Does he like me...and why has he stopped looking..?

[ravenheir89]

There's this guy at my workplace whom I realize have been staring at me from a distance for quite some time. When I realize he stares I stare back and our eyes lock for a few secs before I look away. I didn't smile and he never smile either. This happens a lot of times.. and usually its him who initiate the eye contact.. I always happen to 'realise' he's been staring...

I think by now he obviously knows I'm aware of him staring. Recently though he don't look at me much anymore. Sometimes he just look secretly from the corner of his eye. When I'm with my friends it seems that he just don't want to look at me like he usually does when I'm alone.

Im just confused with the signs he's showing. Is he interested in me and has 'given up' since I never actually smile at him..? or he's just not interested from the 1st place...?

plus, guys do you act differently when the girl you like is with her friends...?

Because what I think is probably going through his mind is '' I bet this girl told her friends that I've been staring at her, because they seem to look at me and laugh when I'm around..so I better back off''...

(I told my friends abt my crush and they wanna see who he is, so one day I was with my friends and when he came, they kinda look at him and hype up the situation...)

I just fear that he's feeling that way, because I don't want him to feel like that! Because I actually like him too...i just don't know what to do with the situation... how should I act now towards him?

any advices?

thanks

[mlblover]

he may be a shy type of guy and usually people like that won't approach a girl because they are afraid to get turned down. I used to talk to a guy like that, I would suggest making the first move. Find a similar interest and just approach him, that will break the ice and it lets him know that you are friendly so in the future he won't be scared anymore.

[CocoPops]

That's a long story and its hard to make sense of it lol

But I think he hasn't lost interest, but if his smiling, flirting and showing off in front of other girls then maybe his a player, especially if his showing interest in your friends that's wrong!

[flower1000]

ohh dear lol he likes you prob for a while but is shy and doesn't know how to app you and with you stareing back at him he maybe thinks he's creeping you out so he's not scarring you so he's stopped it now the only way you will over this is to let HIM know your not imtimidatged by his stare and you infact like him so 1 simple smile to him will tell him everything he needs to know and maybe make a connection between yous :) good luck ( 1 simple smile ) will do it