I cheated on my husband with his friend. Why would he still want to be with me and move forward like this? (Page 2)

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My husband and I got married over a year ago. Things were going amazing, I couldn't have asked for a better husband. We spent every single day together .Things were going great and we texted, and talked on the phone every single day. He would always bring me around his friends and family and we would always hang out with his best friend while he was back. His best friend was someone my husband referred to as his "brother" They did everything together. He was known as a bit of a player and was always hooking up with a new girl every weekend. My husband was always very hesitant about the both of us texting. Over  time my husband was so overwhelmed with work and we didn't get to talk as much as both of us would have liked so this caused a lot of fighting between us. One fight was so bad I just needed someone to talk to so I called the person who knew my husband more than me, his best friend.We had been texting, and hanging out before all of this and although my husband didn't like it, he allowed it because he trusted that his best friend and I never would do anything.I was a mess and called his best friend and we decided to hang out. We met up and went bowling, just to get my mind off of things. We went to his car and talked and drank a little, not enough to get drunk. We we're at a resort and decided to go swimming. Little did I know he had a room at the resort for the night so we went up and one thing lead to another and we ended up in the shower together but nothing happened. We went swimming and that's when it started to get heated. Next thing I know we are back in the room and we had sex. It just happened. I wanted so bad to tell my husband but his best friend convinced me otherwise, saying it was only going to do a lot more harm than good. His best friend and I didn't speak for another 2 weeks until one night he stopped by my house and once again I thought it was just going to be harmless talking but it turned into us having sex again. We did it 20 times in a 2 month period. I thought that he cared about me and I developed a crush on him. I guess I just needed someone physically there for me. There were times where we wouldn't "do anything"and just hang out but it got to the point where something sexual always happened. I hated it but I don't know why I kept cheating.His best friend and I stopped doing it around Valentine's day because we had a pregnancy scare and because my husband got suspicious. His best friend and I both lied to his face for 8 months before someone finally told my husband the truth. I don't know why I did it, I knew what it would cause but yet I continued to do it. I lied because I had a hope that he wouldn't find out that I slept with his best friend. My husband forgave me and changed jobs to be with me more. Why would he still want to be with me and move forward like this?

thomasjjeffy · Answer

And the gold medal of the slut goes to...

Coulis · Answer

Sad situation. Any updates?

SaltandVinegar · Answer

He should dump you ****

wbencomo · Answer

for his sake you should just leave him

Noodle_fan · Answer

he is secretly have cuckold fetish

Cablex · Answer

So your a slut and he is a goood guy.

RebeccaSJ · Answer

That's up to him.

I cheated on my husband with his friend. Why would he still want to be with me and move forward like this? (Page 2)

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