Why does he ask me what I'm doing but won't ask me out?

[Anonymous]

For awhile this guy I was talking to would ask me what I'm doing every night and after I tell him "nothing planned yet...you?" he would tell me his plans and invite me to be a part of them.

I've taken him up on his offer a few times and we both had a good time, but for the last few weeks after I ask him what he's doing he tells me without an invite? I'll mention like "oh that sounds fun" or something but he just won't invite me! I've tried inviting him to places but he's always real busy :/

[Macka887]

I do think he got your hint but I would hate to say it; but he might not be that in to you as to dating or going out. Guy don't blow off girls they like for no reason and if he thinks he can spend time with you some where then I'm sure he would invite you.

*As you state but if his friends are not the type he would bring you around, just give him time to think about what he wants to do.

I know you have a direction in mind for what you want to happen but does he have the same direction in mind also. just give it some time about two weeks max, anything more then more on bring it to his attention