Why are you so interested in snooping through his phone so badly?
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I don't even want to snoop that bad. I just want him to stop acting like he has something top secret on there and then saying he has nothing to hide. It's contradicting and makes my mind go to the worst, ya know?
I don't care. He knows my password. I leave my phone right next to him all the time when I'm not in the room. He knows I'm so open about that but he says he's "just not like that"
Then you got the issue, not him. I would only love someone who trusts me and loves me, not someone whose "trust" means not actually trusting me and holding a gun to my head saying she'll leave me if I don't let her go through all my personal data.
I would never demand my girl to show me her shit even if she allowed me to.
How can you trust someone blindly? I'm supposed to just trust him because he tells me I should? I've done that for over a year and I'm over it. If he doesn't have anything he doesn't want me to see, then he would prove it in order to gain my trust. He's lied to me in the past so it's not like I don't have s reason to believe he could possibly be hiding something.
Please tell me how? Everyone couple I know holds the other persons phone and its no big deal. I'm not trying to snoop. I'm just so annoyed that he can't even let me see ANYTHING he does on there. That's just wrong and it's a sign that he's hiding something big from me.
It's possible he keeps a personal log of all of his daily activities and or thoughts and is embarrassed about you potentially finding out. Or he is hiding something more serious. But if you ask me I wouldn't think too much into it unless he has given you a lot of other reasons to doubt him. I don't think you have issues you just want peace of mind there's nothing wrong with that and trust is the most important thing in a relationship after all.
@LyfeSuo Thank you. It is very important. And I love him more than anything. And I want more than anything to be ABLE to trust him. I just feel like this is a major problem that he's acting like you're hiding something from me. It's not okay and I'm not going to tolerate it. People can say I'm being irrational or crazy, but I'm not going to be with someone that can't share a part of their life with me. I'm not going to put myself in a position to potentially be hurt. If I mattered enough to him and if he truly loved me, he would just show me who he's been talking to and be done with it. But he has to be hard headed and secretive and it's not going to workout in his favor.
I get that. But when it's to the point when I can't even trust him because I don't know who he is behind his phone, then you would think he would step up and prove it to me that nothing's going on.
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Why are you so interested in snooping through his phone so badly?
I don't even want to snoop that bad. I just want him to stop acting like he has something top secret on there and then saying he has nothing to hide. It's contradicting and makes my mind go to the worst, ya know?
Oh thats always a bad sign :/
No Bueno no Bueno in my opinion
he has pics of his exes on his phone , i know i do
Would you like him to look through your shit?
I don't care. He knows my password. I leave my phone right next to him all the time when I'm not in the room. He knows I'm so open about that but he says he's "just not like that"
Then you got the issue, not him. I would only love someone who trusts me and loves me, not someone whose "trust" means not actually trusting me and holding a gun to my head saying she'll leave me if I don't let her go through all my personal data.
I would never demand my girl to show me her shit even if she allowed me to.
How can you trust someone blindly? I'm supposed to just trust him because he tells me I should? I've done that for over a year and I'm over it. If he doesn't have anything he doesn't want me to see, then he would prove it in order to gain my trust. He's lied to me in the past so it's not like I don't have s reason to believe he could possibly be hiding something.
That's what love is, if you can't put that faith into someone, they won't put it into you either and you are not in love.
If he loved me, he would show me so it could stop eating me up inside and causing me to worry.
No, if you loved him it wouldn't be eating you up inside.
I do love him? That's why I don't hide things from him and act suspicious about it.
That's pretty fucking weird, to want someone go through all yoru personal shit with no problem is a sign you need to get a personal life of your own.
Please tell me how? Everyone couple I know holds the other persons phone and its no big deal. I'm not trying to snoop. I'm just so annoyed that he can't even let me see ANYTHING he does on there. That's just wrong and it's a sign that he's hiding something big from me.
you know some weird couples.
It's possible he keeps a personal log of all of his daily activities and or thoughts and is embarrassed about you potentially finding out. Or he is hiding something more serious. But if you ask me I wouldn't think too much into it unless he has given you a lot of other reasons to doubt him. I don't think you have issues you just want peace of mind there's nothing wrong with that and trust is the most important thing in a relationship after all.
@LyfeSuo Thank you. It is very important. And I love him more than anything. And I want more than anything to be ABLE to trust him. I just feel like this is a major problem that he's acting like you're hiding something from me. It's not okay and I'm not going to tolerate it. People can say I'm being irrational or crazy, but I'm not going to be with someone that can't share a part of their life with me. I'm not going to put myself in a position to potentially be hurt. If I mattered enough to him and if he truly loved me, he would just show me who he's been talking to and be done with it. But he has to be hard headed and secretive and it's not going to workout in his favor.
Fuck that! Obviously, has hiding something
His property, is not your business
It sounds like he has something to hide.
because privacy.
I get that. But when it's to the point when I can't even trust him because I don't know who he is behind his phone, then you would think he would step up and prove it to me that nothing's going on.
Mmh dem pictures?