My boyfriend of 3 months wanted to think things through and possibly end the relationship yesterday. It was horrible. I got so upset and ended up asking him if we can give it another go because he does make me happy and I don't see why things can't work. I asked this several times then went quiet and just got really up set. He was crying too, he said that he does care about me and like me and has enjoyed our time together but he does not feel that he makes me happy and it is getting to him.
He said that we can try again but I need to understand that he does not want to communicate every day, that he likes to have time on his own and I'm not to worry because its not anything I'm doing. He said he wants to take it slow and not have sleep overs.
I have been hurt badly in the past, cheated on and abused. I feel so good with him, feel that I can trust him and talk to him. He messaged me first today and I waited for 2 hours before messaging back. I just don't know how to act.
What do I do know? Do I let him initiate all contact and meeting up? How do I make this work/make things better?
Thank you for reading. I will appreciate all help on this and need it. Thank you.
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