I know, I have a similar situation with my daughter...
I am white and my daughters husband is black... I have 3 grandchildren that i love very much and have a great relationship with. He on the other hand is such a racist against white people that it baffles me why he is with her...
Oh yea i had a lot of emotions too but my exes meant it as in i was too organized/prepared and always on point with stuff and they couldnt keep up so it bothered them
I just want everyone to know that stating that someone "acts white" is demeaning to black women and promoting white standards as in the typical white behavior is encouraged and lauded while black women are stereotyped as being ghetto.
There is no "acting white or black". It merely reinforces negative stereotypes about black women and positive stereotypes about white.
Sorry, @Anoniemus. I was actually using it in the opposite way, i. e. pejoratively. Because from my point of view, a white person who "acts white" is someone who comes from an elite wealthy background and is obsessed with their privilege. That's all I meant by that. What I just described is something I view negatively. I think those people are stuck up.
I wish it was that easy, but it's not when those people are being backed so much and how if I tell them I don't care what they say, I get painted as the bad guy😒
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I haven't been told that, but I do understand how you feel...
It wasn't about the rejection. Just the fact he dissed his own
I know, I have a similar situation with my daughter...
I am white and my daughters husband is black... I have 3 grandchildren that i love very much and have a great relationship with. He on the other hand is such a racist against white people that it baffles me why he is with her...
Yea i dont get why he's with her in that case. Maybe trying to change his mind? Or maybe she's trying to make you mad? I don't know
I have not been told that, i'm sorry he was a dick.
Yea its just sad he didn't realize he was one
I guess his education hasn't taught him as much as he thinks.
Someone told me I have too much energy for them and they couldn't keep up with me lol
I've been told all kinds of excuses. Not one of them honest.
I’ve been told I’m too much
Did you take it as maybe they thought you were too good for them?
Too emotional because i actually had A lot of strong emotions and he couldn’t deal with them
Oh yea i had a lot of emotions too but my exes meant it as in i was too organized/prepared and always on point with stuff and they couldnt keep up so it bothered them
Ohh nope that didn’t happen with me
I've been told that I'm too cold, distant, emotionless and rough many times.
In my case neither so I voted E.
That's funny; I've also found that white girls are either too ghetto or too "white-acting."
Can you seriously stop with the ghetto statements... i can only hold back the hood bitch in me for so long. Tone it down ☝️
Okay. I'm sorry. I really am. Is there a better way I could have said that? I guess you don't like that word?
I just want everyone to know that stating that someone "acts white" is demeaning to black women and promoting white standards as in the typical white behavior is encouraged and lauded while black women are stereotyped as being ghetto.
There is no "acting white or black". It merely reinforces negative stereotypes about black women and positive stereotypes about white.
Sorry, @Anoniemus. I was actually using it in the opposite way, i. e. pejoratively. Because from my point of view, a white person who "acts white" is someone who comes from an elite wealthy background and is obsessed with their privilege. That's all I meant by that. What I just described is something I view negatively. I think those people are stuck up.
For example, someone who uses the word "summering."
That I'm not good enough, all the time
Ignore those hating hoes
I wish it was that easy, but it's not when those people are being backed so much and how if I tell them I don't care what they say, I get painted as the bad guy😒
I've been told that, but not for my race.
Yea mine was race related but i didn't mean it to be race related in general
Well, that guy is promptly an idiot.
@Danny_dan92 yes he told me i was too much today
That must be yo man now cause you stay tagging him haha
HAHA! Nah he wishes tho
Gotta keep them hands 2 urself
EEEE YESSS
I've been told im too good for somebody once
Yea same
I'm 6'7, this is most of my dating life.
Daaaaaamn you werent kidding when you said tall
Yeap, most girls say they want a tall guy, but as a tall guy, I can say they're exaggerating by a landslide.
Lol yea cause i prefer 5’7-6’2
Yeah, that's considered small to me.
Oh well, I don't have to be liked by everyone, a handful of people is all I need.
You're a foot taller than me. That is scary, lol.
That's the common sentiment 😂
I don't think I have been told that.
not enough yes
too much no
Yea it sucks
Yes, too much.
Did you take it as maybe they thought u were too good for them
Too much! In what way? LOL
Not really. I never heard a woman saying that
Never
Yea I have
Thoughts on this guy?