Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it
I don't know, that why I said I could be wrong. However, you'll never know until you step out of your (maybe) comfort zone and ask her or begin flirting with her. If she backs off, she was just being friendly
Why would she encourage me to ignore another girl I talked about and then come sit with me or stand close to Me about a woman I really talk to openly anywhere especially class
Do you mean if I still have the crush on him? Honestly... I'm not sure I'm miss him but do I still love him... I don't know it's been so long but I can't hate him... but do I love him... no idea
If she is older then she is doing it wrong. I mean, it sounds like some middle school stuff. I would ask her if she interested. If she says no, ignore her and move on because this means she's crazy. If she says yes, then see what happens.
Well, you have not told her you're not interested. You stare at her and say nothing. So she may think there is some interest there. You guys need to communicate because this guessing game should be getting old by now.
Well I'd freeze and give her the worst look I ever gave someone like "oh shit it's her". She just seems upset or pissed and she sat down and I could tell she was sad.
Then I looked back at her bc I saw someone open the door, I quickly looked away and then when I was going to leave I look down to avoid eye contact and she said hi in this tone like she was so sad.
Well the other day I opened the door to her and she said hi in a happy higher pitched girly voice and said "oh thank youuuu" in a high pitched girly girl voice.
I don't get it why she responds like this when Im decent to her
Sounds like she might be little off. Have chat with her and let her know that she makes you a little uncomfortable. You all are gonna have to talk at some time.
People like her want to seen and heard. When you ignore them, it drives them insane so they up the anny a bit. Talk loud, show a boob or two (if make, maybe a cock or two) or anything that can get you to acknowledge her. Once you do, she'll ignore you and move on. If you keep doing the same, she'll move on too.
Whoa, calm down. I know this shits frustrating and you just want her to go away. You may have to get really nasty with her. Look, some people don't get the point until you have to hurt their feelings. You may have to set her straight verbally. Example: look crazy bitch, I'm tired of you stalking me and being all weird! If you don't leave me alone, I'll have my sister (or female cousins if no sister) slap yo ass so hard your grandkids with feel the fucking aftershock! Do not bother me again.
It's either attention or she's mental. There's no grey area here. I can tell you're just tired of the bull shit. Law down the law and let her know if she bothers you again, ya gonna have to take drastic action and this may include the police because it's sounds like harrassment to me. She makes you feel uncomfortable, right?
Why does she not have a crush on me she fucking waited half an hour outside of class for nothing when she knows I'm in there and stared at me and does all this for nothing I've constantly brushed her off
Why do all this and continue there's no payoff the most she gets is a polite hi
Everyone else says she's a yandere I'm the worst source of attention and want nothing to do with her
Do. you not understand I don't give her the time of day
I understand but you gotta put your foot down. Give her the attention she deserves. The not so good attention. You gotta nip this in the bud. She's not going away until you deal with her.
Some women are necessary and childish. She happens to be one of them. Also, there could be issues at home that makes her act this way. Who knows but one thing is for sure, you gotta get this issue under control. It's not gonna stop until you do something about it.
No lol I am not. I've been crushed on a have crushed. This whole thing that she's got you going through is no crush. If it was a crush, then you wouldn't feel so uncomfortable around this person. When it's a crush, you feel awkward, annoyed.
Look, you're putting too much stock in this. What makes no sense is this person you speak of. There's something wrong with her. She has no crush on anyone, she's an attention whore. She'll get attention wherever she can find it. She's trying to hit on someone's dad? Something is not right. I don't know what it is but something is going on in her head and it's a fucking mess.
My dear, she's crazy. Stop analyzing the shit she does. Again, there is no logic with woman. If I could read minds, I would tell you what's going on in her head. She's not all there.
Dude why would she always stare at me and tru to get my attention and giggle with her friends around me and her best friend looks at her and says her name when I come into a room
What is stopping you from saying something everyone else thinks
It means Her pride is hurt, She goes all out to get your attention and you refuse to bat an eye, She even shows you her boob and you dont compliment her, she obivious feels she isn't that attractive to you.
Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it
Not too sure, I think there are things people do instinctively when they like someone, like I've seen men that are interested in a female stand a little close with their chest kinda puffed out. It might be something girls automatically do to try and attract the guy she is interested in. It also probably has to do with her personality and self confidence. I have always had low self esteem so whenever I liked a guy I would watch them but I'd never get close to them. If I spoke to them I'd just keep it casual unless I asked if they were single. Usually they would say they weren't though lol.
Yes, she just won't up and say it. Try to be careful though, I've heard way too many stories of guys getting accused of things by girls. Don't want to scare you or anything, but just don't take her to your room, her room, or a room. Date her in public until you really get to know her, if you're going to date her at all.
