Was she flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

I was at a party and sitting on a chair by myself. A group of people I don't know coincidentally end up sitting on the couch opposite me. After about a minute, one of girls comes over and sits on the chair next to me. She introduces herself and we just talk about basic things.

During the conversation she shakes my hand, randomly gives me a high five and randomly touches me on the bicep. I was wearing a short-sleeved shirt and she initially grabbed that, but after a few seconds purposefully moved her hand down to just my skin. It wasn't so much a touch but moreso a grab.

For some reason she also introduced me to her girl friend but not her guy friends. She eventually left, shaking my hand, when her friends wanted to go somewhere else in the party, but she sounded disappointed and like she didn't really want to.

Do you think she was flirting or attracted to me?

[suprice]

I was at a party and sitting on a chair by myself. Was she flirting with me?

It's a common question that we've all asked ourselves at one point or another – "Was she flirting with me?"

Maybe you were at a party, like the one in the story, and you saw a girl sitting by herself. Maybe you caught her eye and she smiled at you. So what does it all mean?

There are a few things to consider when trying to figure out if someone is flirting with you.

First, let's look at the context of the situation. If you're at a party, it's likely that people are there to socialize and have a good time. This means that they may be more likely to engage in flirting behavior.

Second, consider the body language of the person you're interested in. Was she making eye contact with you? Smiling? Touching her hair or face? These are all common signs of flirting. Third, think about the words she was using. Was she complimenting you? Making playful jokes? Asking personal questions? Again, these are all common signs of flirting.

Putting all of these things together, it's likely that the girl in the story was indeed flirting with you. So what should you do next time you find yourself in a similar situation? Go talk to her! Chances are, she's waiting for you to make the first move.

[TheorionMage]

I'd say so... but I wasn't THERE to witness the interplay---

[jennifer_bloom]

Maybe she recently had a break up and wanted sex - can you mentally justify her interest in you if she has never had a conversation with you before? Like do you look better then her? Do you have money or a PhD?

[Asker]

She seemed very extroverted and flirty by nature. About 5 - 10 minutes after she left me, I saw her kiss one of her guy friends on the cheek. I think she just saw me by myself and felt like talking to me. I think we are about the same in looks; considered above average but not like models or anything. Did her actions indicate she'd potentially be open to have sex?

[YungBahlr]

She was probably into you, but with a group and didn’t want to abandon them out of obligation. It happens sometimes :/ Hopefully, you’ll be able to run into her again.

[Jltakk]

I honestly don't know, maybe she was? A girl definitely isn't wasting time talking to me away from the party.

[Anonymous]

Who knows anymore, you need to be a kind reader these days.

[Chiarac2003]

Yes I do.

[Joker_]

I don't think so