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Why Women Have A Hard Time Finding Good Men (Page 2)
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First, I'm glad that you found someone. Second of all, you are right at some point, women who are like THAT do have a hard time finding a guy. BUT
you probably should've named the take as "Reasons why *some* women have a hard time finding a good guy" instead of generalizing it as *Women* (which makes it sound like ALL women)
This "generalizing" BS is what he's talking about when he says that women can be petty.
He's talking about women that ARE having trouble finding a good man and the probable reasons why.
Come on, use some common sense.
@Ravenshadow6623 sorry but i don't know if i totally understood you?
when the title would say "Why Women Have A Hard Time Finding Good Men " first think i would understand is that he's saying that ALL woman have a hard time finding good men. Nit that he's talking about SOME women.
@Ravenshadow6623 So you would be fine with it if I wrote a MyTake titled, " Why Men have a Hard Time Satisfying Women in the Bedroom" , and in it were the subtitles, "Men Don't Know What They're Doing", "Men's Penises Aren't Enough", and "They Think the Clitoris Needs to be Jabbed at To be Stimulated, That is if They Even Know About It" . You wouldn't be offended at all because to you this is only talking about the men who do have trouble in the bedroom? Oh and in this article I talked about how stupid men are , how clumsy they are trying to please the woman, and all the while talking about how I do everything right... This wouldn't be a problem for you at all to read? And it wouldn't offend you then when you start looking at the comments and hundreds of women are agreeing and adding more complaints about your gender... Still not a problem?
P. S. I'm not saying I think this about men in the bedroom... I'm just giving an example that hopefully gives you perspective...
i don't have difficulty talking to guys. not guys i get on with. no more odd than women i get on with. you're comparing a set of girl friends to two people into change when its beyond just hanging with friends. and whoever is more shy will talk less-or more in order to compensate for perceived weakness- this is not about gender.
its different. and plenty of guys get tongue tied in the face of a crush.
but then i'm not complaining about a paucity of men. i'm just trying to get comfortable with the guy i do like.
Perhaps the fact you don't match the women he describes explains why you're in a happy relationship at age 17, while some of these women have been single and looking since you were watching sesame street.
:-)
@0112358
If i knew when this question was asked id have a better idea of exactly how long I've been with him ;)
Autocorrect must have contributed to my response.. I am not exactly sure what i am saying, though generally i get the essence.
I just want to say about the talking is that with anyone. If your not talking a lot male or female you bored the other person and they wouldn't want to date again. Having a lot of pauses and being quiet especially with someone you barely know doesn't look good. Two about the joking how was that joking? on text that looks really like you meant it. It probably would had been a different reaction if she could read your expression while you said it. But then again I don't know why the hell she cares if her car is faster the another car. She sounds childish anway.
The one who rejected you over being less manly well it seems like she not over a crush/ boyfriend she had in the past that was "manly" or she delusional.
But there tons of guys that treat women like shit. Over petty things like weight, how they look, for saying one thing just like women.
I think many women don't give themselves the opportunities they should or give others the benefit of the doubt. Not to say this includes all women, but here's an example. I drove 45 minutes to take this girl out to grab an ice cream and walk on the beach. She lived by the beach so it was like a 5 minute drive for her. We weren't on the beach 10 minutes before she had her friend call with some excuse saying she had to go. Really? Didn't even give it a chance and I just spent 20 bucks on ice cream!
You need to read the current data. Most women say they don't give guys a chance because they know what they want and don't like wasting times on things they know aren't going to work out. Women currently from the data want good genetics (tall, nice face) more so than ever.
By making a statement like, "all women are judgmental, petty, and enjoy making a fool of themselves," you're creating a bias in your mind and furthering the divide between you and any women you might ever have a chance with. People don't like to be wrong so when you make statements like you did, in the back of your mind you'll always be looking for reasons as to why you're right, looking at the flaws and ignoring everything else.
Maybe instead of looking for THE right girl you should look for A right girl. Don't be so set in how you think a women should be. Meet a girl and start talking, be open to the fact that she probably won't be exactly what you're looking for because you won't find a girl that matches everything on your list. Just try to be more open minded and a little less judgmental yourself.
You know why I had a problem finding a good man? I was too fucking shy.