Nothing too special. It's just another way of showing our interest. I think I've done that a few times, all I can remember about it is that I was so happy being around him, and looking at him made me even happier. His eyes, voice, smile, everything, in that moment just made me so happy. We are married now lol. I doubt it was that stare that made that happen, just had to point that out. You made her happy in that moment by just being you.
And yes, she's flirting. All of the things she's done is because she likes you. If you like her too then ask her out, if not then don't, but don't dwell on it
Hey man just are you dum she wants you BAD REALLY BAD GO ASK HER OUT BUY HER DINNER BE VERY NICE TAKE HER HOME SAY GOOD NIGHT SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT DAY SHE'L BE ON YOU JUST ALWAYS BE NICE ALWAYS BAD BOYS GET LAID GOOD GUY GET IT ALL NIGHT LONG!!!
I would fuck her myself but if you dont want to do that then you should tell her you aren't interested and that she makes you uncomfortable or something.
Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it
the same thing kinda of happend to me in 1992 when i was 15 there was this who tried to get my attention but i was too shy at that time to talk to her i remmber she smiled at me one time i never saw her again after 1993 but i always remmber that
She's not confident in her body, maybe she got dumped by a guy that told her she sucks in bed? So she picks up the thirsty and inexperienced young guys.. something is wrong there. I'm 37 and would never go anywhere near that young
I opened the door to her and she was right in my face a foot away she seemed so happy that I said hi was decent held the door open.. so does she still like me
She's horny for you, son.. she just can't help herself about it. You're uncomfortable about the feeling of being wanted by a girl.. that's the demon, not her. Treat her good, don't let the male species down in shame 😁
Like I said. She's in a waiting mode. She wants you, but it doesn't mean she have to keep herself in the cave until you make a move. Just ask her about the other guy, in a friendly manner.
Well she could be a cheater. Maybe she doesn’t love her guy enough. What about when a guy is with her is she still giving you the same amount of attention
because you probably got her hopes up. "he's finally noticing me." Seriously dude, she is crushing on you by the description you mentioned and you have to ask why?
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What are you waiting for? If you're interested, definitely ask her out. She's totally into you!
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Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it
I think she wanted you to admire her assets lol
Is it obvious or reading into it
I think it depends on the person and how they view things. I also think it's obvious as well; however, I could be wrong so there's no absolute answer
How do you know she's been flirting not being polite
I don't know, that why I said I could be wrong. However, you'll never know until you step out of your (maybe) comfort zone and ask her or begin flirting with her. If she backs off, she was just being friendly
Why would she encourage me to ignore another girl I talked about and then come sit with me or stand close to Me about a woman I really talk to openly anywhere especially class
She must want you to talk to her instead of the other woman
Is she doing all the stuff girls do when flirting or no
Some women make it obvious, others do not. I'm more of an introvert so I would most likely never flirt like that
What are you girls doing when you hold longer eye contact and smile
I guess to show I am friendly and open to communicate with and won't bite anyone's head off for speaking to me lol
Is it obvious she's stealing attention from other females
Probably. I don't know what goes on at your college nor her actions, just the one you mentioned here
Thanks for MHO :)
I used to be like that with a guy that I liked so if I learned anything it's that she wants to spend time with you
Does she still have the school girl crush
Do you mean if I still have the crush on him? Honestly... I'm not sure I'm miss him but do I still love him... I don't know it's been so long but I can't hate him... but do I love him... no idea
No her
From what I could see... she still has a crush on you... I'm about 95% sure about it
Is it from when I was a boy or current
Current
Has she missed me over the years
If she is older then she is doing it wrong. I mean, it sounds like some middle school stuff. I would ask her if she interested. If she says no, ignore her and move on because this means she's crazy. If she says yes, then see what happens.
What do you mean?
Why won't she leave me alone
Well, you have not told her you're not interested. You stare at her and say nothing. So she may think there is some interest there. You guys need to communicate because this guessing game should be getting old by now.
I look at her and give her dirty looks that's it
That may not be enough. Some people don't know how to take a hint. You may have to confront her and let her know there's no chance of a relationship.
Well I'd freeze and give her the worst look I ever gave someone like "oh shit it's her". She just seems upset or pissed and she sat down and I could tell she was sad.
Then I looked back at her bc I saw someone open the door, I quickly looked away and then when I was going to leave I look down to avoid eye contact and she said hi in this tone like she was so sad.
Well the other day I opened the door to her and she said hi in a happy higher pitched girly voice and said "oh thank youuuu" in a high pitched girly girl voice.
