I have this particular guy friend who I am going to talk about, that I don't know why he is acting this way.
For instance, this friend when he sees his friends (guys or girls) he would go and start talking to them. However, when he sees me, he would look until I see him,and wait till I smile and wave a little hello. Then, he would smile back and nod. However, last time, he did saw me but I didn't recognize him and so I didn't nod. Then I saw him online and after I said hello, he responded in a way as if he was waiting for me to talk to him. He told me that I was walking near him but that I didn't see him. I then told him to come and talk to me when he sees me as I sometimes don't recognize everyone. Then he just sent this: :) and said nothing. However, from that day, when he sees me, he still continues in his own way - that of waiting for me to say hello in order to nod.
Also, I noticed that if I don't talk to him first, he won't talk to me, however, if I talk to him, we will have a conversation. When I told him if I was bothering him as I was always talking to him first, he said no and asked me the same question.
Another thing, once we had a fight, and one of my friends, who knows him a bit, told me that once he fights with someone, he won't be friends again with that person. However, some times later, he seems that he made an exception with me as this guy friend and I became friends for the second time.
Why do you think that he is acting this way... so mysterious. Why do you think he is always waiting for me to talk to him first? Do you think that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore, even though he says that I am not bothering him? I am asking you, as when I try to ask him these questions, he would either change subject or just smile like he is saying something in his head but he says nothing to me.
For instance, this friend when he sees his friends (guys or girls) he would go and start talking to them. However, when he sees me, he would look until I see him,and wait till I smile and wave a little hello. Then, he would smile back and nod. However, last time, he did saw me but I didn't recognize him and so I didn't nod. Then I saw him online and after I said hello, he responded in a way as if he was waiting for me to talk to him. He told me that I was walking near him but that I didn't see him. I then told him to come and talk to me when he sees me as I sometimes don't recognize everyone. Then he just sent this: :) and said nothing. However, from that day, when he sees me, he still continues in his own way - that of waiting for me to say hello in order to nod.
Also, I noticed that if I don't talk to him first, he won't talk to me, however, if I talk to him, we will have a conversation. When I told him if I was bothering him as I was always talking to him first, he said no and asked me the same question.
Another thing, once we had a fight, and one of my friends, who knows him a bit, told me that once he fights with someone, he won't be friends again with that person. However, some times later, he seems that he made an exception with me as this guy friend and I became friends for the second time.
Why do you think that he is acting this way... so mysterious. Why do you think he is always waiting for me to talk to him first? Do you think that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore, even though he says that I am not bothering him? I am asking you, as when I try to ask him these questions, he would either change subject or just smile like he is saying something in his head but he says nothing to me.
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