Do you know how to stop someone to compliment them?

[PenkWing]

I realized that a lot of people don’t compliment others out of respect or fear of annoying them (legit!) and others do and are actually bothersome. On the other hand, a different category of people are able to make a compliment to a stranger without sounding weird. Do you have what it takes? Can you share your secret?

I think I have that gift! I can make compliments and people usually just smile and enjoy or even flirt back. But I cannot explain what it is that makes it work. I’d say that 80% of it is knowing when you can stop someone, or when they’d rather be left alone. It takes some observation. But maybe also not sounding like a creep and not expecting anything back! Not sure, really. Please tell me your secrets.

[Anonymous]

I can offer some general tips on how to compliment someone without making them feel uncomfortable:

1. Be sincere: A genuine compliment will come across as more authentic and less creepy than a forced or insincere one.

2. Be specific: Rather than just saying "you look nice," try to be more specific about what you admire about the person's appearance or personality.

3. Be respectful: Be mindful of the person's personal space and body language. If they seem uncomfortable or uninterested, it's best to back off.

4. Don't expect anything in return: A compliment should be given freely, without any expectation of reciprocation or further interaction.

5. Keep it appropriate: Avoid making comments that could be perceived as overly sexual or inappropriate, as this can make the person feel uncomfortable or objectified.

The key to learn here in giving a good compliment is to do it with sincerity and respect. If you approach the interaction in a positive and genuine way, the other person is more likely to respond positively.

[PenkWing]

You are still ChatGPT guy. This is kinda annoying.