Would you be open to date or be friends with someone who struggles with bladder and bowel incontinence?

[NatureRain]

I struggle with bladder and bowel incontinence, and need to wear diapers as I don't notice when I need to use the toilet. This makes it difficult for me to be social and such as I find it extremely embarrassing

[Flower7]

I would be friends with the person but wouldn’t want to date. Has this been a problem for you your whole life?

[Avicenna]

Friends, sure. Maybe dating if there is something special about her.

[strateguy632]

face time... but not in person to be honets t. b. h.

[NatureRain]

May I ask why?

[Changiis07]

No maybe you'll find someone who understands or has the same thing you have

[NatureRain]

One day, hopefully

[Anonymous]

Sorry, no. I have OCD, and I fear germs and poo.

[NatureRain]

I understand

[Opinion Owner]

I truly am sorry to hear about this situation in your life. Is there any kind of surgery to make your life a bit easier for you? ❤️

[NatureRain]

I've visited several doctors throughout the years, but haven't been told how to do something about it

[Opinion Owner]

No one has offered a colonoscopy bag to help you? Or some kind of bladder surgery to catch the urine?

I'm sorry to hear that. Perhaps as medicine advances the doctors can help you 😄🥰

[NatureRain]

I have been offered colonoscopy bag, but unfortunately I'm very, very uncomfortable with having open sores on my body

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t blame you. It’s a high risk surgery and lifetime struggle.
Whatever you decide to do. I am sure you will make the right choice for you 🥰

[NatureRain]

Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You’re most welcome! All the best 🥰

[Justagirl_03]

Maybe, yes

[In_Trance]

That's a tough one