But you sir, generalized the fuck out of females, I'm surprised any girl is interested in you. Your just as judgmental as the girls you complain aboit
Congratulations on finding your current girlfriend. You see what you have been through is the process of finding a good girl among the bunch. It's perfectly normal, you come across many girls, who aren't serious and then you find one good one. It's no different than picking the fresh and least damaged watermelon from a watermelon stand.
Here's my theory why women have a hard time finding a good guy:
- Their standards are too high/unrealistic including but not limited to:
- He's not rich
- He's not attractive
- Doesn't drive a car
- Lives with his parents
- Likes My Little Pony
- Watches porn
- Likes to play video games
- Is short
I don't bash women either but if women would actually overlook these things, they can be overwhelmed by the choices of guys they can have.
Actually I thought you sounded like a pretentious dick... And that was before I read anything else.
Anyway, I'll say what I always say. If you find the right person you don't have to change.
It's not that girls can't talk to guys it's that you to don't click.
Meets a girl at a car show, immediately tells her that her car is shit compared to his. What did he expect her to do? Drop to her knees and worship him, I guess?
Relationship is tested when you live together. After 2 years later, that's when you start seeing each other's true color.
I'm surprisingly very patient with my man and he is ready to explode for petty errors. He wasn't this way in the past. I understand him in many ways. He has a strange way of benting- yelling or screaming. Imagine, you see your loved one kicking a wheel or punching his/her tv for not working when s/he connects a DVD player. He never tried to punch me, so I don't feel threatened.
All I saw here: I am amazing, generalisation, generalisation, I'm better than you, generalisation, I'm bitter and more generalisations.
Yeah to be honest it sounded a bit narcissistic to me although I don't disagree with all of the points he as mentioned.
@confusedgirlxox I disagree with most of it. It's basically slating most women. Which is utter garbage. He struggled to meet a woman because he's too far to his own arse.
In all honesty he's right.
I can say all those things about women nowadays outside uni.
Women are not women anymore like 20 years ago. They are bitches.
@yucel_eden you're 22 and you're already that cynical? Grow up. You've had a few bad experiences and you think you know ALL women ever? No.
And how the hell would you know what women were like 20 years ago 🙄
You compare the women in their 20s and their 40s. Especially the way they explain relationships and their past. Massive difference.
@yucel_eden how many women in their 40s have you dated sweetie?
So it's all down to numbers? Logic is interesting
@yucel_eden it's down to experience. You're trashing all women in their twenties yet you've dated zero older women so what makes you an expert?
How do you know I've dated 0?
@yucel_eden so far you've hardly been forthcoming about the amount of cougars you've dated. I asked you and you dodged my question. Evidently you struggle to find girls your own age to date you so I imagine you've had similar experiences with more mature women.
Lmao no I was just twisting the argument. It was questioning your logic rather than dodging.
Again, you haven't met me and your saying I struggle to find people to date. Your saying I judge?
@yucel_eden if you didn't struggle you wouldn't be so bitter at 22. I'm not judging you for struggling. I'm judging you for slandering an entire gender because YOU struggle to date.
The issue I have here is the whole generalising people into one category.
Any person -boy or girl - could have these qualities, its not just women.
But one can notice if certain traits show up more in one gender more than others and make a statement about it. If we act like it doesn't exist then it is just going to fester.
@BubbleBoy69 that is just sexist in my opinion. Why is one trait more in a specific in one gender compared to another. At the end of the day it down to the PERSON and what they are like as a human being, not just cause their gender dictates which trait they are more likely to have
I have met loads of guys with all of the traits you mentioned, how do you explain that
Because the genders aren't equal or act the same no matter how much we champion equality. So you will fine women exhibiting certain traits more commonly than men and vise versa. And generalisation isn't a bad thing, it's how we advance as a species. We can't incorporate every possible scenario into a rule, and there are exceptions to every rules just as their are individuals who the generalisation does not apply to. However, generalisation let's as see a pattern or trend in behaviour that we can then make a conclusion on or have further discussion.
@BubbleBoy69 I cannot nor will not believe in what you are saying.
The sexes should equal because everyone deserves to be treated as equals.
Generalisation is why bad things have happened in the past and why people still need to fight for equality and basic human rights.