I don't get it why she responds like this when Im decent to her
Sounds like she might be little off. Have chat with her and let her know that she makes you a little uncomfortable. You all are gonna have to talk at some time.
What do you mean she's a little off?
She may be a little disturbed mentally.
Why am I told she likes attention I've been ignoring her fuck
People like her want to seen and heard. When you ignore them, it drives them insane so they up the anny a bit. Talk loud, show a boob or two (if make, maybe a cock or two) or anything that can get you to acknowledge her. Once you do, she'll ignore you and move on. If you keep doing the same, she'll move on too.
Why does she do it with me has she wanted to just hangout since I was 14
She sounds complicated and immature. If she really wanted to be with you and all, she'd let you know instead of scaring you away.
What do you mean scaring me away?
Listen I'm sick of people assuming shit I ignored her for 3 years
I avoid looking at saying hi to she contact everything
You do know she showed up 30 mins early to a class for no reason and waited outside after she knew it's my class and did it everyday
Whoa, calm down. I know this shits frustrating and you just want her to go away. You may have to get really nasty with her. Look, some people don't get the point until you have to hurt their feelings. You may have to set her straight verbally. Example: look crazy bitch, I'm tired of you stalking me and being all weird! If you don't leave me alone, I'll have my sister (or female cousins if no sister) slap yo ass so hard your grandkids with feel the fucking aftershock! Do not bother me again.
Why would she do this I'm sick of people saying Its for attention
Yeah I try to avoid her and ignore her I was decent a couple times
It's either attention or she's mental. There's no grey area here. I can tell you're just tired of the bull shit. Law down the law and let her know if she bothers you again, ya gonna have to take drastic action and this may include the police because it's sounds like harrassment to me. She makes you feel uncomfortable, right?
Yes I'm uncomfortable
Why does she not have a crush on me she fucking waited half an hour outside of class for nothing when she knows I'm in there and stared at me and does all this for nothing I've constantly brushed her off
Why do all this and continue there's no payoff the most she gets is a polite hi
Everyone else says she's a yandere I'm the worst source of attention and want nothing to do with her
Do. you not understand I don't give her the time of day
I understand but you gotta put your foot down. Give her the attention she deserves. The not so good attention. You gotta nip this in the bud. She's not going away until you deal with her.
Why would she do this she doesn't get attention and I've been aloof af
Most other guys ask her out or to hangout
She gives me a bad vibe
I thought she has a crush on me and I care about other peoples feelings
Why would a woman stalk someone that treats them bad and go that far just to get their attention and stalk someone for attention they don't get
Some women are necessary and childish. She happens to be one of them. Also, there could be issues at home that makes her act this way. Who knows but one thing is for sure, you gotta get this issue under control. It's not gonna stop until you do something about it.
She's a 22 year-old woman why would she still do this and borderline stalk me look at this realistically
She's stalking someone that acts like she doesn't exist
Then she's got some serious mental issues that she needs to sort out. Do you know if she takes any meds.
I don't know if she takes med
Why would she do it particularly to me I and the only guy that ignores her and wants nothing to do with her
Some people can't handle being ignored, it drives them mental.
Why won't she leave me alone what does she want to happen
She just wants you to acknowledge her. Nothing more. There's no logic with this woman, no matter how much you analyze the situation.
Why would you get buy they broke eye contact and just didn't look back and didn't do anything
To why do you say every single reason except that she has a crush on me
Because it's not a crush. It's an obsession.
How is it not what's the difference between a crush and obsession
I think you are just talking to hear yourself talk now
No lol I am not. I've been crushed on a have crushed. This whole thing that she's got you going through is no crush. If it was a crush, then you wouldn't feel so uncomfortable around this person. When it's a crush, you feel awkward, annoyed.
So if I didn't feel uncomfortable it would be
Yes, I've never had negative feelings when crushing. I've felt shy, awkward, maybe a little unsure, but all those feelings were positive.
I'm not asking you if I have a crush on her I don't
Does she have one on me
No, she does not.
If she does, she had no clue how to Express herself.
Then why would she fucking stalk me you make No sense how does she have this obsession but no crush
She has a crush on her friends dad wants to fuck Him and does the same shit she does it yet he has a daughter her age and is married
Why and how does she not she is this oriented towards someone who wants nothing to do with her
She did the same shit to a guy who's married and openly said she's attracted to and doesn't leave him alone
Why would she do that to me and him
Look, you're putting too much stock in this. What makes no sense is this person you speak of. There's something wrong with her. She has no crush on anyone, she's an attention whore. She'll get attention wherever she can find it. She's trying to hit on someone's dad? Something is not right. I don't know what it is but something is going on in her head and it's a fucking mess.
