Guy friend suddenly very quiet to me why?

[Lynn1989]

Hi a guy I work with and was close to has suddenly gone really kinda quiet and shy/mardy round me.

We had small argument but nothing major and now at work he teases me lots in front of others of on our own will only sometimes talk or not. He seems to give others lot more attention I notice if I give other guys more.

Any ideas? I have boyfriend but he puts him down as well to me.

[reptocarl]

Hard to say. It might just be a strictly coworker relationship

[Lynn1989]

But we was very close before argument, he upset me and I told him and he went off on one to me, saying don't text sick of it but yet before argument was fine with it.

He likes to give his advise to me on things too and liked to lunch with me and buys me birthday gifts. He would always come and ask my opinion on stuff now he imitates my voice or takes the mick and won't tell me about girls he texting as did, but tells others but stares at me like upset.

[reptocarl]

Ask him what he wants

[Lynn1989]

He is a nice guy but he was so forgiving before he says he is fine and stuff but you can tell different, it's like he will come to my desk and talk work but like he wants to stay there longer like he did, I feel someone said something but I could be wrong.

[Lynn1989]

What do you mean? He called me needy so I backed right off but yet if I talk to others near him more so guys he looks annoyed like, but yet calls my friend his favourite even though she not

[Lynn1989]

He said I did that to annoy me but I never said anything to him and says how he likes me to be but says he was angry but ok now but still acts like this teasing, not saying bout other girls as did before and not wanting me to do anything like make him drink etc

[reptocarl]

This guy sounds really strange. You might be better off ignoring him

[Lynn1989]

It's like he does stuff to annoy me but yet am the one who done so much for him out of work he even said that, but he so nice to others which is fine but why treat me like dirt and different. Do you think wanted sex?

[reptocarl]

Ask him why he's been acting so weird

[Lynn1989]

I have he just says he is fine n I was needy but I texted him bit at that time as I wanted to know why he was so rude and he never replied, he reckon his mate out of work said it's weird n am needy... But yet others are ok to text him etc my friend who sits opposite him always saying don't talk to him and does seem to not want me to talk to him that's weird... But says as he uses me but yet she always chatting but she married etc not interested but seems to ask lot questions. He does talk more I notice when she not there too

[Lynn1989]

I just find after 2 years of being good friends etc he like this, at times he is old self but then no reason goes cold on me? But stares and just gazes at emails I sent him as sit behind, and if I talk about my boyfriend he will go well he don't like me am the enemy etc and be weird about him