Why are guys so clueless to our feelings sometimes? (Page 2)

Question

Like no matter how much I hint and subtlety flirt they’re lost at sea. It’s almost like I have to spell it out to get the message across lol. Are guys just naturally not as aware of non verbal, more subtle clues,

PetiteBabe64 · Answer

Nobody can Read anybody’s mind nobody feels the same as the person right next to you.  The so called Feeling another’s emotions is a myth

ARWINGx1 · Answer

To be honest, it would've been worse with me, due to being (high-functioning) autistic. And in turn, I'd "naturally" struggle to pick up on subtle cues.

BeMuse · Answer

Obviously you're completely clueless to men's feelings as well because you can't figure us out.

Havthrills · Answer

Most of the time, yeah. It's kind of funny cause I can spot it if it's happening to someone else, but not to me. Most of us are clueless because we don't know the signs. Not all women flirt the same it seems.

exitseven · Answer

Okay- most guys cannot read minds. If you are a little flirty a guy might notice but will think that if he reciprocates he may look foolish. It is really a scary thing.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Yea some people are oblivious to certain social cues lol or he might not be really paying attention.

Anpu23 · Answer

There's a lot of subtle communication that is lost on each sex as they use different subtle cues. Yes be blunt and straightforward as guys often miss some types of subtlety

musicbrain5 · Answer

You can’t be subtle and secretive with guys. Be upfront.

jshm2 · Answer

Nah, they're just playing with you.  Sometimes seeing a girl get angry or frustrated can be her charming quality.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Because most guys are still boys, well into their 30s. Theyre used to having things provided for them and dont know how to seek it themselves.

Massageman · Answer

Do a quick search for " Mark Gungor, Tale of Two Brains", and play the 7:00 minute clip for a quick way to see how male vs female minds work.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's because y'all lie so fucking much. Do that enough and you will throw every man's compass out of calibration.

Staximus · Answer

If you're not touching us or being direct, most of us aren't going to get the message. If you want a guy, you should actually show it and act like it instead of being some mysterious fool

Anonymous · Answer

Get used to men being oblivious. We do not think like women. What we need is something like this.

Bethany22 · Answer

Do to their brain structure and the way they were raised

AydenHazor · Answer

I can't speak for all guys but I'm truly oblivious. I typically see all signs of flirting as signs of friendship until someone tells me I'm an idiot for not noticing

Valso · Answer

Well, we don't have crystal balls to try and guess what you want or need, so if you want something to be clearly understood, you should say it straight, without hints and other BS like that.

AmeerX · Answer

I know a few girls who may or may not have been interested in me. But they all were so indirect that I only found out that they liked me very late like couple of years late

ZenJen444 · Answer

Men are a lot smarter than some women give them credit for. If he's not responsive to you that means he is not interested in you.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I don't think it that we are clueless. We are afraid of misinterpreting the meaning of your actions. We don't want things to be awkward for either of us.

Becky316 · Answer

Sometimes we are equally clueless... or I have been anyway

Anonymous · Answer

Probably because women stupidly assume we are mind readers. Rather than just telling the truth you gotta beat around the bush and hint and flirt. I don't respect women who simply can't just come out and tell the truth.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Why do women insist on playing games? Tell us what you want, don't expect us to be mind readers.

TroyDT2 · Answer

"Are guys just naturally not as aware of non verbal, more subtle clues?" Mailed it.

athelete_7 · Answer

👀guys know ur hints. They avoid u if they dont want u just like women so u dont get hurt to know the reality.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

We're not clueless. Your clues just suck lol

AngelOfLight258 · Answer

Male and female brains are wired differently.

Grond21 · Answer

Wait, you mean men and women operate differently? How weird! Someone should have said something

Baseballgem4for4 · Answer

maybe if girls would just tell us what they are thinking we wouldn't have to play guessing games

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because women constantly send out a barrage of mixed, contradictory, and confusing "signals".

Jltakk · Answer

Maybe you need to quit hinting and just be open and honest with your communication. Thats for both guys and girls.

Deserter · Answer

We can't read your mind and y'all give mixed signals and do this lausable deniability bs cause you fear rejection. You nerd to be direct

Anonymous · Answer

It's just the way their brains are wired. Most stuff just goes over their heads.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Women think men don’t have any feelings at all. So..

Pohjolan · Answer

That's extremely unspecific. A bit like: Flirt better. Give us specific concrete examples, details.

Crankor · Answer

For some it's a matter of assuming your just being nice vs having a genuine interest

OnTheLevel · Answer

Maybe it's your communication skills that are lacking.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Because they vary from emotion to mood! Girls sometimes can't even figure it out.

BeachLuvR97 · Answer

To be unclear is to be unkind. Be honest and straightforward.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

The same reason why girls are so clueless to our feeling sometimes

Anonymous · Answer

We may notice it you are doing it, but we don't think too much of it. We don't want to get hurt and start liking you more, just so it turns out we misread your hints and flirting.

notwoke · Answer

wHY can't WOMEN JSUT COME OUT WITH IT? caps accidental

Fuentes · Answer

Men aren't mind readers and feminist say all men are bad.

MrTaboo · Answer

Because we dont run on Emotion. Hints don't work. Be obvious

msc545 · Answer

Probably for the same reasons women think that men's feelings are unimportant.

stanton · Answer

He us probably really shy, and you just might have to spell it out to him, s, good luck, honey, hope it works out for you.

Chthou95 · Answer

Imagine you thinking men think the way you do and expecting them to understand you 🤣

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

A hint of clingyness. Nothing is worse than forced attention

jimmy2 · Answer

Women are feelings and emotional Men are visuals

Anonymous · Answer

I am very good at reading body language and a telepathic psychic. i see everything

spartan55 · Answer

No, we are just naturally unable to read minds.

Chelsdope0 · Answer

Bc guys are dumb lol and super simple

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

Can't read minds

_no_one_ · Answer

then just say it?

bean2k22 · Answer

Because you're meaningless.

Redstang88 · Answer

You just answered your own question….

User3191989 · Answer

Guys are idiots

TrillXHippy · Answer

Many reasons why

ronaldo75 · Answer

Clueless? Maybe he doesn't like you.

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