I can't keep my hands off my friend with benefits?

[Anonymous]

In private we're both agressive and go all crazy for each other, But the point is we are just friends with benefits so we shouldn't all crazy with each other in public. However, I can't seem to keep my hands of him in public he's just so hottt I can't help it. He keeps it's a bit more casual in public but if I ask to hold his hand he won't reject it. I'm always all over him in public how do I stop this? He doesn't reject me in public that's why I keep doing it, but since he's not super all over me in public I want to play it cool too but I can't help it arghhh HELP!! How do I stop and play it cool in public?

[theshewolf]

damn your friends with benefits and you actually go out in public... anywho, well you got with him for his looks and vice versa, who cares about playing it cool... he's not your man , who cares if he doesn't like it... grab his dick in public if he doesn't like it too bad... he's a friends with benefits he gets treated like the whore he is.

[Asker]

We actually like each others but can't get together for now that's the only reason why we hang out in public and I care about being cool. If I don't have feelings for him then heck yah I'm doung what you said but... you know that's more information to the question.

[theshewolf]

ohhh i seeee... then he's more than a friends with benefits then.. .. you shouldn't consider him that... at this point he's a guy your seeing.. just because you guys have no intentions to take it there yet doesn't mean he's not a guy your seeing... if he told you he couldnt see you anymore because he found a girlfriend would you be hurt? if yes... then he's not a friends with benefits... friends with benefits is someone you can easily kick to the curb once you have a relationships..

[Asker]

For a lack of better words I call him my friend with benefits because we are naughty with each other but is not in a relationship... Yeah he told me that he's only "seeing" me and no one else. I can't never get the difference between "hooking up" and "seeing", or "dating". Are they 3 different things?

Yes it would definitely break my heart if he tell me that :(

[theshewolf]

you guys are seeing each other... sex doesn't make it a friends with benefits relationship...