You speak of rules, yet generalisation is more rule based than what I am suggesting. I would not judge someone on their gender but on who they are as person.
it doesn't matter what you believe in or dont want to believe in, what bubbleboy69 is saying is fact. Women do behave like this far more than men do, and the genders are not equal. Men are biologically superior overall and nature made it this way, it doesn't matter what people "think" about that because it will always remain a cold hard fact of reality. This doesn't mean we should treat one gender worse than another but we should not be surprised when we see differences in patterns of behavior in the genders since gender roles and masculine traits and feminine traits are not social constructs but based mostly on biology and a little bit of nurture/environment.
@alphadoggystyle Firstly these are not gender traits, these are just normal traits in people - men and women have them. It is discrimination to assume a people will act this way purely cause of their gender.
Secondly, it is not fact but opinion. So do not preach to me as if I am some little girl who doesn't know any better. Shame on you for talking down to me.
If you do not like my opinion then fine, I respect that but to say it is not true when yours is is completely wrong-
If I were to stereotype you, like this article as done I say it obviously your gender that has made you think you are better than women and more smart and therefore I must be wrong. However, I will not stereotype cast to you because I am better than than.
@alphadoggystyle Still bullshit.
IT IS OPINION NOT FACTS YOU ARE STATING
Why do you continue to target just me when others have commented and agreed with my points. Get a life and stop harassing women. I do not feel shame for standing up and defending myself against pigs like your self, who makes this world a very cruel place.
I have not lost since this all opinion base
There are many privileges I have that not because I am a woman but as a person. I would say the same for you but there is only negative, disgusting flaws you have to bully someone based on their gender and beliefs.
@alphadoggystyle Dude, what you are saying is not facts at all. Period. People should not be judged not on their gender but who they are as a person.
Frankly, your attitude stinks mate, sounds like you are being too judgmental and cannot have a serious conversation.
@alphadoggystyle
you had to block me because you could not handle the fact you were wrong
women are as superior as men
deal with it
@alphadog No you are the one who lost mate- got your account deleted, all the posts you did were removed because you were wrong asshole. You are not superior
women are more superior than you.
everyone is more superior than you
you are just a fucking little loser with no knob
YOU LOST
YOU LOST
YOU ARE INFERIOR TO EVERYONE ELSE
@alphadog END OF STORY BITCH
tell me why your account got deleted, oh yeah because you were wrong!!! suck it loser
they only removed your post because it was wrong
you lost
women are as superior as men
you are the inferior one
@MrDude909 Something smell suspicious. A lvl 1 male account that seem WAY to involved and caring of a random female post. Hmmm...
@BubbleBoy69 - the story was alphadoggystyle originally posted a different post targeting both her and me thats why I am involved
@BubbleBoy69 this post was removed but he continued it on her and i am finishing it - also his old account got deleted so he made a new one and i will have it removed
alphadoggystyle and @alphadog are the same person - who should be removed because he made rude comments, which were beyond offensive-
he targeted me and bullied me because i was gay - is this right to you?
@BubbleBoy69 sent homophobic comments, insults and abuse at me - thats is why i am so involved he made it personal
another anonymous with animus . implying he looks like a David Gandy .
claiming a very obedient and independent dream girl g. f. .
"IT'S FUNNY" she doesn't use social media . but here he is all self absorbed .
i can learn a lot from a man too when im being a good girl . in his fantasy .
UPDATE: For those of you praising and congratulating MARK on his myTake
and expressing your happiness he found someone... HERE IS THOMAS - - - -
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a8702-tinder-dating-men-edition
"My name is Thomas. I am 24. I'm a pretty averag guy with a lot of ambition.
I've always been the guy who many have called "Mr. Right". I am a college graduate
and graduated top of my class... I work as an Account Manager for a major
corporation... I drive a pretty nice car."
In the Thomas myTake received 25 comments but was much nicer about females .
in this Mark myTake wiith over 100 comments, Mark takes the opportunity to
shame women even though he says "This Take is not meant to bash all women",
but he does it anyway in his "Final Highlights: and Most Women I Meet:
CONCLUSION? IS THIS myTAKE REAL OR FAKE? . Or just more anti-female BS .
Do you feel like you wasted your time investing your thoughts responding to
crapolla fiction? . Or doesn't it matter? . Just wondering? .
