Why do some men basically say they want a women who makes little effort? (Page 3)

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honestly I see so many men say they hate women who wear makeup, dress up, or get their nails done etc, Only like natural beauties, I get liking natural girls I get it wanting a natural beauty, but it’s strange to me why so many guys would hate a woman who puts effort into her appearance rather than just wakes up gets out of bed then chucks anything on with zero effort, why do you think so many men say this? I’m not talking about “high maintenance” I’m talking just a woman who takes care of herself and makes a effort what is unattractive about making a effort? Like I notice men don’t seem to have a problem about women going to the gym or taking care of her body or weight but I don’t see why a woman dressing up or making herself look nice is a bad thing because it shows they care about themselves in the same way if they work out or put effort into their bodies, surely it’s a good thing. opinions? (I know this isn't all men by the way, it’s why I put “some”)

Twalli · Answer

If a girl is hot without effort that's better than if she needs a few hours in the bathroom to look good.

DonCachondo · Answer

Because effort dedicated toward gratuitous, expensive window dressing that isn't even permanent is wasted effort

coffeewithcream · Answer

Changing a tire once in a while would be nice.  Passing me a screwdriver would go a long way to making a little effort.  :)

Shy_Steve · Answer

We usually don't want a Girl to have a lot of makeup etc because it looks fake and unattractive.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Because almost all women make no effort so getting a little effort is like winning the lottery

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No, what they want is a woman who is not OBSESSED with her looks.

lofii · Answer

Little touches are good. However for example the girl in the picture is too much for me

scooogy · Answer

Wait please, I'll have to walk about 2 lightyears to whatever extreme these men are at right now...

msc545 · Answer

Too much emphasis on appearance is frequently perceived as contrived.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s pretty much the insecure men wanting “low effort” women. Rich men and men who value women, will want the woman to be “high effort”, in appearance and relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

because a lot of men, are sick and tired of how women normally play a passive role when it comes to meeting men and starting a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I like less makeup. I just want to see a woman’s face. A bit of concealer and eye liner look great. When a girl wears a lot of makeup she looks ugly. You also wonder what she looks under all that mess

Slim57 · Answer

I don't know where y'all find these guys they sound dumb af lol

perfectchaos · Answer

I don't mind effort but I don't want miss fake.

Cryptic-Game · Answer

Because she will be ready to leave when it is time to leave and not take 20 minutes in the bathroom to get ready.

ShawnBalshaw · Answer

She better put effort to get a chance to be by my side or she is hitting the road

Browneye57 · Answer

Sounds like you're dealing with BOYZ.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Wish I had a answer puzzling

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

Who the hell says that?

Unit1 · Answer

I guess they hate what they cannot have.

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