Should I try to stop him but my heart can not allow me to do this because it will hurt him, it will make him feel upset.. :( And what would you do if it was you in my condition, may never ever this happen with you but just asking.
Oh boy I don't even know :( honestly I would just sit and have a talk with him. Ask him why he does it and if the mood seems right then tell him it makes you uncomfortable. That is just so tough. I don't know what I would do. I would find a way to talk to him without upsetting him. Like I never slept in my parents bed, not as a baby, toddler, or kid. Always my own room. I can't imagine being 23 and sleeping with one of my parents. It would be a turn off for me :(
I do kind of agree with the other people too, it seems a little unsettling because he may have some issues... Be careful :(
its kind of creepy to be honest.
wow
much proud
too much good
many love
Sis is that normal and right?
Not believable, Its not our culture!
It's culture of no where and he folllows Pakistani and Islamic culture but I'm from Bharat and not Muslim.
And we both have not this type of culture and religion in which adult sons and daughters sleeps with parents. Neither in his religion and culture and nor in my religion and culture. It's culture of no where.
I am from India, you shouldn't post this type of question. lets not know about us to others such silly things. Honestly are you a BOY/GUY? coz we Indian make fake account that is not good.
Don't mind please. Before go to ahead clear about yourself mala /female? If you tell the truth I will guide. But still don't like fake?
itis not normal ,
So should I stop him?
i remember slept next to my uncle till like 10. if you think carefully if its was his sister or brother that he sleep next to. what you would think. In the other country that fine. i think he sleep with his mother is not ok though because it prove that not man you can relies on. do you want a boy or man?
Yes Yes Yes stop him now
I can't believe this is still here...