Why would a girl sleep with my friends to get back at me, but when I brought up her behavior, she acted like I was wrong for bringing it up?

[Anonymous]

We weren't dating, but she was constantly playing games and being manipulative. She was jealous and would get back at me for (accidentally) making her jealous by sleeping with my friends and then telling me about it.

She wanted to be involved and when I respectfully voiced my concerns about her behavior, she got indignant and acted like I was being disrespectful, mean and crass. She then made a speech about me owing her respect and I MUST treat her like a queen ("how DARE you bring that stuff up... I deserve respect").

Why would a girl have crummy manipulative behavior, and act indignant and prideful if a guy brings up his concerns and reservations?

[limsasi]

Respect is two-way. She obviously don't respect you because she slept with your friend. I'm sorry to say this too, but if your friend knew you liked her and still slept with her, you might want to rethink that friendship as well.

I despise people who act like they deserve the world when they haven't done a single thing to earn it. She seems very self-centered. Leave, there are real women out there who aren't little girls.

[NZGirl07]

She seems to be a narcissist and focus only on herself. Also, she probably knows what she did was wrong to an extent and doesn't want to admit it.

[slatyb]

"... she was constantly playing games and being manipulative." Why are you still riding the crazy train?

[Blackcosmo]

She sounds like a snob and her way of dealing with problems is very immature. You deserve better.

[Texas2stepper]

Do you know what a narcissist is?