👏👏👏👏 I think it's fake too
@Blonde401 👍👍👍👍 I didn't think anyone would read this! 👍👍👍👍
https://s9.postimg.org/xdbs7de5b/z_Image2.png
and he got 2 years older in just 4 days!
🤔🤔🤔 old work Sherlock! It makes no sense!! Once again gag pushes anti woman shit down our throats.
Great work! lol
@Blonde401
girls eventually find out evverything . we just do . appreciate your backup Watson!
@AndrewMG
hey thank you :)
😉👏
I appreciate the irony in your comment.
This girl sounds amazing, congratulations on finding someone who accepts you for who you are as person and can actually not be too serious and fun once in while. I agree on your opinion about women not knowing how to talk in conversations. For me I had to make conversation and talk to the girl but the problem is running out of things to talk about or the girl just seems uninterested in talking and would rather be on her phone checking messages or using social media. There also awkward silence which just kills the mood.
Have children from previous marriage; it would be deal breaker if she was married and it didn't work out. I wouldn't like raising children that weren't my own plus theirs the emotional babbage that comes from the women and children.
I think women have a right to basically have their own version of what the ideal "man" would look like. The same as I am sure guys have their own version what the ideal "women" would be for them. Everyone has different preferences when they are looking for the qualities in a man or women that would eventually make the perfect person to date or marry. Some women prefer a man who is 6'0 tall and has the body of a professional wrestler. The guy does mainly things like drinks and plays sports and is basically a guy and knows how to act like a guy.
Most guys prefer a girl who is girly. She makes them feel like they are special and she is willing to spend time with the guy and be herself without worrying about how he sees her. She accepts the guy for who is on the inside and on the outside as well. She's basically is the type of girl that you could take home to your parents and they would love her. She's the girl next door.
Men too. They still allow their exes to rule them when they are with a different bitch. Women don't breed kids alone.
@antsy
True, some men still let their ex's control them. And yes it takes both a man and women to bring a child into this world.
A 'Good man' is such an ambiguous term with it relying on an individual's perception
Herein lies a lot of the struggles Women have for they are attracted to flawed qualities. By the same token, a lot of guys define themselves as 'good men' without an honest & in-depth appraisal of their actual appeal.
even from your own self-description you judge your appeal on a rather transparent level rather than a deeper one that truly defines a 'good man'
I think lots of people have a hard time finding someone because with online dating and apps, people have so many options and tend to have the "grass is greener on the other side" mentality.
That being said, I'm glad I'm seeing a girl I met 2 weeks ago who isn't flaky and doesn't play any mind games. She's able to carry a conversation and is pretty open minded.
I mean it's still early on so I'm just playing it by ear and getting to know her but I've had a lot of issues with dating. Either the girls would be very flaky or super clingy, mostly flaky though. I've gone on so many dates where the women would flake or ghost after a date or a few and it'd be frustrating to have to spend all that money and time on dates only to keep searching for a new one. It felt like I was constantly starting over.
Dude, this is way too sexist. Man I have met so many guys with these problems.
people need to stop stereotyping and judging people based on their gender. People should be judges by who they are as a person.
Traits within people are not because of gender anymore but on who they are as a person.
This exactly. There are women who have some or all of these bad habits, but there are men who have them too. These types of generalizations and stereotypes have no benefit or purpose.
@samhradh_leannan
Dude. I'd so hug you right now if I could.
The good men/women are either already taken or have no time for more pussy/dick. There's only 24 hours to budget a day, more than 3 fucks a day is hard to maintain (time for that is usually borrowed from sleep, which will catch up with you sooner or later, usually less than a month) and also do all the other crap that's makes you "good".
Perhaps, we should open a clinic for these people. Usually, these suspects complain for the sake of bitching. 😁
You started this take saying you couldn't get a girlfriend, and then rambled about how it is somehow the women's fault? Like congrats finding one girl who wants to date you but the rest of them probably don't care.
Hmmm... I thought this take was going to be different...
Although I don't generalise... I agree with you.. Some women bash men so much, and act like they are the perfect little flower.. But I wouldn't say women have a hard time finding them.. I would say ignorant women have a hard time finding a good man and in vice versa with guys.. In fact people (men and women) today are more about the hook up than actually lookin for somethin long term.. They have too much of an ideal..