I know it's difficult to read shy people, but since I have introverted qualities (I'm an ambivert), I can help you.
If I'm interested in a girl, my behavior around her will be very different from other girls. Although I always appear calm to every girl that I talk to, with the girl I like, I will not break eye contact, or I'll break it frequently to look down at the floor because I'm nervous. In comparison to other girls, I can be aloof and a bit coy sometimes since I don't know if you like me back. If I'm standing while talking to a crush, I will face her with my feet pointed to her. I will also lick my lips or look at hers. I will not glance at my crush, but instead give longer stares to let her know that I'm looking at her from afar. I'm also less friendly with my crush compared to friends and other females. I will tease her and try to make her laugh while trying to avoid being friendly. I will also only talk to my crush if she's alone and at no other time. It doesn't matter how often a shy guy talks to you. His behavior around you compared to others matter more. I hope this helps you with your crush.
Just let him know that you enjoy the chats with him. And that its okay for him to start the conversations. Mostly shy guys are just too courteous of others. As in if they feel like they are not wanted they will tend to just slide out the back door. And only really stay if you express to them that they are wanted.
The stuff shy guys and gals though that its probably to be warned about is that they notice details. And generally the gifts shy people give are done out of a lot of thought. The only negative is that shy people dont give gifts out too commonly unless its for a special occasion.
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That's pretty much the scenario I'm going through so i might give you some info. Because it involves my fitness class trainer i avoid giving any clear signs of interest. I do however try and make eye contact with her from time to time and try to give it some kind of intensity hoping she might get it. I've been going to her classes each week for the past year and yet i've only gotten the courage to talk to her briefly yesterday. I'd probably not make a move because I don't want to make her feel awkward if she's not into me, hoping she'd give me some clearer signs first. I also hoped showing commitment would make her get it, but then i started fearing she might think i'm stalking her. So yeah it's basically one long stream of overthinking stuff all day long for shy guys.
If i didn't like her I'd probably not want to spend any time at her class or at least ignore the shit out of her. Please keep in mind that with shy guys sometimes if they have no problem talking to you it's a sign they might not be into you since there's nothing to lose and so no point in overthinking. Hope this helps.
I used to be terribly shy. If you wonder how I look like you only have to look in the dictionary and search for the word "Shy". It probably has my picture next to it.
I think you are correct about the liking part. I did those things too and also all the other shy guys I have ever known.. I was also afraid to start a conversation with a girl even if I already knew her. But I would talk to her if she started talking to me, although I would suddenly start to stutter a lot. The same for all the other shy guys I have known.
When a guy doesn't like you he will not talk to you at all. That has nothing to do with shyness by the way.
As an anti social guy myself, if he shows effort to talk/text you then he wants to. He isn't just doing it out of kindness. That being said, it's easy for us to feel like we are being smuthered so respect his wish to not always being talking. Nothing against an S. O., just the way we are. Need some space at times.
regardless of what they feel for you, they'll be doing all of that depending on how deep they are sunk into shyness
the only way to tell if a man really loves you both simple yet complex when it comes to verify:
are you in his mind, like carved into it?
does he reminds details related to you?
are you sometimes/often the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up?
Texting wise I love that she would text first... But sadly she doesn't, makes me cry a little no one texts me first.
As for in person I used to be extremely shy and still am to some extent. I tend to come off as more than a friend I guess cause I don't want to insult her by admitting my sexual attraction to her as well as my feelings for her which I'm terrified she'll reject me.
So honestly I do some of the things you listed by mostly avoiding eye contact.
You will know that I like you if I seem more friendly to everyone but you, or if I say something stupid at the end of a nice conversation. If I see that we might actually be going somewhere I will initiate relationship sequence, but if not I'll ignore you until the feelings go away.
If a shy guy likes you, he'll show signs, but try to hide them from you. If you're at a party he might be looking at you the whole time, but look away as soon as you look towards him. Maybe try to catch him frantically looking away, or get a friend to 'monitor' him when you're not looking.
For my part, if I ever feel somone or I'm attracted to a girl I will just listen to metal or "Da Pacem Domine"" or "Crucem Sanctam Subiit" waiting that feeling to pass.
Killing emotions is best way to avoid going crazy, at least for me.
They show it with big open mouths and black eyes. Like this shy guy:
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As a bit of a shy guy myself if I like a girl I make it look like I'm not following her but I am. I also look at her a lot and just try to talk to her as much as possible.
If she texts first, I will text back at least enough to complete a conversation. I might not the next day without additional texts from her. I do avoid eye contact considerably.
He may hide he likes you from fear of judgement by others or saying something stupid etc.
If he likes you you will no when you get to no him. When they feel comfortable around you to open up.
yes, yes they will look at you until you say something.. they will pay attention to you when they are not they are listening to you. they are not afraid to text.
If he likes you just assume you are a scary ghost in front of him. If doesn't you are human.
They will be nervous but their shyness will show that they like you
Shy guy does whatever the girl he likes ask. Ask for something difficult and he will surely do it. Unlike the guys that are playboys.
Some of them never show you any signs.
as a shy person, I would be terrified If my crush found out I like her.
Shy guys are like a wall or a lesbian submissive girl.
Hide that he's looking at you. Casually gets close to you. "Accidentally" touches you.
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