Think of it this way : You have two guitars one electric and acoustic The electric one is loud and lively and catches ones attention through its powerful yet striking chords.
On the other hand you have acoustic guitar, which may not be as loud but can still carry a beautiful and soothing melody through its own arrangement that alone can gain the same level of attention as the electric one.
Confidence isn't about being loud to get noticed but truly believing in own abilities on a individual level
Point is shy men needs to come out of their shell and hold a conversation. Show to girls they are confident and don't rely on others. Point of the poll is if girls usually like confident men or even shy is fine.
@Letschat113 oh big hurray! No one cares. Just because you have a pussy doesn't make you special. Guys have always done that. What's up with women these days thinking their heroes for doing trivial tasks.
No just it would be harder to talk. Girls like someone who is easy to get along and if you don't engage. They get turned off like soz, some do like that but it's tough to find because mostly girls like someone who talks well and is confident like
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Quiet confidence is hot ;)
Quiet confidence? Can you explain plz?
Think of it this way :
You have two guitars one electric and acoustic
The electric one is loud and lively and catches ones attention through its powerful yet striking chords.
On the other hand you have acoustic guitar, which may not be as loud but can still carry a beautiful and soothing melody through its own arrangement that alone can gain the same level of attention as the electric one.
Confidence isn't about being loud to get noticed but truly believing in own abilities on a individual level
Makes sense?
Being confident is yourself, like your point of view. Interesting and thanks! :)
Confident guy 😻 I am already shy and insecure, why I want guy like that?
Confident guy. I'm shy myself so I feel like I need someone confident to balance things out.
There's nothing more attractive than a confident man
Fuck, looks like I'm gonna die alone.
Dont worry dude. This is a trait that is 100% able to change if you want to.
@TheFunkyThumb Go from introverted to extroverted? Well I guess I could either always carry liquor or survive a non-fatal head injury.
Start with one. Then do the other
Nah man girls also dig shy guys. Just it's rare so
Would you rather appeal to as wide an audience as possible or keep operating on a super niche market?
That's upto you like, whatever you prefer. I used to shy like but I'm both like
I dont understand the POV of this poll.
It looks like shy men can't be confident.
Point is shy men needs to come out of their shell and hold a conversation. Show to girls they are confident and don't rely on others. Point of the poll is if girls usually like confident men or even shy is fine.
I think its isn't a shy man, its a coerced man. Don Drapper from mad men is more a shy man and I think he is confident
as I always say, I like everything in moderation. not too shy and not too confident.
A confident guy with a touch of shyness
That doesn't exist
Or rather doesn't make sense
@BlackMaleYou there are auch guys
Whats a touch of shyness?
@BlackMaleYou its a phrase indicating that a confident guy must be a little shy too
I think u are trying to say not too confident
A good question to post would be assholes or nice guy, almoat the same question
Nice isn't always shy like. A bit different context but can see your point
Lol Yea thats why i said almost the same
Girls prefer the guy with a big wallet. Can I get an amen?
I make my own money and pay my own bills.
Not all do, some are pretty independent and confident in themselves
@Letschat113 oh big hurray! No one cares. Just because you have a pussy doesn't make you special. Guys have always done that. What's up with women these days thinking their heroes for doing trivial tasks.
Girls like good looking, decent smelling, non crazy (maybe) men, not boys, men.
It's a different topic like
They prefer the confident guy so they can sit on their ass and wait to be approached
Kinda of a dumb question everyone know girls dont like shy guys. I've asked this question before dude.
Girls do like shy guys, just it's not a popular thing. It's really not of a dumb ques at all
I like shy guys so i can fucking dominate them in bed
It's not about confidence that's just a myth. It's about looks, money status and height.
Not all do thou
Confidence, is attractive, it's more masculine and draws girls in
Confident because I love an alpha male
Definitely confident I’ve had guys lose me in the past due to a lack of it
You mean you left them because they were not confident enough for your taste.
Absolutely not they’ve never had the balls to ask me out and a more confident man beat them to it
So they didn't lose you, they just never got you.
Yeah and they lost me by never having me
So if u re shy type re u not also to be loved please
I don't understand what your said
I mean am very shy person and talking to people is diffcult so it mean i will not get anyone to love me right?
No just it would be harder to talk. Girls like someone who is easy to get along and if you don't engage. They get turned off like soz, some do like that but it's tough to find because mostly girls like someone who talks well and is confident like
Confident but not arrogant
You mean a guy with a fat wallet...