Only flirts with me when drunk?

[Anonymous]

so I first met this girl at a friends house we really didn't talk much at first but after a few other times we met we started to talk more and more. so we were both at this party and she was a bit tipsy , and she came over to me saying hi etc... we sit down start talking , she's laughing , touching my shirt saying she likes it puts her head on my shoulders , etc I was positive she liked me so the next day I see her and she's cold , like I'm non existent so I didn't bother to ask her out cause I was confused. FAST FORWARD next week to another party , she's there same sh*t she's a bit tipsy and it happens all over again and then the next day the same thing happens. I'm confused should I stay away from this chick because she seems a bit crazy .

[glittertilly]

ever heard the expression "druken actions are usually sober thoughts" aka she was probably shy but because she was drunk she had the courage to say and do what she had wanted to. hope it helps :D

[Asker]

Its just confusing to me because she's pretty outgoing herself and I figured she wouldn't be shy and do it without being drunk

[glittertilly]

Then she probably really likes you. think of it as a good thing, not a bad! if she really is outgoing then she will come out eventually (possibly sober :D) and tell you. gd luck! :)

[Anonymous]

hhaha look, im a girl and I've done the same thing.. doesn't mean i had something against him, i am just really shy.. she probably was too

[Anonymous]

She could be shy, alcohol gives her confidence to do those things and then she goes back to being shy and reserved, keep chating with her, shy people take longer to get to know