Should I give up on chasing a girl that's not that interested in me, even if I'm crazy about her? (Page 2)

Question

I never had a problem getting girls until now. This the 1st girl ever to have me speechless when I see her, she makes me nervous when I'm around her, and I think about her constantly day and night. We started texting and then talking on the phone and she told me she liked me and found me attractive. Then a couple weeks later I made the mistake of letting her know how I really feel about her and it kinda scared her away (note that we never even been on a 1st date yet because of our busy schedules, we only see each other every Sunday at church where we met). She told me she's at a place in her life where she only wants to focus on her and not on guys. That she's not where I am right now emotionally. We both are coming out of serious relationships where we were hurt. I was hitting her up every night, but since that convo I haven't hit her up and it's been a week. She hasn't hit me neither but I can't get her off my mind. She's perfect for me, church girl, smart, funny, beautiful, doesn't drink, smoke, or party a lot. The kind of girl yo bring home to moms. Should I just move on or try my best to get her to fall for me? I'm desperate ladies!

Epiphanies · Answer

Move on. Your desperation is just going to repel her some more. If she wants you, she'll start sending positive signals your way.

Littletad · Answer

Never ever waste time on a girl who said no. This is a hard lesson.

Anonymous · Answer

Forget it, if she won't go out with you now she never will. You will be put into the "friend" group and won't beable to get out. I know this because I was once this girl. Trust me, move on.

BlackSuperman · Answer

you damn right yo should... quit wasting your time...too many other chicks out there for that

cody321 · Answer

Pretend to back off, but don't use other girls to get to her... and I bet she comes running

dsmarie · Answer

wait for two months and then call her again and see how she is.

asdfsdf · Answer

Give it your best. If you feel that you've found someone you want to be with, don't let her go!

eviegee · Answer

NO. DON'T GIVE UP. TRUST ME, SHE'LL EVENTUALLY GIVE IN. i mean, she has to. no girl can resist that persistence.

Anonymous · Answer

well the best thing to do is to just take it slow start by been friends ad make her like you then after a month or 2 ask her on a first date and just keep it easy and slow. hope I heelped :) GOOD LUCK

Danielblake95 · Answer

Mate I've got the same problem, she is like the ultimate girl and she is just so damn fine but she just isn't interested. Good luck with yours.

Anonymous · Answer

Put yourself in her shoes and then you have your answer.

xoxo95 · Answer

Hell no, she'll see that you want her a soon she'll come runnin

Anonymous · Answer

keep trying.  she might say she doesn't want a relationship because she doesn't.  probably she means she wants to see you try harder.  keep it up! she should fall for you. if not, she isn't worth it.

the_cheshire_cat · Answer

Watch the movie 50 First Dates.  <3

ToughTurtle · Answer

Move on sweetheart...

trod199 · Answer

Keep trying to get her

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