To confront or not to confront...Please help: What would you do if you were in my shoes? (Page 2)

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So there's this guy that I've really liked for the past six months or so.  He knows how I feel but still I've always tried to treat him like all my other friends, which is generously.  I like to cook for my friends and do nice things for them.  So when I was moving, he asked me if I needed help and I said that it would be great that in exchange, he and his friend could stay at my place until they were able to move into their new place, I would take care of all the food and stuff  and then I would also help them move their things as well.  So anyway, it turns out that after that happened, he went behind my back and told everyone that I'm this crazy girl who's in in love with him and forced him to help me move my stuff...never mind that I helped him as well.  I didn't hear about this until tonight. It's made me think of all the other insensitive things he's done, like when I helped him find an ATM so he could get a cab home and we ended up in an abandoned mall; we sat and chatted and then he casually said, "if we were together, this would be the most romantic moment of your life, right?"  What kind of guy says that to someone who has feelings for him?!  So anyway, I've decided in lieu of all this that I want him out of my life, because he's completely selfish and uncaring for someone who's done so much for him and because he's wantonly teases me about my feelings for him.  So what would you do, would just ignore him and cut off contact, delete him from Facebook, etc.  Or would you confront him and tell him that he's a despicable person for doing that to someone who didn't deserve to be treated like something to walked on.

palek · Answer

Or course, if I were in your shoes I'd be looking for a bigger pair. But seriously, if I were young again I'm certain that you would cook for me and even call me Chubsy Ubsy, I can't ell you how much this means to me.

Frostie · Answer

I would of told him to f*** off. then I'd ignore him.

enlightened · Answer

see, cut off all contacts. if he tries to contact then tell him the reasons why you don't want to have anything to do with him

Anonymous · Answer

since you just like wrote a story of why and how he makes your life miserable, I'm gonna give you a short and brief answer: Just ignore that pathetic a**hole!

gwanhadu · Answer

I voted C. he should know you know what he's doing. And then cut off contacts.

suzyDD · Answer

its difficult to change some guys...is he worth trying to change ?

antonlikesmlb · Answer

I would cook him a "special" meal.

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