, she openly told her friend that she wants to f*** her dad behave the same way
She's done that to me and her dad why would she do it
So why is an obsession and not a crush
She treats me the same way as a guy she openly showed she's attracted to
My dear, she's crazy. Stop analyzing the shit she does. Again, there is no logic with woman. If I could read minds, I would tell you what's going on in her head. She's not all there.
Dude why would she always stare at me and tru to get my attention and giggle with her friends around me and her best friend looks at her and says her name when I come into a room
What is stopping you from saying something everyone else thinks
She's fucking with you. She's trying to someone's dad and you. She's mental.
What do you mean fucking with me
What do you mean it's an obsession not a crush
Dude she openly said she has a crush on someone is attracted to them and act the same way they did with me
Why would she do it with me too
do girls get teased by their friends blush around a guy and stalk him and stare at him a lot when they have no interest or no feelings for said person
Hello
Of course her ego is bruised, every woman want's to feel desirable, especially if she's putting herself out there. Have you talked to her about it?
What do you mean her ego is bruised and she's putting herself out there
No bc I don't see her in the way she behaves
It means Her pride is hurt, She goes all out to get your attention and you refuse to bat an eye, She even shows you her boob and you dont compliment her, she obivious feels she isn't that attractive to you.
Low self-esteem why does she do this stuff to me
Because she likes you
She definitely likes you. If you feel the same way, you should definitely ask her to go to lunch or something with you. Good luck 😁
Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it
Not too sure, I think there are things people do instinctively when they like someone, like I've seen men that are interested in a female stand a little close with their chest kinda puffed out. It might be something girls automatically do to try and attract the guy she is interested in. It also probably has to do with her personality and self confidence. I have always had low self esteem so whenever I liked a guy I would watch them but I'd never get close to them. If I spoke to them I'd just keep it casual unless I asked if they were single. Usually they would say they weren't though lol.
Is she confident or no
Yes, she just won't up and say it. Try to be careful though, I've heard way too many stories of guys getting accused of things by girls. Don't want to scare you or anything, but just don't take her to your room, her room, or a room. Date her in public until you really get to know her, if you're going to date her at all.
When she smiled and held long ish eye contact it felt off
What are you girls doing when doing that
Nothing too special. It's just another way of showing our interest. I think I've done that a few times, all I can remember about it is that I was so happy being around him, and looking at him made me even happier. His eyes, voice, smile, everything, in that moment just made me so happy. We are married now lol. I doubt it was that stare that made that happen, just had to point that out. You made her happy in that moment by just being you.
Ask her out to lunch now lol.
Is she shy with me
Doesn't seem like it. Do you like her too?
So does it sound like she knows she's flirting with me
Not to be mean but you got this answer so many times. Either ask her out or don't
And yes, she's flirting. All of the things she's done is because she likes you. If you like her too then ask her out, if not then don't, but don't dwell on it
Hey man just are you dum she wants you BAD REALLY BAD GO ASK HER OUT BUY HER DINNER BE VERY NICE TAKE HER HOME SAY GOOD NIGHT SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT DAY SHE'L BE ON YOU JUST ALWAYS BE NICE ALWAYS BAD BOYS GET LAID GOOD GUY GET IT ALL NIGHT LONG!!!
She gets a boyfriend shortly after I ignore her every time
Why are you treating her differently? Because of the boyfriend?
Bc I realized it's wrong how I treated her
So you are treating her decently again?
She is totally into you.
I would fuck her myself but if you dont want to do that then you should tell her you aren't interested and that she makes you uncomfortable or something.
Why does she react like that the one day I was decent
Well sometimes you dont give her the time of day.
Its hard to know exactly without having seen / heard it but I would imagine it was sort of playful or flirty or something.
Was it flirting the way she was saying hi and then when I held the door open for her "oh thank youuuuu"
Was it flirting the way she was saying hi and then when I held the door open for her "oh thank youuuuu"
It seems very obvious to everyone else that she is interested in you.
Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it
Pretty close to other primate pre-mating rituals!
She tried to show her ass?
It is part of primate courting rituals.
She sounds creepy and crazy. I would just be normal and leave people alone lol
Does she have a crush on me
She has a son 1 year younger than me and a boyfriend
But I look old af and for real looked like a dad since I was 15
I look like I'm in my 30s
Maybe she thinks you’re her age and basically if she pays a lot of attention to you then she probably likes you.
She knows I'm young!
Then she’s a bit creepy imho
Does she have like a crush?
