Can someone explain to me why black girls get mad when, "successful" black guys date white women?

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again I keep hearing this. Nobody gives two flying fucks if he dates any other race but if it's a white woman everybody loses their damn minds. my mom got mad at me because I said it doesn't matter since , "successful" black women date white guys all the time and nobody cares. she claims that white women wouldn't date him if he wasn't rich (maybe true but I see it all the time). it's ridiculous

can someone explain to me why black girls get mad when, "successful" black guys date white women??

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RolandCuthbert | 299 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Uhm. . . I don't know. I think the post isn't really observant of facts. "Black" men date out/marry out three times as much as "Black" women. And even when "Black" women do marry out, they stay connected to the culture/community. Many "Black" men cut all ties.

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awesometjgreen

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that's just not true in my opinion. just because a black guy doesn't act, "black" it doesn't mean he's trying to be something else
RolandCuthbert

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Oh, I agree. Some folks use the racial definition of the word "Black". Most of us use the cultural definition. That's why terms African-American or "Black" American became popular. Some guys are not apart of the culture because they never were raised in it. And that is completely understandable.

But the stats on "Black" men dating out are factual. I think those stats use the racial standard.

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awesometjgreen

that's just not true in my opinion. just because a black guy doesn't act, "black" it doesn't mean he's trying to be something else

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RolandCuthbert

Oh, I agree. Some folks use the racial definition of the word "Black". Most of us use the cultural definition. That's why terms African-American or "Black" American became popular. Some guys are not apart of the culture because they never were raised in it. And that is completely understandable.

But the stats on "Black" men dating out are factual. I think those stats use the racial standard.

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Mexicoman101

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I don't know why that is

That image made me laugh tho

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awesometjgreen

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lmao

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awesometjgreen

lmao

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Ccmama

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I'm a black girl, and I wouldn't be angry. I myself have dated a white guy that I really liked. Sometimes, you have to move on to people who appreciate and treat you better, regardless of race.

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rxm_bxl

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They I guess feel like they are not good enough for him all of a sudden he's successful and doesn't want a black women, we are not good enough for him. Prolly what they think

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deraz24 | 317 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Everyone thinks people should be within their race to some extent, I love everyone but I guess some may see it as a cop out lol

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This_is_my_username | 352 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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GAG really love to discuss why all races love white women. So don't worry you're fine. 😂😂

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awesometjgreen

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that's not what I'm talking about so please read my post first

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awesometjgreen

that's not what I'm talking about so please read my post first

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Samantha2448 | 85 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Id prefer if he wasn't rich because then i wouldn't have to explain why im with a black guy. I have dated a few in the past and it was because i genuinely like the m

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Anonymous

I think it feels like just one more time a white person took something that they didn't have a right to.

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Anonymous

Over in my country blacks aren't retarded. I think it's mainly the US, where blacks tend to act retarded. Maybe it's because of the years of segregation and the ghettos, but I always find it fascinating

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exhaustedfromlife

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I don't get mad, I have no control over his actions.

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rini019

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I'm a black girl and I don't get angry at them lmao it's the guy's choice to date someone outside his race, same to females. I don't care, honestly.

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milettescheepers | 57 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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jealous

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Anonymous

look it up!

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