Why are there other people in the way? Meaning: why do you allow so many men to be around you?
It sets off alarm bells when a girl is surrounded by guy "friends" (especially if they aren't all in the same social circle). Either she's slept with quite a few of them or she's an attention seeker. it's very rare to meet an attractive girl with lots of guys friends that she isn't either leading on or at least f*cked/dated.
Which makes them orbiters, and orbiters are just a pain in the ass. Too much drama, too much other BS. I'd definitely be discouraged. She'd have to be REALLY SPECIAL to me for me to give it a shot.
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guys in general fear rejection when the girl they're interested in is for example sitting alone so how about if she's surrounded by other guys,
personally I would be discouraged, however if she showed interest in me even when other guys are around her like for instance if she looked at me and we made eye contact while others are around her I would still think about approaching her, cause that would make me feel that she's preferring me over them
The people who get in the way are known as cockblockers... Unfortunately, you cannot stop them from behaving that way. Your choices are to ignore them and tell them to back off or get you and your special someone to talk one on one. I'm sorry you have to go through all that.
The guys I know get discouraged when there are too many guys hovering around a girl. They just assume they'd be rejected.
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Discourage. It'd probably make me feel like a) my attention isn't good enough for her, and b) if we ever fight, she'll cheat on me because it'd be so easy
yea that would keep me from approaching her unless she showed more interest in me then the other guys. Why not ask him out instead of waiting on him?
Majorly discouraging
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