It’s hard to say. Maybe she’s just being friendly?
Yep.. she’s into you. Either take it or leave it lol
She also giggles says my name at something I say
17 yo girls do that
Yep!
So why does she do this it feels weird
She’s into you...
Does she have a crush on me
She has a son 1 year younger than me and a boyfriend
But I look old af and for real looked like a dad since I was 15
How old would you say you look?
In my 30s
So is she still into me
the same thing kinda of happend to me in 1992 when i was 15 there was this who tried to get my attention but i was too shy at that time to talk to her i remmber she smiled at me one time i never saw her again after 1993 but i always remmber that
What's that supposed to mean
doesn't sound like she has given up. Do you want her to give up?
Why am I told she likes to tease me
Because she likes to flirt with you. She obviously likes you. So you like her?
She's a dingbat to be flirting fooling around with a nineteen year old.
Why is she
She's not confident in her body, maybe she got dumped by a guy that told her she sucks in bed? So she picks up the thirsty and inexperienced young guys.. something is wrong there. I'm 37 and would never go anywhere near that young
Does she like have a young guy crush on me
I make her feel young?
Hmmm, probably.
Is it like a crush
She seemed interested, and because you didn't make you move, she want on and found someone else to be interested in.
I opened the door to her and she was right in my face a foot away she seemed so happy that I said hi was decent held the door open.. so does she still like me
Ur an idiot. Word will get around about you being retarded in understanding no signals whatsoever. Funny shit
What do you mean? I have autism cut me some slack
You know she likes you. You're just shy about it, and that's what makes you uncomfortable, not her. Just ask her out.
So does she know I'm uncomfortable about it
Does she know I know
She's horny for you, son.. she just can't help herself about it. You're uncomfortable about the feeling of being wanted by a girl.. that's the demon, not her. Treat her good, don't let the male species down in shame 😁
Is she trying to respect that I'm uncomfortable and give me space
Yes. She is in waiting mode. Not for long tho..
She dates other guys and started doing this behind another guys back when she met me
She's dating a guy rn what's the point she hasn't left me alone after at least 2 lol.
Like I said. She's in a waiting mode. She wants you, but it doesn't mean she have to keep herself in the cave until you make a move. Just ask her about the other guy, in a friendly manner.
Well do you think we could be great friends that's what I want she's one of the few women I do want to do stuff with and hangout with
I dunno. You just gotta ask her that directly.
Why do people tell me she likes to tease me
Because she probably is? Just go talk to her. Are you scared of her or something?
What do you mean
I thought you said she wants me hoe can she tease me
If she's teasing that's why I ignore
My point is, I'm not her. You should go ask all of your questions about her directly to her. Do you think you can do that?
What do you mean she probably is teasing me what did you mean
Why are you telling me since the start she likes me and wants me sexually then say she probably is teasing me
What do you mean she probably is
Boy.. because you need to re-check that *possibility* to her directly. You only bring your side of the story, right?
You're giving me mixed messages Saying she wants me likes me then saying she probably is teasing me.
Well she likes you a lot, what are you waiting for. Get her!
She's had bfs and has a boyfriend I don't get it
Well she could be a cheater. Maybe she doesn’t love her guy enough. What about when a guy is with her is she still giving you the same amount of attention
She hasn't been around me with a boyfriend
I’d wait for that moment, It will make everything more clearer
Dude she fucking never leaves me alone and her friends would look at her say her name when I came in a room
Ask her whats up
by the way she's done some of this stuff single some of it not
Well she def likes you but you should be the guy, come to her and try to talk. Maybe she’ll tell you about her feelings
So why would she say hi John and then say "oh thank youuuu" in this girly higher pitched tone the one day I was decent
Well thats how girls talk. Don’t question yourself anything just go up to her I promise you’ll reveal every secret.
What do you mean it's how they talk
There are girls who like to say certain things in high pitched voice, I see this everywhere on the street, at school, on youtube
But really go up to her like I said. You got nothing to lose. Do you like her too?
What I mean is why would she talk to me in that way the one day I was decent
She'd talk to Me in a sad tone when I ignored
this woman or whatever she is, sounds like a stalker. RUN!!
Sounds like she was doing everything aside from using those glow sticks ground crews use to direct planes to get you to notice her. I'd be pissed too.
Why is she like "oh thank youuuu" in this girly high pitched voice the one day I was decent and held the door open for her
because you probably got her hopes up. "he's finally noticing me." Seriously dude, she is crushing on you by the description you mentioned and you have to ask why?
Was it Flirting saying it like that
Holy shit, just give her the dick 🤦♂️she might back off
Seriously why would she