Why do Girls want to play hard to get when they are interested in a guy? (Page 2)
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I don't know but I’ve been told that men get tired of you don’t do that, they get bored and they leave. And I’ve experienced this first hand, playing hard to get seemed dumb to me so I didn’t, and then they left. The one time I tried playing hard to get, the guy ended up dating me. This was just my experience though
It doesn't make any sense. Successful people don't have time for games, it's closing way too many opportunity doors. It's their loss, I would rather develop, enhance or help people than chase girls.
tbh, I don't know, I've never had anyone chase me (also on a scale from 1-10, I consider myself a 5) anyways trying to have someone to chase you is childless, people need to be more direct with one another (and learn how to be direct)
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Speak for yourself, simpleton.
Girls do not play "hard to get". They are uncertain, as any sensible person should be, of the intentions of the other party.
No i am saying after they tend to know the Other person... but still wanna confirm by playing hard games... i think that's where problem starts...
If I don’t get reciprocity from you I’m out. It should be 50/50.
That's why you can't find what you want. You want a man but want to act like man too. Doesn't work that way babe...
@tallcuck 🤔
You know i am right... 5050 is a delusional dream...
@tallcuck intifada dating phase I meant
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Good luck finding what doesn't exist in nature. Unless you mean splitting the bill. That is the only place for 50 50 if you want to feel equal :) As money isn't natural, so you can apply it there to feel good my dear.
@tallcuck I know you’re an alpha male you want it allll 💋
I might be interested in someone, yet I might not want to do anything about it. It is too much struggle to get invested in something like that. I make that clear though.
True, just because we are attracted to someone, it doesn’t mean we are actually interested in a relationship. It’s far less complicated to just avoid it altogether.
It might be a good filter because they would have avoided me, as I wouldn’t be around for more than a day with a game player mostly because I have other options.
Because men want to feel needed but women need to feel wanted. It’s the same reason the woman will leave when the butterflies fly away.
That's so true... man
Playing Hard to get is nothing but manipulation. If a grown woman is doing that, back away and see if she makes an effort for you if she really wants you.
But Sometimes you also had to learn to respect the feelings of others. Everything is not Going to be said to you... something a girl had to also understand the unsaid things.
You can respect the feelings and boundaries in place, while not playing games.
So true
Because of the nation full of horny soyboys who beg her for her.
She becomes defensive!!
So she plays more games.
That’s why got girls in Russia / Ukraine and Brazil don’t do this.
As 98% of men are masculine.
Who beg her for sex!**
Yes... i know this fact... but she can sense by feeling a vibe from a guy. Not all want sex.
Everyone wants sex. Attractive young girls lose interest in sex and men when she’s surrounded by weak men who put pussy on a pedestal.
They are hoping to tease him a little and make the guy show that he values them. It's an innocent intention, but often not well executed.
See Tease them as much you want but don't be so rude that even days you seems to be interested and in odd days... boom everything changed...
If you are not sure you can first take a step and can say hi or hello and then can see that how conversation between both of you goes...
Yes you said right that not well executed
i think this is a smarter option playing hard to get if he's interested in you hell make a move if he doesn't do you really care NEXT
Not if he is been shot down many times before. I Don't shoot my shot anymore unless within the first 24 hours of meeting you proof to me you like me. Done getting rejected and then used for emotional support
That was the dole reason I chose bumble when I decided to do online dating. The girl initiated the conversation
See in online it's very much different but reality is something else...
It is different, but only on bumble does the girl have to express interest first.
Are they usually real people or fake accounts asking you to spend money to get them? I’ve been on some dating sites and the sole purpose of those sites seemed to be for some random girl to message me and act interested, then when she got my number and we got comfortable talking to each other she’d start asking me to spend money on her……
They were scammers
@dray995 I never got that far. They're real people because you have to link it to your Facebook, so it is possible, but harder to Catfish with it. You can pay for premium to give unlimited extensions to matches for them to have more than 48 hours (24+ 1 extension) to contact you, but you don't need to. Everyone that matched with me contacted me in the first 48 hours. I just didn't know how to flirt. Now I have a slightly better idea of how to flirt which I will use if my girlfriend and I break up.
That’s cool but I don’t know if I’d want everyone able to see my FB account.
@dray995 They can't, it just uses pictures from there and uses the account as verification when you long into it. Nobody can see your account unless you want them to.
Yeah, maybe they don't want you to get bored of the relationship.
But the relationships which is about to start still a guy want confirmation from a girls side and there she starts playing mind games... So getting bored is too far...
I don't know there’s been been when I approached girls about it and they acted shy around me. I assumed she liked me because women don’t approach guys. I guessed she didn’t. I’ve also asked some girls why they keep looking at me all the time
Go fuck a prostitute dude.
When you wake to date, you are just an option among 100 s of other men. So don't complain about screening.
Prostitutes are the real deal
Who said that only guys are interested in a girl, i am saying just when both boys and girls have intrest then why to play mind games.
Yes there can be 100s of men but in every 100s , 90s are facing same problem i guess...
Absolutely, but the thing is if we can like one woman, we can also like another woman in the same category.
Similarly, if one woman can find us appealing, she can also find another guy appealing too.
So one doesn't work, there's always another.
Plus it's the shy guys that face most of this problems.
Anyway for women, for Indian women, their parents will find a guy, so I don't think many are concerned about getting a partner
Playing Hard to want is a manipulation tactic. Avoid people who do this as it's a trait of borderline personality disorder.
I never was a fan of how brutal the Dynamics of dating are, sadly they will never change
Do you like girls who play hard to get?
They are dancing around the bush, wasting time to see if he has enough money to spend on her so she can continue to be lazy and not work.
Crude way of putting it but not wrong. They wanna see what you have and are willing to spend on them resource wise.