Do you miss your ex at Christmas?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I were together 2 1/2 years and broke up at the end of the summer. She didn't really give me a concrete reason why, just thinks the chemistry wasn't there anymore. I like to tell myself I'm over her, then today comes.. I think of the past few years when I put so much time, effort and energy into her gifts and just really enjoyed her company. I miss her today. It just leaves me wondering if I've even crossed her mind. New Years too.. we always had a routine of going out for a romantic dinner, and to watch the ball drop. She's a party animal now and god only knows what kind of terrible decisions she's made since we've broken up.. But girls, do you ever think of your ex's on holidays and would-be anniversaries, etc? (I was her first everything too, btw)

[Anonymous]

Wow! Just like me :( I too kept telling myself I am over him but yesterday was just so painful to be there alone without him next to me warming up next to the fire pit. I just kept thinking what was he doing at that moment and if he was even thinking about me. It really hurts huh? He was also my first everything, but I don't know if I meant a lot to him. I was hoping I'd get a call from him saying "merry christmas" but got nothing. I do miss him very much, just realized yesterday. It really isn't the same when you spend these holidays without someone you love and really want to be with :(

[eowyn]

Abso-freakin'-lutely. She has definitely thought about you. And I'm sure she is thinking about you. She may not be wanting you back but we all think back to the guys we've dated and share memories quietly to ourselves. Even if she is totally over you...she'll never forget you. I randomly think about memories I had with guys I dated yearrrssss ago. I'll never forget them.

[Layne]

I sure hope my ex is thinking about me we sure loved each other at one point

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago for the same reason, I just didn't feel the chemistry anymore. He was my first everything too. I still think about him a lot and I still care about him, just not in the same way I used to. He still means a lot to me and I know I will never forget him.

[ekspain]

Yeah its normal. She's probably thinking about you too. Our ex-lovers shall haunt us forever.

I had a long relationship of 4 years. we spent many a Christmas in her town in Spain, lots of romantic nights. Things I won't forget. Now, its been nearly 4 years since we broke up, and I'm seeing another woman, whom I can say I love very dearly. but it took a while.

however fostering those thoughts aren't going to get you out of those thought patterns faster.

You'll find someone special, and it'll be someone with whom you;ll get along better

[brettb]

Yea my ex of 2 years broke up with my in july this year and I missed her soo much today. almost enough where it started to hurt again. I too keep telling myself I'm over her, but again today sucked. I'm falling for a different girl but when I was driving to my families place and hearing all the damn songs about love and chirstmas, its the worst feeeling I've got in the longest time. ESpecially since we spent each christmas togther. Yea unfortunatley it still hurts.

[ryanontario]

yeah of course I though about her , did this last night and the whole thing was pretty painful to just sit there hopelessly wondering what she was up to and all that . but I don't know what else to say I guess life goes on and 2010 is a new year and will be some new girls in my life soon.

[Anonymous]

yeah I do. Christmas is the worst :(