Do they more often pursue both, make a deal on which one of them should or both just decide not to go through with it.
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As a guy - what would you do?
The girl decides in the end but it may spell disaster with their friendship. Story of my relationship. His friend who was dating someone else at the time set us up but then he got dumped an became bitter. He'd call me and tell me how much my husband boyfriend at the time was a player and how he treated girls like dirt. I never saw it and my now mother in law used to tell me how big of a player the other guy was. When I rejected his claim he began to be verbally abusive. That's when my boyfriend now husband stopped hanging out with him.
Well it makes sense that they both fight for her! But you know guy they don't talk much about it since they want stay friends! WOW? Are 2 friends fight for you?
They did before - it was awkward and weird.
Mainly because I liked both of them as friends.
Interesting results from the guys lol, I assumed they'd both persue her and see what happens
may the better man win ;)
Intricate male laws here.
If someone called dibs they get her unless the other person pulls a "I think she's the one for me" or outright confesses to having feelings for her. There are also several clauses about how many times you can call dibs, success rate etc.
All in all though, IF they actually shared that they like the girl and someone wants more than a ONS, its almost always a deal on who gets her. If its just a ONS it boils down to who gets the first try. Which isn't that serious anyhow.
Guy usually don't talk about their feeling, they just go for it. So choice E make sense.
All the other choice about "arrangement" and "talking" and stuff seem more of a chick thing.
Yeah... sounds to me like that would mostly be the case with guys in general...
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I think its based on how much both r intrested in a girl.. if one guy likes her less than his friend than he generally back off... but if both have same interest in that particular girl than it often creates conflict.. believe that girls have power to break any friendship between guys..
I'll tell you how that works in my group. Both give it a try. Both ask the girl out. Whoever she goes out with first wins and continues, other backs off. Basically, we let the girl decide. Afterall a relationship is a two way street. If A backs off while B pursues and later we find out that she liked A more, it gets really bad. SO better to let HER decide.
I voted the last option. Most of guy friends never really talk about who they are going after, they just go for it. If I see him making a move out at a bar or something, I give him his space and let him do his thing. That doesn't happen very often to be honest.
1- bros before hoes
2- after that's established, whoever called dibs
I don't believe dibs is a thing
@HookingSwan you can believe whatever you want, hun... doesn't make it true.
We go to battle!!
I was like this with a gym buddy about a year ago. This goddess in the gym. Ended up she had a boyfriend anyways, so its all good.
I'd let the girl decide; she should have some say in the matter. Whatever her decision, the two friends should agree with.
I only talk about crushes with very close friends, and I try to keep them out of e. g. my school, so either it's not happening or we don't talk about it.
just go for it. if the first guy to make a move messes his thing up, now's your opportunity.
I'm not sure, but I think C is the usual procedure :P
Battle to the death!
But really I think it's the girl that decides.
Let the games begin , If i win her over than ^^ i win. But if they happen 2 win good for them
Well, I don't know how humans do it but, animals duke it out, some fights are often even lethal
i voted A, but I meant E. i found the options confusing.
Or friendships end over things like this
Rock, Paper, Scissors
Let da best win! XD
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