short answer, he's a jerk and is using you. Long answer, many reasons why he might be doing that, maybe he has another one or twelve on the side, maybe he's just a player.
it doesn't sound like a guy at all.. like most girls do that but.. i dont think a guy ghosts a girl that can be available for sex... maybe he was busy?
Because people are players nowadays. That's it. None of it makes sense but it's too easy to play the fool and with feelings, get sex and keep your options open.
Well, that's the other side of the coin. He could of used distance as an excuse not to see you... and simply wanted sex once to up his scoreboard. I'd move on from it and try to find someone decent.
Before we started talking he talked about the distance. So I don’t think it was an excuse. I know distance is a massive thing for him like he’d never date anyone far from him cause his got other priorities. Also when other girls messaged him who lived far from him he’s always turned them down cause he was like no point in talking you’re too far but he continued talking to me for a year.
I would never treat a girl like that. If you have sex I would definitely see you soon again for some pleasure again. I would definitely pay your visit with vulva oral.
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They are keeping the girl on the hook, mind games, it's kind of nasty, but psychologically it manipulates the girl, they want her to feel insecure.
no. you are crazy. move on to the next guy or don't. you are always in this situation
You're not going crazy he used you 😕, from that description
Scared of commitment is why a lot of men ghost women ; they don’t want to invest seriously
It's usually not worth it to invest, why should I?
Awww it’s a waste of time when you string a woman ; why not be honest about intentions
she's not either, going on roundabout ways always, and later girls says that we are rock heads that can't take a hint
because human beings are shitty and half the time we don't even realise we're being assholes
That's really shitty of the guy, shame they spoil it for the next guy
short answer, he's a jerk and is using you. Long answer, many reasons why he might be doing that, maybe he has another one or twelve on the side, maybe he's just a player.
it doesn't sound like a guy at all.. like most girls do that but.. i dont think a guy ghosts a girl that can be available for sex... maybe he was busy?
You're not going crazy. He didn't live upto his words. I don't know why he'd do that.
Because people are players nowadays. That's it. None of it makes sense but it's too easy to play the fool and with feelings, get sex and keep your options open.
I’m I just ugly I feel ugly honestly
Even if you were ugly, which I believe no one really is hideous, there is literally someone for everyone.
I could talk about why I did it to guys, I would assume it’s all the same reasons why guys do it to girls.
"Using someone for sex" does not exist. Stop saying it.
It does actually. You've just been lucky it never happened to you.
@Simplismilez... No. It doesn't. And it's not a matter of luck.
Please explain to me how it doesn't exist when it's happened before?
@Simplismilez Sigh. Here you go: . https://www. girlsaskguys. com/sexual-behavior/a58439-using-someone-for-sex-does-not-exist-stop-saying-it
Yeah. Post a link you can't access. That's really proving your point
@Simplismilez... My God. It's not hard. Copy it, erase the spaces. As an exp level 1, I can't post links yet.
Can you summarize all that up into a single question please.
To get that cookie or to fill their time
Or they have no clue what they doing
It's a way to get into our head and make themselves look more interesting than what theya ctually are!
He could simply believe the distance isn't worth it.
I know that’s part of the issue but why did he have to do me like that? Like we’ve been speaking for a year never thought he’d do this 😞
Well, that's the other side of the coin. He could of used distance as an excuse not to see you... and simply wanted sex once to up his scoreboard. I'd move on from it and try to find someone decent.
Before we started talking he talked about the distance. So I don’t think it was an excuse. I know distance is a massive thing for him like he’d never date anyone far from him cause his got other priorities. Also when other girls messaged him who lived far from him he’s always turned them down cause he was like no point in talking you’re too far but he continued talking to me for a year.
u played urself. You had sex with a guy you barely knew, this isn't rocket science.
Those guys are just testing out their sexuality and collect experiences to boost their egos. They don't see you as a partner.
you answered your own question, he is too far away. seeing you takes a lot of work he will probably find someone close r
I would never treat a girl like that. If you have sex I would definitely see you soon again for some pleasure again. I would definitely pay your visit with vulva oral.