I feel people start judging when one is married or have been in a committed relationship for a long time... It's usually family or as your question asks, those with kids, that tend to question why the other couple isn't having any kids yet. It's somewhat the same as the feeling of peer pressure of sex during one's high school years. But if anything, I feel It's mainly parents that puts the stress on having a child as they wish to take some responsibility in raising and spoiling grandchildren. My brother felt the pressure from his wife's family after they got married but chose to wait a year until having a child.
I don't have kids but I am not ashamed to say that I'd kinda look down on people who don't have kids for these reasons
- Because they like pets more than other human
- Because they want to 'enjoy'
There are tonnes of other reasons to not have kids and I don't think much of them
Some of them do, in an "awww you don't know what you're missing!" sort of way. It's kind of like when people who own dogs are shocked when they find out a person never wants to own a dog. We all just have to remember that not everybody wants the same stuff out of life.
I don't know as of right now, don't have kids yet thank goodness. However, my family (both immediate and distant) seem to I think. I have a sister that for a time was pregnant and she's only been married for less than a year, meanwhile I have a cousin who's been married for at least 5-6 years and hasn't had a kid and the family will ask from time to time "So... do you ever plan on having kids?" etc.
u Of course there are some people who feel self-righteous about such things. However it is also true that there are things you cannot understand unless you have experienced them.
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yes i do ! people who don't want children!!!
how could anyone not want babies!
aren't they humans any more?
weren't they a baby?
sometimes for their career!
sometimes , becoz they think , it's a result of unprotected sex or it's too early!
listen here, sex is a reproductive activity
it's not for enjoyment!
I want to say to people , especially on GaG, you should stop having sex with anybody with whom you can't spend life!
No. I think it's the opposite. Childless people always have "advice" on how to raise a child. If you don't have kids don't tell me how to raise mine. I'm talking about the negative advice. Some people without kids have this idea of how easy it is. It's far from easy.
when people have kids, they feel like they life now has meaning and it has more meaning than yours. some people create meaning in their lives through having kids and some don't. ones not really better than the other but both are necessary. studies do show that married couples with no kids are the happiest.
u we're just jealous that's all, I want everyone to suffer the same fate as me.
okay jokes aside, it's a very personal and individual decision to have or not have children.
I have one child. I under no circumstance look down on childfree people. It is their choice. Children are a choice! There a no wrong choices on the road to individual happiness
I thank goodness I don't have children! If they're looking down on me it's perfectly fine because I feel sorry for them 😂
i have a kid and i dont judge other people my age without kids because im obviously really young and most people my age dont have kids lol
but I dont judge older people without kids either
Yes they think it is a women's duty to breed. And if we don't we aren't fulfilling our destiny. Well screw that #childfree for life!
Honestly in my experience it's the other way around.
Also I think having kids is much more important than traveling the world
Some do, but I don't care. I just smile and nod knowing I can pack up and go anywhere whenever I want😁
No, because if they make the same amount of money, the one with kids will have a lot less disposable income.
I just came here for the comic cause it's genius and I'm dead 😂😂😂
Yes. They think that a baby will make someone's life better and happier. I know what is best for my happyness, not a stranger
That's a terrible image, kinda victimization.
If anything, I think it's the opposite, especially when you're young.
If you're really that happy and enjoying life, very few people will say anything.
A lot of people do. Many people think that having children should be the end-all goal of everyone.
I believe I'm more successful, that I don't have any kids, that I know of
I have kids, and I don't look down on people without them. I'm not sure what exactly doing so would accomplish.
I hope that. I just don't want children. I kinda afraid
No, at least I don't, I have a son but I'm a young mom and it's hard, and while I love him I wish I would've waited!
I do i look at them and wonder boy would I be as happy as them
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