Dear 'nice guy' haters,
Not all nice guys are just pretending to be nice to get into a girls pants,
Not all nice guys are ugly, boring guys trying to get with women out of their league,
Not all nice guys lack the self-respect to call it quits with a woman not interested in them (the 'friendzone'),
Not all nice guys believe in the friendzone,
Some nice guys are more direct about their attraction to a woman,
Not all nice guys think they are owed sex,
Pointing out that the bad guys often get women doesn't mean you think you are owed sex,
Pointing out that some women play games like hot and cold doesn't mean the guy is not nice,
Pointing out that men are expected to do most of the work (approaching, paying for date, making most of the conversation, etc.) does not mean the guy is not nice,
Pointing out that it's ridiculously hard for some men to get a girlfriend does not mean the guy is not nice,
Pointing out that many women act ridiculously about doing things liks saying 'hi, how are you' on online dating does not mean that the guy is not nice,
Pointing out that many women expect guys to hold the burden of conversation does not mean the guy is not nice,
Pointing out that often times personality attributes like introversion, genuine compassion and analytical facilities are often unattractive to women does not mean that the guy is not nice,
Pointing out that some women have taken guys for a ride because they showed her niceness does not mean the guy thought he was owed sex.
Dear 'nice guy' haters,
Stop the hatred.
Stop trying to shame nice guys,
Stop trying to justify the bad decisions that some women make.
Stop telling them they need to suck it up and that it's their fault the way things are,
Stop telling them they're just pansies and beta males just because they are respectful to women and want to know why they are not successful.
Nice guy haters are hurting the wrong kinds of guys nowadays by offering generic and cliched advice to men with legitimate complaints and actual questions about how they can improve and become more successful with women. These people are hurting actual nice guys by giving them illegitimate criticism and trying to help the kind of guy (the so-called 'nice guy') that will never listen to them anyway.
In many ways, the nice guy hater has become worse than the fake 'nice guy' internet phenomenon - yes that's right, the nice guy hater is worse than pretend 'nice guys'. That's because people pay attention to the ideas and misconceptions of the latter and in doing so, his ideas and misconceptions about women actually become more popular and well-spread - not less popular. Yes, that's right nice guy haters: by attempting to address this type of man's concerns you are not only hurting genuine nice guys, but you are helping to spread around the types of false beliefs that the fake 'nice guy' holds.