Poll- do you still talk and see your siblings after they got married?

[Sugar100]

ever since my brother got married it feels like I lost my brother. His wife still sees all her sisters daily and whole family but is happy for my brother not be with his sister and parents. his sister in law is fake has treated me bad & then says bad things of me to my brothers head. me and my brother don’t text never , I haven’t seen him in 2 years. Now her sisters are his new sisters. We are like strangers. Also in past his wife has been jealous of me. I would sit next to my brother and she would be jealous stare at me from afar and fast sit next to him. Why she can still talk daily to her sisters after marriage but not my brother? Or is it normal when you marry or have kids family don’t matter any more just wife and kids and her family matter only? Is it normal for a brother he gone from sister after marriage?

Updates

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I want to know if other girls also have brother disapear after marriage?

[EmmaMary]

Thankfully both my two older sisters and our respective families are extremely close, and are totally there for each other for whatever might arise.

[Sugar100]

Yea but do u have brothers? I’m not talking of sisters I don’t have ssiters that’s why I’m alone. Is it normal for brotehrs disapear wen he gets married and girls loose their brotehrs forever?

[EmmaMary]

@Sugar100

Perhaps sadly and unfortunately we weren't blessed in having any brothers, so it's impossible for me to know... Sorry.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the A1 BC.

[petitedollbabee]

My sister has been married for 5 years and has a few kids, but we’re still very close. I get along with her husband as we have common interests like anime and video games.

[AmeerX]

It's not normal of him. Wife is just not a we ife with an open heart.

Some women can be so competitive

[Sugar100]

Competitive with his sister and parents?

[Sugar100]

Y she can be with her family daily and not him? She is bad person

[Sugar100]

I used to think her like my real sister now I see her true colors we r enemies

[AmeerX]

She is just insecure like girls everywhere.
They think they have power if they distance the husband from the husband's family.
Heck they sometimes go far that they make the guy move in with them to show they own the man

[AmeerX]

Makes one sick

[Sugar100]

I can’t have power of boyfriend 😂😂😂 his mom have. Power of him. Insecure of what? I’m just his sister. I shud see my brother but she want him only with her family

[AmeerX]

Some wives can be real bitches

[exitseven]

I have not spoken to my brother in many years It is what it is

[Sugar100]

Is that normal? Have brotehr disappear after marriage? Y she’s still seeing talking daily to her sisters? It’s not fair

[exitseven]

After my mom died I had a big dustpan with his wife I have not spoke to either of them in years.

[Sugar100]

I even had block sister in law from my social media she would be mad I’m going out seeing mom or boyfriend and not weekly at her family parties 🙄I have a life too. There’s nothing wrong of seeing my mom either

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[thegreenyogi]

The exact same thing happened to me with my brother. The first few years after he got married me and my mum tried to keep him around but it seemed he and his wife were just looking for a reason to argue and start a discussion with us so that they had an excuse to be offended and not have to come round eventually the final break happened and its been two years since I have seen him or spoken to him so I guess what I am trying to say is you're not alone.

[Sugar100]

GIRL SAME. 😞 I jsut don’t get y that girl can still see talk to sisters daily but I have to lose my brother?

[thegreenyogi]

It's just the way it goes. In that case it's what the woman wants. That said its not entirely the wife's fault. If a brother stops talking or having anything to do with family it's because he wants it this way.

[annabananna]

I do but I have two brothers that are married and the one that most recently got married got married to a girl that doesn’t get on so well with my other sister in law so because of this he visits his brother less often.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yeah. I still see my sisters, but I usually see the one I'm close to the most.

[Massageman]

sorry - I was an only.

[sunflower44]

Yes of course,, make their spouse feel like family

[Anonymous]

Because she doubts your character

[Sugar100]

I’m a nice person. All for being nice she don’t like me?

[Sugar100]

She is a bitch

[Sugar100]

Doubts what, lol I have done nothing bad. She is a bad person for wanting him have no family selfish