We do things couples do BUT he says I'm his "best friend" PLEASE HELP

Anonymous

(30-35)

he ...

1. gets jealous over every guy that tries to talk to me

2. accuses me of sleeping / being with other guys

3. gets mad when I confront him about being jealous

4. his friends refer to me as "his girl"

5. tells certain people I'm his girlfriend

6. I'm with him ALL the time

7. we act like we're a couple but I'm more distant due to the fact I don't know what we are and I don't want to continue to make an effort if we're just friends

BUT... when the subject comes up on what we are he says we're "best friends" WHY!? IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!

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Anonymous
(36-45)

+1 y

are you kissing, huggine, flirting, toching, having sexual interaction, if not you are stuck in the friendzone he wants you as a romantic partner, make a decision, do you feel the same way and then ramp it up... doenst get any easier than this, friends, mental attraction he's giving big signs what he wants ...

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  Yeah we do all of those things. How should I ramp things up with him then? I've done everything I could to show him that I care. I just want him to let me know that he wants to be with me and not play these games cause in my point of view we are dating but he doesn't think so.
  
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ozlivid1991 Follow
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+1 y

he's obviously scared of making the first move regarding letting the other know how he feels-hell he likes you girl, just tell him you like him or ask him out-then you'll get a straight answer-the confronting him about being jealous thing will just make him clam up more!

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- Asker
  
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  Hes had plenty of other girlfriends before I don't know what's so different about me & he knows I care about him.
  
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- ozlivid1991
  
  +1 y
  Have you ever considered that he doesn't see as just another potential gf....?maybe something more and that's why he's slighlty scared cos he doesn't wanna muck it up!
  
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- Asker
  
  +1 y
  Yeah I thought so. But what can I do to let him know what he's not going to mess anything up and that we should date?
  
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- ozlivid1991
  
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  Be straight up with him, ask him to be your guy, offically, and be confident about it
  
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