Guys, do shy guys try to make the girl they like jealous?

[Anonymous]

And why would he be doing this? Like he was trying to show me that he has other girls to talk to on social media (he's a shy guy) and he made sure I found out about it through our mutual friend.

[Smoky313]

He is probably trying to demonstrate value. He thinks that if you see his other female options, you'll work harder to keep him. Potentially because he's insecure?

[Asker]

I definitely think he's insecure and I didn't mention this in the details but I'm an attractive girl and I get a lot of attention from guys... even his own friends check me out all the time... does this increase his insecurity? I think he believes that I'm out of his league... my friends have even said so...

[Smoky313]

Sounds about right...

[Asker]

So what can I do to make him believe that I like him? I guess he still does like me?

[Smoky313]

I would just be honest with him. Tell him how you feel and let him know that he doesn't need to feel insecure

[Flyhigh21]

It depends on the guy. Some shy guys may want to make a girl jealous and some may not.

[Asker]

And why would they want to make her jealous?

[Flyhigh21]

Maybe he wants you and he wants to see how you react. He wants to see if you care enough to show any reactions.

[Asker]

Like what kind of a reaction does he want me to give?

[Flyhigh21]

Maybe he doesn't want a reaction. He finds your breasts pleasing and eye catching. and wants to stare. The only way you could know is if he makes a move. Like flirts, hugs you, or touches you in anyway. He may find you attractive even though he has a wife.

[Robsinsf53]

He probably doesn't have a clue. He is just trying something different.