Girls! Do you like being approached in college?

[Anonymous]

Like do you girls like when a guy approaches you and asks for your number?

What makes you want to give him your number?

And how would you feel if a random guy approached you and asked for your number?

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Yes, I would say the majority of women wouldn't be upset or turned off by a guy approaching them.

I'd give him my number if we had a good conversation,and he seems like someone I can be socially confident and interactive with outside of him just being interested in me.

Please make sure you illicit a nice conversation first - don't just be like,

" AY YOU GUURL, WHAT YO NUMBA?!"

Lol you might scare her or she'll laugh at you and keep walking away.

[Asker]

hahaha that made me laugh. But yeah sounds reasonable. But what would you consider a good conversation. What topics should I talk about, what topics should I stay away from?

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Just typical small talk, how's your day going? And then respond as your normally would when you casually talk with friends. If she says " it's going great!" ask her what's so great about it - then throw in a compliment about her smile or eyes or something - butter her up. I would recommend waiting until the 2nd or third engagement you two have before asking for a number - since your on a campus, you'll see her around. The guys I've given my num too on campus didn't ask until the third or

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

fourth time we had conversations. That's good, as you can learn enough of someone to see if she's really someone you want to potentially date or not. She may seem like a doll the first conversation, but then turn out to have some drug issues or something the next lol. Plus, it will get more comfortable for you to interact with her, so you can start expressing more of yourself and making you more likable / interesting to her.

[SteelyMcBeam]

College is the first time in my life girls approached ME.

I wish I had a time-machine, because I was shy and didn't know how to react but to treat them like friendly strangers and think nothing about possibilities.

I'd imagine if they were willing to approach me and just start chatting, then you can sort of approach them and start chatting. Just make sure it's not a one time thing! You have to chat with them until they are FAMILIAR with you.

[SteelyMcBeam]

Yeah, don't ask for a number or a date immediately. Do you remember how you became friends with other dudes? Think of that as a good basis for an opener (I know, it's weirdly difficult because girls are pretty and soft and you cannot help but want to be more than friends immediately).